John de Ruiter Podcast

Moen, Denmark Event - June 2, 2018 Evening This woman is touched by John sharing what sexuality is really for and wants to know what it means to be a woman. John shares the subtle differences between man and woman, and shows her how to invite and move in her sexuality anew – this time aligned to the delicacies of its deeper mystery. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into...

Poleg Beach, Netanya, Israel Event - November 1, 2018 Afternoon   Is it possible to let go of having been mistreated? This questioner feels angry about what happened in his career and is having a hard time finding forgiveness. John takes him to the root of what really matters, revealing the real cause of his separation and showing him the way home to his deep okayness within.   Dialogues with John...

Poleg Beach, Netanya, Israel Retreat - May 24, 2018 Afternoon  

Copenhagen, Denmark Event - June 5, 2010 Afternoon   This dialogue addresses a woman questioning whether or not to have a child. John shows her all the complexities she would be taking on and shares the possibility of raising a child with opened genetics, through being the grace of her own deepest orientation.   Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your b...

Boulder, USA Event - September 15, 2016 Evening   How can I live in what I know of beingness, and the busy-ness of daily life? John’s response takes the questioner to see what he will know on his deathbed, when what matters most will be clear and can be lived for, now.   Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where the meaning of life opens up i...

Poleg Beach, Netanya, Israel Event - November 4, 2018 Evening What are the chakras or energy centres, and how do they relate to enlightenment? In this dialogue, John explains that the chakras are like gates. When they are closed we feel empty and stressed. When they are open, there is alignment and enlightenment.   Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of you...

Edmonton, Canada Winter Seminar - December 27, 2013 Evening   A woman is experiencing a new, subtle sexuality in her body not connected to want and need but to qualities of dearness and love. John speaks about this deeper sexuality, its connection to her heart, her being, and how it all empowers her deeper womanness – the ability to meet and commune.   Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into...

Amsterdam, The Netherlands Event - September 12, 2011 Afternoon   This questioner can feel daunted by the effects she fears her changing orientation might have on those she loves. How to live it in the workplace, too? There is a cost, John agrees, but with a gift just beneath it. He clarifies for her how to be in her changes with others.   Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, a...

Moen, Denmark Event - June 2, 2017 Evening   This young woman knows she could deepen her connection with her unborn baby but does not know how. John shows her the real language of parenting she can learn from her baby in the quiet of her heart. It not only opens the connection she longs for but will teach her what really matters in her own life, and in parenting her baby once born.   Dialogues wit...

Poleg Beach, Netanya, Israel Event - April 30, 2016 Afternoon   This man no longer finds satisfaction in things he once enjoyed and feels alone and separate. He fears losing his uniqueness if he stops all his doing. John shows him how only by being at home in his heart, as nobody and nothing, can he know his true uniqueness and be free of his genetics.   Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you int...

Cologne, Germany Retreat - January 25, 2015 Afternoon.    This questioner has been working hard and knows she needs to spend her time differently, but how? John shows her how time off can be spent in a repeating loop of self-rejuvenation, or be given to what has already made a difference: her awakening.   Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, w...

Tiruvannamalai, India Event - January 31, 2017 Afternoon   What is enlightenment? Is it the highest spiritual attainment as many perceive it to be? In this dialogue, John explains that it is not enlightenment, but purity of heart that is what we are in a body for: awareness and knowing being one.   Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where th...

Edmonton, Canada Meeting - March 19, 2017 Afternoon   This vivid conversation dives into the topic of a real relationship to power. John describes how most of us live as both victims and perpetrators. We create a life of stories and illusion, losing the opportunity to awaken and, more importantly, to build on that awakening before we die. He reveals the fundamental simplicity and rare value of liv...

Netanya, Israel Retreat - February 21, 2015 Afternoon.  The questioner in this dialogue has been experiencing heartache and loneliness. John speaks about the reasons for and purpose of heartache, revealing the opportunity for awakening that is in it. The heartache is there to bring you to what your whole life is for; you ache in your heart until it opens.  Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you i...

Hamburg, Germany Event - May 24, 2000 This young woman speaks the uncertainty of many in today's spiritual marketplace. She wants to give her heart away to truth, but experience has revealed that many teachers are untrustworthy. John reveals the differences between a teacher of truth and one completely mastered by truth; to listen to all but to give her heart only to what she genuinely knows. Dial...

Cologne, Germany Event - January 24, 2015 Evening This man has taken steps beyond his addictions and difficulties but fears ultimately succumbing to their power: it's all just too painful. John encourages him in the one way that really works – to become gentled in his heart and to live his daily life in the realization of the nurture he will find there. Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into...

Moen, Denmark Retreat - June 2, 2018 Afternoon.    In this interview with Rishi Itzhak, therapist and meditation teacher from Israel, John is asked questions about the essence of his teaching and what happens in his presence that is so much more than teaching. This rich dialogue opens and explores what is real; how to access the full potential of our selves through openness and softness of heart;...

Tiruvannamalai, India Retreat - February 2, 2017 Afternoon.    The Questioner feels guilty and trapped in her inability to deal with the pain of others. She knows that separating from them or confronting them does not help. John shows her how a simple return to openness and softness of heart allows the cycle of their pain and hers to end... in her.    Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into y...

February 9, 2018, Rishikesh, India   When we work hard on our projects and goals, it can be difficult not to be dependent on the outcome. Striving for success or fear of failure... how to overcome this source of stress? In this talk, John offers keys to connecting our outer life on the surface, with deep inner beingness.   Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depth...

Hamburg, Germany Retreat - June 9, 2017 Afternoon.    Let not your heart nor your self be a port for negativity. This questioner has experienced the deeper ground she really belongs to, but can be overtaken by negativity. John shows her how to care for what she knows in her heart, even under pressure.   Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, whe...

Hamburg, Germany Retreat - May 18, 2013 Afternoon.    How can a person with strong mental conditioning connect to their heart? Through the example of loving someone, John shows the questioner how to be in his heart and, despite shyness and embarrassment, let it come into his face, filling his body and changing his thinking.    Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the d...

October 30, 2011 Munich, Germany Retreat   This conversation addresses destiny. Does it just happen or can we do something to change it? John explains how it can only be changed with a shift of awareness: away from our emotional makeup into what we know the truth of in our heart, bringing stability, freedom and healing that before seemed impossible.   Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into y...

Munich, Germany Retreat - October 30, 2011 Evening.    [Add Podcast summary from masterlist here]   Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths of your being, where the meaning of life opens up in awareness.    More information about John de Ruiter - Knowing Reality at www.johnderuiter.com

Poleg Beach, Netanya, Israel Event - May 24, 2018 Afternoon In this gentle, profound dialogue, a woman who was sexually abused by her father asks how she can be with the ongoing sense of uncleanness she feels in her body. John reveals to her deeper levels unaffected by the trauma, opening the possibility of true healing and a return to a heart-to-heart connection with her father. Dialogues with Jo...

Tiruvannamalai, India Retreat - February 2, 2015 Morning.    The wish to return to oneness is unravelled for us in this talk. John uses analogies to reveal how wishing and longing separate us from what we long for, and explains how only being the same as the direct knowledge fuelling our wish can return us to oneness.    Dialogues with John de Ruiter bring you into your heart, and into the depths...