Just 2 Black Girls

“Soft life” looks good on Instagram… but is it realistic for a Black girl who was raised to be strong, independent, and ten steps ahead of survival? In this episode, Shaneé and Destiny get real about what a soft life actually means to us. Is it luxury? Is it rest? Is it being provided for? Or is it unlearning the grind culture that told us exhaustion is a badge of honor? We talk about whether soft...

Becoming her doesn’t require you to hate who you used to be. In this episode, we unpack the idea that growth isn’t self-destruction. So many people think leveling up means dragging their old self, shaming their past decisions, or pretending they were never that girl. But what if evolution looks different? Destiny shows a more vulnerable side as she processes what it feels like to still be in the b...

This episode we’re unpacking the Danish Deception and the red flags we saw, ignored, and sometimes even defended. We get into dating in our 20s, emotional availability (or the lack of it), and how social media, Hinge, and Tinder have completely changed the way people show up. From curated feeds to confusing intentions, we talk about what we’ve experienced trying to date in a generation that loves...

Comparison really will steal your joy if you let it. In this episode, we get real about social media and the highlight reels we’re constantly consuming. People post what they want you to see, but the struggles, delays, and silent battles stay behind closed doors. We also talk about starting in the same space as others and then watching them hit milestones you thought would be yours by now. The ten...

Breakups hit different as an adult. In this episode, Shaneé and Des unpack why ending a relationship hurts more as we get older, from shared routines and future plans to emotional investment and timing. We talk about grieving what could’ve been, navigating healing while still handling real life, and why adult breakups aren’t just about losing a person but losing a version of yourself too. This con...

Faith isn’t always quiet or easy. In this episode, Shaneé and Des have an honest conversation about faithful spirituality, what it looks like to believe while still questioning God, and navigating moments of doubt without losing faith. We talk about the tension between trust and confusion, how spirituality evolves, and why asking hard questions doesn’t mean you’re walking away from God. This episo...

In Growing Pains, Shaneé and Des have an honest conversation about what it really looks like to navigate life in your 20s. This episode dives into the truths behind growing up that people don’t always talk about. The discomfort, the loneliness, the hard lessons, and the moments that force you to sit with yourself. They reflect on their own experiences and the realization that turning 25 and having...

After a year away, Just 2 Black Girls returns with a New Year’s Eve welcome-back episode, We Never Left. We Took a Breath. The hosts, Des & Shaneé, catch listeners up on where they are now, what life has taught them in the pause, and what’s ahead. This episode sets the tone for season 7, rooted in honesty, growth, and unpolished, juicy truths. Expect real conversations about growing pains, healing...

Welcome to the final episode of the season! Shanee and Des reflect on the incredible journey they’ve shared throughout this season of the podcast. As they look back on the topics discussed, stories shared, and moments cherished, they express gratitude for the support and engagement from their listeners. Join them as they celebrate the growth and meaningful conversations of the season, and stay tun...

In this episode, Shanee and Des explore the evolving standards of body image, from societal ideals of skinny to “slim thick” and the rise of procedures like BBL (Brazilian Butt Lift). They share personal stories of their own journeys with body image, discussing the ongoing challenges and pressures. Join them as they reflect on why societal body standards often feel unattainable and discuss strateg...

In this episode, Shanee and Des dive into a lively financial chat, sharing their journey as recovering shopaholics and learning the ropes of balancing money as adults. From cracking the budgeting code to picking up savvy saving tricks, they navigate the highs and lows of managing finances in the DMV (DC, Maryland, Virginia) area.

In this episode, Des & Shaneé delve into what it means to be the “new adults” and how our experience of adulting differs from that of our parents. From navigating careers and finances to maintaining relationships and self-care, we explore the unique challenges and opportunities of adulthood in today’s world. Tune in next Wednesday at 12 for a new episode!

In this episode, Des & Shaneé ask: Are we using the relationships in our lives to fill voids? Are we truly embracing relationships as a bonus to our lives, or are we relying on them to fill something we can’t find within ourselves? Join us as we explore the motives behind our connections, discuss healthy versus dependent relationships, and share insights on how to cultivate fulfilling and supporti...

In this episode, Des & Shaneé share the story of their remarkable friendship, from meeting as friends to becoming roomies and ultimately besties/sisters. They recount the key moments that brought them closer, the challenges they faced living together, and how their bond strengthened over time. Tune in to hear their heartfelt journey, filled with laughter, support, and the ups and downs of building...

In this episode, Des & Shaneé delve into the complexities of adult friendships and the challenges of making connections in today’s world. They explore why friendships are crucial for our well-being, how friendships evolve from childhood to adulthood, and strategies for meeting new people and forming meaningful connections. Tune in next Wednesday at 12 PM for a new episode!

In this episode, Des & Shaneé reflect on their past selves and the incredible growth they’ve experienced over the past few years. They share personal stories, key experiences, and insights into how their perspectives have changed. They also offer advice to their past selves and provide practical tips for younger and older listeners on embracing growth and overcoming challenges. Tune in next Wednes...

We are backkkkk! Welcome back to the first episode of our new season! We missed you all so much and are so excited to reconnect with you. In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into personal growth and sharing where we are currently in our lives. We’ll catch you up on all the changes, challenges, and triumphs we’ve experienced since our last season. We’re thrilled to be back and can’t wait to share...

On this episode, Des & Shanee give an update about their life. They check in with you all about how they are doing on their goals, what grade they would give themselves, and just minor things occuring in their life. The best of us is yet to come and the process is ongoing. We thank you all for tuning it and helping to keep us accountable and consistent <3

On this episode of J2BG, Des & Shanee are join by Alex (Mr. Jamaica Himself) where they talk about culture shocks, being culturally aware and discuss tips that they have. Big shoutout to Alex for joining us on this episode! Stay tuned to see him on future episodes :)

On this episode, Des & Shanee talk about healing your inner child and the process. We talk about all things healing and our journey of healing. The healing timeline is timeless and it doesn’t have a strict timeline!

On this episode, Des & Shanee talk about their experience with imposter syndrome and how they started accepting themselves into different spaces they thought they didn’t belong in. We missed you all after a hectic week but we are back, every Friday

On this Episode, Des & Shanee talk about what being successful means to them. They also share some gems on not comparing yourself to others in your journey to success!

On this episode of J2BG, Des and Shanee are joined with a very special guest, Corwin!!! They have a conversation about what it means to be independent, living on your own, self love that occurs while living alone and much more. Special shout-out to Corwin with gracing us with his amazing personality and we were honored to have you!

Making friends as an adult… Very scary situation! How do you make friends within this generation as an adult? When did making friends get 10x harder? On this episode, Des and Shanee talk about making friends in a different situation and difficulties surrounding making friends

Spon·ta·ne·ous /spänˈtānēəs/ 1.performed or occurring as a result of a sudden inner impulse or inclination and without premeditation or external stimulus: On this episode, Des and Shanee talk about becoming spontaneous from the viewpoint of two planners. They talk about how planning has stemmed and molded their mindset and talk about the positive aspects of being spontaneous!