Jillian on Love

In this special Valentine's Day episode, Jillian shares important tips and incredible words of wisdom on how to be your own valentine if you're single or heartbroken. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow J...

Jillian delves into the complex issue of forming relationships with emotionally unavailable partners. She discusses the patterns that lead people to attract and choose unavailable partners, offering insights into the roots of emotional unavailability, including past traumas and fear of intimacy. Jillian provides listeners with strategies to recognize emotional unavailability from the outset, the s...

Jillian and special guest Jeff Guenther get candid and personal in this riveting conversation about why men look at provocative accounts, the difference between healthy and unheathy chemistry and why dating apps might be working against you. Jeff Guenther is a licensed professional counselor in Portland, Oregon, practicing since 2005. His focus includes working with both couples and individuals. A...

In this powerful episode, Jillian addresses the debate she's seen all over social media: Do we truly have to accept someone for who they are? What of they don't meet your needs? What if they are toxic? What if they don't grow? What if they need to change? How do we love someone who needs to change? This episode will clarify all of it. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show...

In this incredibly informative and direct episode, Jillian shares some hard truths about both red and green flags, and why if you ignore these, you are at great risk of getting yourself into unhealthy or even abusive relationships. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources ment...

This episode is simply incredible. Jillian welcomes Emmy-nominated Netflix stars, podcasters, and New York Times bestselling authors The Minimalists to the show. They discuss letting go of emotional and physical clutter, letting go of relationships, and how to connect more effectively with the person you love. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.co...

In this special New Year episode, Jillian teaches truly life-changing ways to deepen and strengthen your connection with the most important people in your life, including your current or future partner. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jill...

In this holiday special episode, Jillian teaches how to revolutionize the relationship with yourself. Expect themes on self-forgiveness, recovering from burnout, nervous system healing, and ending toxic relationships. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the s...

This is a very eye-opening episode where Jillian explains why we obsess over people we don't know very well as well as why we obsess after a breakup. Expect to feel a lot more freedom after listening. Are you ready to change your life and feel whole again? The 7 Steps To Survive Heartbreak course created by Jillian is where you’ll learn to break the patterns holding you back and discover how to mo...

In this illuminating episode, expect to learn insights into attachment theory that you have not learned anywhere else. Jillian busts certain myths, clarifies avoidance and anxiety in a relationship, and points out two of the biggest red flags to look out for. Are you ready to change your life and feel whole again? The 7 Steps To Survive Heartbreak course created by Jillian is where you’ll learn to...

Get ready to take notes! Jillian shares the 13 most important lessons she's learned about love and marriage after 10 years of helping couples plus her own personal insight as someone who went through divorce. These are serious pearls of wisdom and actionable advice that you can apply to your current or future marriage of life partnership. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the s...

Jillian welcomes Dr. Nicole LaPera (@theholisticpsychologist) to discuss what it really means to love, why trauma impacts some people more than others, and how to heal generational trauma with family members. This is a potent and fascinating conversation you do not want to miss. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+...

Have you ever struggled to let go of an ex even though you knew they were not good for you? In today's episode, Jillian speaks with a man who feels very stuck on his ex. Listen to hear how Jillian reframes his obsession with his ex to mean something more significant - how he feels about himself. For anyone struggling with self-esteem and/or heartbreak, this episode will be illuminating. ~~ Follow...

"What Would Jillian Say?" is Jillian On Love's first episode that features Jillian coaching a caller live, on her love life. The anonymous caller is a young woman living in NYC who believes she's not meant to have the relationship she craves because she hasn't found a deep connection with anyone. Jillian gently explores this belief with the caller, and together, they discover where it comes from a...

Is there such a thing as a soulmate? In this powerful episode, Jillian discusses why we believe in The One, and busts the myth that is responsible for many heartbreaks around the world. Get ready to hear something you have never heard before on this subject. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or...

Jillian has been helping people feel better about themselves for over 20 years. In this episode, she shares 5 life-changing steps to healthy self-worth and self-love. You will never look at self-esteem the same again after this episode. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources...

A lot of the dating culture today is unhealthy. In this episode, Jillian shares what singles need to do to rise above the mess and make sure they are setting themselves up for a healthy relationship. If you or anyone you know is single, you do not want to miss this episode. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Ap...

Self-abandonment is one of the most painful things we can ever experience, and is usually harder to recover from than losing someone else. In this powerful episode, Jillian poignantly describes what it means to lose yourself in relationships, why it happens, and how to reclaim yourself and your power after a difficult relationship ends. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the sho...

Jillian welcomes marriage and family therapist Vienna Pharaon to the show to discuss communication, attachment, and how to figure out if one's relationship is fixable or beyond repair. This is a fascinating conversation you definitely do not want to miss. Vienna Pharaon is a licensed marriage and family therapist and one of New York City’s most sought after relationship therapists. Her book The Or...

Get ready to have your mind blown. Jillian outlines the most common subconscious patterns and beliefs she sees in those who are struggling in their love lives and relationships. Regardless of your relationship status, you are going to learn a ton from this episode. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podca...

In this episode, Jillian shares 5 of the biggest lessons she's learned about romantic relationships from 20 years of working with people and her own personal experience with love.  ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommenda...

We know that communication is crucial for a relationship to work, but very few actually want to have the uncomfortable conversations. In this special episode, Jillian explains what those conversations are, why they're so important (and scary) and how to have them. This episode applies to everyone regardless of relationship status! ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at h...

In celebration of the 1-year anniversary of Jillian On Love, Jillian invited 3 listeners of the podcast to share their stories of change and get some expert advice on how to continue moving forward. Get ready to be super inspired! ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources menti...

The dance between autonomy and dependence is an ongoing pursuit in a relationship, and for some, it's a hard balance to find. In this episode, Jillian explains the origin of the codependent relationship and why the pattern of turning partners into projects only leads to the destruction of a relationship -- or one that should never have been to begin with. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jilliano...

Do you have to be fully healed to have a healthy relationship? Do you have to love yourself? The answer to these questions are not so black and white. In this important episode, Jillian discusses doing "the work" as it relates to romantic relationships, and teaches 7 powerful and effective practices to learn how to love and accept yourself, and more. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove...