Just Press Play with Ell and Trey

While Ell is away, Danilo joins Trey for a special episode of Just Press Replay, revisiting some of our favorite conversations about sex, dating, relationships, and modern queer love. We're digging into some of the lore like the story behind "community dick" and revisiting our conversation about DL men and their sex appeal. Catfishing, hookup culture and how to know when to call it quits with your...

Spirit Airlines is having money problems, and so are we. We may be broke, but never broken-spirited. In this episode, we talk about clearing your debt, house parties can help, the Supreme Court’s never-ending f*ckery, and of course, The Devil Wears Prada 2, because…gay, duh! And gays need friends too — our advice on how to find them, on this week’s episode. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subsc...

In this episode of Just Press Play with Ell & Trey, we’re covering EVERYTHING from bizarre hookup stories and questionable dating etiquette to pop culture, politics, and queer life in 2026. Did you ever buy a CD single back in the day? Or download tracks on Limewire? Well...we did and almost got caught. 👀 As for gay dating-- Should you offer water after a hookup?! 💧 The “buy one get one” Chi...

Meet New York City music artist TOPV3ERS — a rapper, songwriter, and video producer carving out his space through pure dedication, sacrifice, and creative vision. In a world where putting your art out there takes real courage, TOPV3ERS opens up about the journey behind the music and the work it takes to stay authentic in the industry. He also shares his perspective on other queer artists who inspi...

This week on Just Press Play with Ell & Trey, we’re talking about BAD decisions. The question is, do they still cost, if you're a billionaire??? A shocking DUI revelation, a Sniffies altercation, and headlines about AI, billionaires, and the state of the world. Are YOU ready for the APOCALYPSE? Are we already in it!? We also get into the truth about AI, and we have a special guest TOPV3RSE alo...

This week on Just Press Play with Ell & Trey, the girls are fed up. Trey pops his EBT cherry and Ell gets his cherry popped by an AI job recruiter??? Girl, the apocalypse is here already. Laugh at our pain as we navigate the broke adventures of unemployment—while also diving into serious conversations about LGBTQ+ rights, HIV healthcare access, and the political climate impacting our community...

Welcome to Just Press Play, the podcast where queer love gets real, messy, funny, and a little unhinged — just like dating in 2026. In this Valentine’s Day special, we’re diving into: Situationships that won’t text back What queer love actually looks like in the wild Dating red flags (and the ones we ignore) Power ballads, Beyoncé, and emotional spirals Unfiltered stories from our guests about lov...

Christmas time is here but it's not all happiness and cheer. For one, the girls are (still) broke. In today's episode we'll discuss. - The NYC World AIDS Day Red Ball in the Kiki Ballroom Scene - How a show as gay as Heated Rivalry survived the DEI slaughter - Streaming wars between Netflix and Paramount - Spotify Wrapped fatigue (it’s a wrap, babes) As always, please like, comment and subscribe,...

In this episode, Ell & Trey give their brutally honest, review of Wicked (Part Two) — starring Ariana Grande, Cynthia Erivo, and Michelle Yeoh. We break down everything that had us laughing, side eyeing, and whispering “wrap it up!” Comment below: Did YOU like Wicked?

From Nicki Minaj’s wacky UN speech to billionaires sponsoring the Met Gala while the rest of us can’t afford healthcare, Ell and Trey are breaking down the delusion with humor and clarity. We talk SNAP benefits, healthcare madness, and the politics of celebrity silence (and loudness), and why Hollywood still can’t find Black people for TV. Plus we're going there. Bubba Blowjobs aren't getting swep...

Your favorite Butch Queen duo is back again! serving pop culture, politics, and foolishness. This week’s episode has range: 💚 Trey Take: Visiting Santo Domingo sparked a deep dive into why America idolizes colonizers like Christopher Columbus and how monuments to violence shape our history. 🎭 Ell & Trey are forever changed after seeing Wicked, but are they changed "for good?" 🚗 The Nissan A...

Welcome back to Just Press Play with Ell & Trey, the show where comedy and journalism collide. This week, your favorite Butch queen gay duo dives into: 💅🏾 Beyoncé’s new Christmas merch drop — is Queen Bey getting a little too expensive, or are fans just too loyal? 👖 Sydney Sweeney’s viral American Eagle “genes” ad, the silence is deafening 💌 Unsolicited Advice: A listener thinks her med-sc...

In this powerful new episode of Just Press Play, Ell and Trey sit down for an unfiltered conversation about the state of media under the Trump administration — and what it means for Black and brown voices in journalism and beyond. After being laid off from CBS News along with every other person of color on his team, Trey shares his perspective on the bigger picture, from the quiet dismantling of d...

Christopher (They / Them) opens up about how, through self-love and understanding, they have no issue with living on their non-binary truth. They explain their approach when it comes to living in their truth and what it means to present that to other people.

Many people have different approaches when it comes to online / hook-up apps. While most kinks/fetishes are celebrated. Some are kinks and fetishes offensive and dehumanizing. Christopher opens up on what they will and will not accept.

Opening up about what turns you on can be jarring for most people. However self discovery through sex and kink can also lead to empowerment in other areas of your life. Listen to what Christopher said about their own journey with sex, kinks, and understanding.

Meet Christopher Patterson—Rosso, or as we know him, CPR. Defining your sexual identity can be difficult at first. CPR opens on his own expressive journey in sexual liberation and personal growth.

Welcome back friends. We're introducing the new new sh*t. A new format, a new set, and our brand new doomsday bunker! (Get yours half off when you use our discount code). Even amid doom and gloom, we keep it light. In this episode, we: 🏳️‍🌈 Talk community fundraising for LGBTQ+ youth with The Ali Forney Center’s Project Serve 🎬 Celebrate the Queer Voices NYC Film Festival and the power of queer...

In part two of our conversation with Odessa Da Gawd (Cain Coleman), Odessa expands on his incredible evolution as an artist and human being. From their time performing with the Dragon Sisters to stepping out as a solo act, Odessa shares how growth, transformation, and creative freedom are shaping this new chapter. We dive into: ✨ What it takes to reinvent yourself as an artist ✨ The lessons lear...

In this episode of Just Press Play, Ell & Trey sit down with the incomparable Odessa Da Gawd — formerly of The Dragon Sisters — to talk about their bold transition into a solo career. Odessa opens up about the split, rediscovering their artistry as a solo performer, and some highlights of their career. Plus, we get a preview of their new single and discuss what it takes to pave your own way as...

Grab your brushes and your drinks — it’s time for a paint and sip like no other. In this special episode of Just Press Play with Ell & Trey, it's a family affair (Hi Veta!) and an afternoon of painting, puffing, pouring… and oversharing. Expect questionable color theory, confessions about stress‑shoplifting...(yes, you read that right) a cheeky game of “Who’s Most Likely To…,” and plenty of ch...

Grab your brushes and your drinks — it’s time for a paint and sip like no other. In this special episode of Just Press Play with Ell & Trey, it's a family affair (Hi Veta!) and an afternoon of painting, puffing, pouring… and oversharing. Expect questionable color theory, confessions about stress‑shoplifting...(yes, you read that right) a cheeky game of “Who’s Most Likely To…,” and plenty of ch...

Mr. Dominus is back for part two of our investigation into his polyamory journey, starting with the story of his new "sir," and the list of tasks our new friend must complete in his sir's absence... In this episode, filmed during World Pride in DC, we share some of our favorite kinks, sex stories, and open ourselves up to be proud of who we are, even in the face of those who try their hardest to m...

It’s playtime! Mr. Dominus, is breaking down that nickname and going deep on sex, kink, intimacy, and how his polyamory journey inspired him to advise others in sexual satisfaction. Our game put Nico’s knowledge of Black Queer Icons to the test as we celebrate World Pride in our nation’s capital. Support us: 👍 Like it (even if you didn't) 💬 Talk sh*t in the comments (respectfully) 🔔 Subscribe a...

2AM Ricky is a chart-topper, showstopper, and humble, southern soul. In this interview during the 2025 World Pride Celebration in Washington, D.C., he shares perspectives on success, faith, and rituals and delivers a message to Black Trans men. This episode is filled with laughs and meaningful moments, including Ricky's historic performance during the pride festivities. Photos by @thejohnronin Sup...