Karma & Chaos with Kail Lowry & Becky Hayter

In this emotional episode of Karma & Chaos, Kail shares the news sparking a raw conversation about abandonment, closure, and complicated family ties. She and Becky explore what it means to seek answers from someone who may never give them and whether showing up is healing or harmful. Plus, they touch on elopement guest list drama, the Coldplay cheating scandal, and a “Karma or Chaos” bake sale...

In one of the rawest Karma and Chaos episodes yet, Becky opens up about becoming a mom as a non-birthing parent. From the emotional intensity of watching Leah give birth to grappling with unexpected feelings of disconnection, identity shifts, and grief, Becky shares it all; tears, laughs, and a whole lot of honesty. Kail and Becky also talk about how nobody prepares you for five outfit changes a d...

In a delirious (and low-key emotional) episode, Kail and Becky tackle the viral 36 Questions to Fall in Love - even though they’re already trauma-bonded. They unpack everything from childhood wounds and love languages to dead dad jokes and embarrassing moments that still haunt them. Send your Karma or Chaos stories to info@karmachaospodcast.com For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry  ...

This week gets real . Leah - Becky's wife is dilated - contractions are happening, and somehow we still find time to talk nipple piercings, donor siblings, and whether it’s weird to donate sperm to a lesbian couple you know in real life. Plus, we unpack the parts of grief no one talks about, why breastfeeding broke us, and how monkeys might just be avoiding taxes. To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It...

ENCORE: we are running back one of your favorite episodes! (This week Kail & Becky are testing their knowledge and seeing if they are indeed smarter than a fifth grader. Later in the episode the ladies discuss finances in a relationship and all the different ways couples split them. This leads into a conversation about whether or not college is necessary and is it really all about WHO you know...

Kail and Becky are back with hummingbird drama, bisexual awakenings, and a chaotic Pride Month breakdown. They weigh in on Fletcher’s controversial switch-up, the double standards working moms face, and whether bringing a third into your marriage is karma or chaos . From Twitch debates and poly relationships to parenting realness and queer identity, this episode is chaotic...of course. To submit a...

This week on Karma and Chaos, labor is looming, crackers are criminal, and someone might be getting a bat tattoo. Things take a turn (as they always do) when a conversation about induction leads to imaginary attic pets, religious trauma, and why giving a queer couple a prayer book could be a little upsetting. The girls also unpack internalized homophobia, breaking generational cycles, and why Prid...

In this episode of Karma and Chaos , Kail and Becky dive into everything from hummingbird feeders to airline etiquette and co-parenting struggles. Becky shares an updates on baby prep, microdosing for mental clarity, and navigating moral dilemmas at work. They also unpack a messy listener story about daycare drama, unresolved feelings for an ex, and the fine line between fate and chaos. Expect une...

On this episode of Karma and Chaos, Becky and Kail ask the age-old question: Can straight women and men really be just friends? What starts as a tan-line roast turns into a layered discussion on emotional cheating, polyamory, gender roles, and raising emotionally intelligent sons. Becky reflects on her recent trip to Mexico, witnessing healthy male friendships, and the importance of representation...

From hummingbirds to heated opinions on grilling, Kail and Becky are deep in their lesbian merch and even deeper in conversation this week. They talk everything from syncing periods and sleeping in separate bedrooms to stamp collections, skincare routines & Botox confessions. Becky opens up about her emotional pregnancy journey, her podcast For the Hayters , and finding beauty in raw, real sto...

In this chaotic and hilarious episode of Karma & Chaos Kail and Becky dive into everything from sleep paralysis and period drama to botched home renovations and parenting fails. Kail reveals her upcoming facelift plans and opens up about frustrations with contractor scams, while Becky shares an unfiltered update on her IVF journey and unexpected health concerns. The duo also debates car seat s...

It’s a full circle moment on Karma and Chaos as Kail and Becky finally reconnect after weeks of life doing the absolute most. From baby showers and birthdays to therapy breakthroughs and botox, this episode has everything. Kail opens up about postpartum friendship shifts, feeling overwhelmed hosting her baby shower, and how raising a kid with her sister feels surreal. Becky dives into what it mean...

Becky’s in town and chaos ensues; in the camper, at the mall, and on the Harley. From prom suit adventures with Isaac and a Cheesecake Factory feast, to biker gang names, nesting mode, and conversations about love, loss, and legacies—this episode is peak Karma & Chaos. Plus, the duo gets personal about relationships, parenting styles, baby prep, digital memories, and their thoughts on saying “...

In this chaotic and hilarious episode, Kail and Becky dive into wild listener questions, deep confessions, and totally unhinged scenarios. From debating if bald people need hairnets at restaurants to choosing between cheetoh dust or honey fingers, nothing is off-limits. They reveal their funniest truth-serum confessions; including fart mishaps, shitting in the woods, and awkward moments during sex...

Hey Karmaroos, it’s Becky! I am SO excited to share that For The Hayters is officially back next week with Season 3 - dropping Monday, May 5th. This season is raw, real, and honestly… some of the most powerful conversations I’ve ever had. We’re talking about postpartum depression, fertility, illness, heartbreak, healing, and what it means to start over. So if you’re into deep, unfiltered stories t...

This week Kail and Becky go from grammar gripes to gut-wrenching truths in the span of a single conversation. What starts as a debate over phrases like “taken aback” and “try and” quickly spirals the chaos you know and love. Expect laughter, self-reflection, and maybe a tear or two—because sometimes healing sounds a lot like a conversation between two friends at the edge of a spiral. To submit a I...

This week Kail is asking the tough questions right off the bat; how are YOU spicing up your life? Becky is battling the bears in her backyard and Kail can't seem to understand why Becky is so upset, in fact she's quite jealous. The topic of ghosts gets brought up and the only ghosts Kail believes in are the ghosts of exes past. Later in the episode Kail and Becky finally answer one of your Is It K...

This week Kail and Becky are coming in HOT with the chaos and maybe some crying. Things may sound a little different since we are mixing things up and recording in a new setting. The ladies show a new side of their relationship this week; their sisterly dynamic sometimes gets a little feisty like when they discuss if matcha tastes like dirt, does Becky have street smarts and of course so much more...

This week Kail and Becky are coming to you from NYC. They updated us on the week they spent together. With Becky stepping into mommy duties and Kail expanding her businesses and her driveway there is a ton to catch up on. This week the ladies are joined by a live studio audience making for a really chaotic and fun time. There is plenty of chaos in this episode! For full videos head to patreon.com/...

This week Kail and Becky are sharing some potentially big life updates. Becky may be convinced to do something she never considered and the Lowry farm just keeps on growing! Becky gives us a look into how baby Becks is cooking and we couldn't be more excited. Join us for all the Karma and the Chaos! For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry   To submit an Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story...

This week Kail and Becky discuss Kail's Birthday trip with Elijah; their first time away without the kids. Becky talks about her worries bringing baby Becks into a not so tolerant world diving into how to even begin navigating and proccessing that. Becky asks a question later in the episode that really gets the girls reflecting on their growth. Follow Becky at instagram.com/hayter25 and subscribe...

Listen in to Adrienne, the founder of WellBe, talk about her path to becoming a patient advocate to empower people in their health journey. What lead her there and her personal life experiences with Lyme Disease. For more, visit - GetWellBe.com To hear the full episode visit For The Hayters on Spotify or Apple Podcasts   Share your story at forthehayters.com Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok @fort...

This week Kail & Becky explore the complexities of rekindling friendships, particularly in the public eye, and the emotional nuances involved in navigating personal relationships. They discuss the impact of public perception on friendships and how Kail is in quite a unique circumstance in life when it comes to friendships and the question; is it worth it to rekindle a friendship? Later in the...

Listen in to hear Christina talk about her journey with finding her purpose in life. She talks about her path that lead to helping others, the decisions that she needed to make to allow her to get there, and the structure behind being a Spiritual Coach. To hear the full episode visit For The Hayters on Spotify or Apple Podcasts   Share your story at forthehayters.com Follow us on Instagram and Tik...

This week Kail & Becky are testing their knowledge and seeing if they are indeed smarter than a fifth grader. Later in the episode the ladies discuss fiances in a realtionship and all the different ways couples split them. This leads into a conversation about wether or not college is neccessary and is it really all about WHO you know vs WHAT you know.  Follow Becky at instagram.com/hayter25 an...