Karma & Chaos with Kail Lowry & Becky Hayter

Kail and Becky are trying to survive rock bottom one emotional spiral at a time. After a heavy week, they recap tour highs, therapy realities, internet negativity, and the weird little questions that somehow make everything feel lighter. It’s vulnerable, chaotic, funny, and very on brand for the ladies you know and love. Get your Fatherless Behaviour Tour Tickets here For full videos head to patre...

ENCORE: In a delirious (and low-key emotional) episode, Kail and Becky tackle the viral 36 Questions to Fall in Love - even though they're already trauma-bonded. They unpack everything from childhood wounds and love languages to dead dad jokes and embarrassing moments that still haunt them. Get your Fatherless Behaviour Tour Tickets here For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry   Fo...

You met Kail Lowry at 16, pregnant, on national TV. You never met the girl who came before her. This is a 10-minute preview of part one of my conversation with Kail on For The Hayters, the years no one was watching, told by a friend who thought she knew the whole story and didn't. Want the full episode? Search "For The Hayters" wherever you listen and follow along. For The Hayters is a podcast tha...

Kail and Becky record in real time from Indianapolis before the first tour show, and the chaos is already chaosing. From dirty soda obsessions and tornado warnings to travel confusion, technical difficulties, and the emotional aftermath of Kail’s For the Hayters episode, this one is messy, honest, and very on-brand. They also get into true crime documentaries, airplane seat debates, internet consp...

Kail and Becky are back with the kind of episode that starts with inflation, and somehow ends in grief, cheating, friendship, trampolines, and letting strangers throw a party at Kail’s house. Becky reflects on Father’s Day and the two-year anniversary of losing her dad while Kail opens up about how hard 2026 has been and parenting through big milestones. They also get into cheating, public percept...

Kail and Becky are back in Blairstown recording in real time after a weekend together, and the chaos starts immediately. They get into tour plans, solo attendees, trademark drama in the book community, Patagonia vs. Patty Gonia, and why “Hot Girls Read” has everyone fired up. (After this episode was recorded Allie Rose Co put out a statement & is pulling her trademark) They also talk Beck's fi...

Kail and Becky are back together and catching up on everything from Becky’s Mother’s Day bar crawl adventure to home renovations, tour prep, Pride Month, and the chaos of traveling together. Becky recaps her top-five day flying from city to city, meeting listeners, and debating whether she’s morally allowed to keep using her late dad’s military discount. Kail shares life updates from home, includi...

Kail and Becky wrap up their California trip with an episode full of honesty, chaos, and a few unexpectedly emotional turns. Becky opens with an important reminder to anyone struggling that help is worth asking for before things reach a breaking point. From there, the girls get into hot takes, friendship loyalty, life lessons from past relationships, remote work, motherhood, growing up, and the ve...

Kail and Becky still in sunny California with podcast reviews, tour updates, and plenty of chaos. From audiobook narration and listener feedback to relationship independence, personal space, trust, and keeping your own identity in a partnership, they get into what it really looks like to balance love and autonomy. Plus, they react to wild stories about phrogging, a controversial surrogacy story in...

Kail and Becky are coming to you from California with hotel chaos, fine dining debates, and a very unexpected conversation about octopus, gluten, and why Kail may finally have answers about what’s been making her so sick. They also get into Beck's health update, the terrifying dead mouse situation, Becky’s upcoming move, Kail’s thoughts on possibly relocating, tour ticket updates, fan meetups, and...

Kail and Becky are back with life updates, parenting chaos, and some honest conversations that hit deeper than expected. Kail talks Spanish immersion night, raising competitive kids, tour planning, the Webby Awards, and the frustration of navigating things she can’t fully share yet. Becky opens up about reconnecting with Leah after having Becks, working through the hard parts of new parenthood, an...

This week on Karma and Chaos , Kail and Becky are leaving the wrong kind of chaos behind… allegedly. After a day that can only be described as emotionally illegal, they get into tour excitement, dead dad humor, TikTok live randomness, leaked search histories, and a round of “would you rather” questions that spirals almost immediately. From exes and intrusive thoughts to family group chats, fake jo...

This episode of Karma & Chaos takes a wild turn down memory lane as Kail and Becky are joined by Becky’s college best friend, Morgan. From how they met to the kind of college antics that turn into full-blown legend status, nothing is off limits. Underneath the chaos is something deeper; what it really looks like to grow up together and maintain a friendship through all the different phases of...

Kail and Becky are back behind the mic with a full catch-up on life lately, and this episode covers a little bit of everything. They talk about the excitement and pressure leading up to tour, Becky’s new podcast format getting such a positive response, and the challenges of balancing work, friendship, parenting, and everything happening behind the scenes. They also get into Becks' first injury, El...

On this episode of Karma & Chaos, Kail and Becky are back together after time apart and catching up on everything—from vacation highs and moving daydreams to kids, school milestones, and the realities of parenting with partners who actually show up. What starts as a lighthearted conversation about Florida, Alabama, strip clubs, and stripper pole bruises turns into a real talk about motherhood,...

What if your relationship patterns aren’t just coincidence… but something deeper? This week on Karma & Chaos , Kail & Becky are joined by Thais Gibson -bestselling author and founder of the Personal Development School for a conversation that gets very real, very fast. What starts as an interview quickly turns personal as Thais breaks down how attachment styles and subconscious patterns sha...

This week on Karma and Chaos, what starts as a chaotic catch-up turns into one of those conversations that somehow gets hilarious, unfiltered, and unexpectedly deep all at once. Between the dark humor, side quests, and classic group derailments, the episode also taps into the heavier stuff—friendship, burnout, and the complicated ways people show up for each other when life feels off. It’s messy,...

This week on Karma & Chaos, the chaos is fully in the driver’s seat. What starts as one conversation quickly spirals into friendship theories, Mother’s Day debates, book-to-movie hot takes, childhood TV flashbacks, and the kind of unfiltered commentary that somehow makes complete sense only here. Between laugh-out-loud side tangents and surprisingly real moments, this episode is a perfect remi...

This week on Karma & Chaos, Kail and Becky are back at the content house with plenty of chaos, unexpected emotional moments, and the kind of conversation that goes everywhere in the best way. From funny behind-the-scenes stories and life updates to a real talk on motherhood, grief, judgment, and giving moms more grace, this episode balances humor with honesty in a way only they can. Plus, they...

This week on Karma & Chaos, Jess and Tracy from Bad Examples jump in for Kail and the chaos immediately spirals in the funniest way possible. What starts as a break up convo turns into flirty text drama, Jersey-girl debates, and a surprisingly real conversation about dating burnout, sexuality, and why men keep disappointing us. Plus: behind-the-scenes Jerseylicious tea, the “lipstick vs chapst...

This week on Karma & Chaos, we’re catching up in real time- we also get honest about parenting guilt, balancing work and family life, and the emotional weight that comes with being “on” all the time. From college tours and career dreams to relationship growth, friendship dynamics, and a few unfiltered hot takes (including vacations, karma, and all-inclusive resorts), this episode is full of th...

On this episode of Karma and Chaos, Kail and Becky kick things off after a failed first recording attempt and immediately spiral-from learning that moose shed their antlers to snowstorm stress and “emergency heat” confusion. Then the conversation turns real: why more people are using AI for sensitive health questions, what kids actually need to learn about boundaries and self-worth, and why speaki...

This week your girlies are back with their usual chaos! We are pondering how do you talk to kids about why some people pee standing up and others don't, testing their global knowledge on world flags, Becky unveils an exciting new business chapter and we talk about how to talk to your friends about their kids' behavior. This is episode is half cozy, half chaos and we wouldn't want it any other way!...

Kail and Becky are coming at you live from Dover, Delaware with peak Karma & Chaos energy with Red Rising tees, TikTok Shop temptations, and a full-blown “Are You Smarter Than a Fifth Grader?” showdown that proves… math is personal and fractions are a hate crime. Between impulse buys, Peloton struggles, and the very real “when do parents even have time to work out?” debate, the girls get into...

Kail and Becky are back with their energy at an all-time high, complete with Dave’s Hot Chicken cravings, an outfit that has everyone spiraling, and the kind of random conversation whiplash that you've come to know and love. In this episode, they get into BookTok habits, nostalgia over digital cameras and MySpace-era chaos, and a deeper question about memory, identity, and who really knows you bes...