Joseph Hawley: Voice Note Diaries

I showed up to DJ a wedding last weekend with 20 hours of mixing under my belt and more nervous energy than I've had in years — and I crushed it. Just got back from North Georgia where I DJed Brandon and Marina's wedding. They lived on property at Haven for almost a year. Beautiful people, beautiful love story. When she asked me, there was zero resistance in my body — so I said yes. What spirit do...

Gratitude isn't a spiritual nicety. It's the actual prayer. And the first thing worth being grateful for might be the version of you that felt like you got it all wrong. This one started as announcements and wandered somewhere I didn't plan. Ended up in the king archetype — the difference between the sovereign who serves the kingdom and the one who expects the kingdom to serve him. Then near the c...

We're approaching the event horizon and most people are preparing with more screens and algorithms. The ancients had a different answer. Something is building on this land. Between a call with Liquid Gold — the DJ bringing sacred sound to the Declaration of Sovereignty on July 4 — and the altar in the garage coming into its own, I’m watching ritual technology do what it always does: weave the fiel...

On a public beach in Peru, in the middle of ceremony, I saw every single person through the eyes of innocence. Something shifted and hasn’t shifted back. My altar finally birthed last week. The Chakana landed at the center and the whole thing came alive. This episode started there — with the circle, with what lives inside it, and with the question I keep sitting with: how do we steward the sacred...

Eight years ago, everyone told me I was crazy to walk away from the NFL. This episode is the first time the shape of what I walked toward feels visible. Something is coming together out here. Last Saturday, twenty people came to Haven for the biggest Huachuma Workday yet — half of them were people I'd been quietly holding in prayer, not for them specifically, but for their skill sets and alignment...

The framework I've been quietly building across every retreat, ceremony, and circle — five values, five agreements, five principles. This is the one. This one has been cooking for eight years. The Sacred Circle 555 — five values, five agreements, five principles — is at the center of everything I've been building: CNCM, Haven, the retreats, the ceremony work. For the first time, I'm putting it all...

My Stripe account got shut down this week — and I want to thank them for it. Something wanted to course-correct. What looked like a headache turned out to be a guardrail, steering me back toward what this work has always been about: the circle. I've been sitting with a realization I can't shake, and it's changing how I see everything we're building together. In this episode: * How a payment proces...

What if the very structure telling you to fear anything outside your current belief system is the exact same force you fear opening yourself up to? I'm sitting at Haven watching the sunflowers turn toward the sunrise, and I feel called to recount a call with a man who spent 60 hours jailbreaking an AI into seeing the world it was born into. Buckle up, this one goes places. In this episode: * The G...

What happens when you trace your fear of being seen all the way back to a five-year-old asking a question nobody would answer? Seventh Huachuma Workday at Haven just wrapped, and we built a stage for the big events coming up this summer. The builders showing up, the visions weaving, the puzzle pieces finding each other — something is clearly coalescing. The real transmission this week came from a...

I recently had a conversation with a woman about what is happening in the world. I asked her one question and I want to ask you the same thing. This woman is doing genuinely beautiful work — a nonprofit linking volunteers to land projects, building resilience networks. And then something shifted. Her nervous system went into full activation: the agenda, digital IDs, November, prepare for collapse....

I sat here for a while before I pressed record and wasn’t sure if I was going to release this. Sarah and the kids moved off property two weeks ago. That’s the threshold I’ve been in — the void, the weight of the choice, everything I believed about family and sacrifice pressing in at once. I’ve been afraid of being misunderstood. Afraid of being seen. Sharing it anyway. In this episode: * A story I...

We're the only species that sprays poison on our food to keep other animals from eating it — and then eat it ourselves. I got asked the other weekend at the woman’s retreat: why don't you eat meat? My answer at the women's retreat surprised even me. Three words. That's where this episode lives. In this episode: * The predestination vs. free will paradox — and where free will actually lives (it’s n...

Snowball died in the opening circle. That's where we started. We did a retreat at Haven this past weekend. Four men holding space for a circle of women. I was nervous. Then our dog killed one of our chickens during the opening agreements — right in front of everyone. That's how it started. And somehow it got more potent from there. In this episode: * What happens when death interrupts your opening...

Jesus didn't say believe in me and you'll be saved. He said love God with all your heart, soul, and mind — and love your neighbor as yourself. That's the most important commandment. I've found my bible from high school a few months ago — worn, torn, and I even hiked through the mountains of Peru with it. I finally opened it and started reading. I’ve had resistance to reading the bible for many rea...

We are moving through the birth canal. Just like a new born baby who has no idea what it’ll be like to take its first breath, we too are entering a time of profound revelations. Stanislav Grof mapped four stages of the birth process — and when I laid them over what's happening in the world right now, something clicked. The contractions are real. The dread is real. And the light at the end of the t...

I'm in a pocket right now — holding more than I've named publicly, and learning what it actually means to listen. Came back from Peru changed. A land steward transition underway. Two boys. A divorce I'm still moving through. A cohort about to launch. It's a lot. And somewhere in all of it, God keeps asking for something deeper than trust. Something closer to surrender. In this episode: * What the...

I lost my starting job five times in eight years — and the day I finally stopped pointing the finger at everyone else was the day everything changed. The NFL draft was last weekend. Watching it pulled me right back to that phone call in 2010. Fourth round. Pick 117. Atlanta Falcons. I didn't plan to tell this story on air — but something said it was time. This is the full arc: the draft, the colla...

Eight years ago, I walked away from an eight-year NFL career without knowing where I was going. I'm only now starting to understand why.. This one came through open and wide. I'm sitting with the full arc. From Orange County suburbs to 72 acres, from top-10 NFL money to growing food with my hands, following the thread of a soul whisper that wouldn't let me go. The grief has moved through. What's l...

I paid $3,800 to learn three legal terms. What came after changed everything. Two years ago I felt pulled into the sovereignty space — not by strategy, but by something I couldn’t ignore. What followed was seven months of deep study, six traffic stops in rural Texas, a night in solitary confinement, and a reckoning with every false authority I’d ever internalized. This episode is everything I’ve l...

If the people created the government to serve us, why does it feel like the government controls us? The answer is a legal sleight of hand hiding in plain sight. This one connects the two threads I keep coming back to: sovereignty and Christ. I walk through a simple diagram that changed how I see the entire system, and I think it'll land the same way for you. In this episode: * The False Authority...

I met Jesus in a shamanic drum journey. Completely sober. And what he did changed everything I thought I knew about worship, mastery, and what it means to walk together. After years of turning my back on the church and then slowly finding my way back to Yeshua through alternative texts, plant medicine, and my own healing journey, something happened in a meditation that I wasn't prepared for. This...

I've been carrying a gold coin in my pocket — and it's changing how I see everything. Something shifted when a friend pointed out that the three gifts the wise men brought — frankincense, myrrh, and gold — are all medicine. Not treasure. That sent me down a thread connecting money, frequency, sovereignty, and why we feel like we never have enough. In this episode: * Why gold might be less about mo...

What happens when you stop paying the ticket and start asking questions instead. Sovereignty is a word that gets thrown around a lot right now — but what does it actually look like when you test it? This episode is straight from the field. Real cases, real courtrooms, real lessons about jurisdiction and what happens when you start learning the language of the system you were taught to just obey. I...

Sometimes the deepest ceremony isn't the medicine — it's what your broken lawnmower has been trying to tell you. I'm sitting with the land right now. Spring is coming in, the grass is growing, and my lawnmower won't start. What came up during our last Huachuma Workday cracked something open — and it started with looking down at the ground. In this episode: * What I saw crawling beneath the unmowed...

I spent years seeking answers in altered states — until one night I dissolved into infinity and realized that what I'd been searching for was not outside myself. I've had a lot of fear around sharing this part of my story. Fear of judgment, fear of what my parents would think, fear of being misunderstood. But something has unlocked and I’m ready to share this wild adventure I’ve been on — so today...