Jillian on Love

Today, Jillian shares 9 essential lessons in self-love, self-worth, and self-respect that can completely transform the way you approach relationships. From letting go of people who won't change and breaking the cycle of chasing unavailable partners to setting boundaries, communicating your needs, and recognizing the difference between being desired and being truly valued, these are the lessons eve...

Finding healthy love isn't about finding the perfect person. It's about knowing what truly matters, recognizing the patterns that keep you stuck, and learning to choose a relationship where love is mutual. In this special Jillian on Love masterclass, Jillian brings together some of her most powerful relationship lessons to help you recognize dating red flags, break unhealthy attachments, stop chas...

What happens when your fear of losing someone becomes stronger than your fear of losing yourself? Jillian sits down with Sabrina Zohar, host of The Sabrina Zohar Show and author of Why Am I Like This?, to talk about anxious attachment, situationships, dating anxiety, and the patterns that keep us chasing people who aren’t choosing us. They unpack Sabrina’s infamous 173-text story, the difference b...

Dr. Shefali is one of the world’s leading voices on conscious parenting—and this conversation goes far beyond parenting. Jillian sits down with the clinical psychologist and bestselling author to explore how childhood shapes our self-worth, adult relationships, and the way we love. They talk about repairing relationships with our parents, the challenges facing boys and girls today, and what it rea...

Before you marry someone or build a life together, there are some conversations you simply cannot afford to avoid. Love and chemistry are important, but they aren't enough to sustain a healthy, lasting relationship. In this episode, Jillian shares eight essential things to know before making a serious commitment, from trust and accountability to money, shared values, and navigating life's inevitab...

Love should never require you to abandon yourself. In this episode, Jillian explores the courage it takes to walk away from the wrong relationship, trust yourself again after heartbreak, and open your heart to the kind of love that feels safe, mutual, and real. Because choosing yourself doesn’t mean giving up on love—it means refusing to settle for anything less than a love that chooses you back....

What if the person you love is actually making you feel unsafe? Jillian answers listener questions about jealousy, controlling behavior, conflict, and betrayal—and shares how to recognize when insecurity becomes emotional abuse, stop sabotaging love during arguments, and finally let go of the anger keeping you tied to someone who hurt you. P.S. I created Reclaim Your Self-Worth: a robust 23-page w...

What if the stress in your relationships is affecting your body more than you realize? Jillian sits down with functional medicine expert Dr. Will Cole to explore the powerful connection between emotional health, physical health, and the nervous system. They talk about why chronic stress can show up as gut issues, inflammation, fatigue, brain fog, and dysregulation; how your relationships can make...

In this listener call-in episode, I’m answering two questions that come up all the time in dating and relationships: Why does someone pull away after you sleep together, and what do you do when your partner has legitimate reasons for not meeting your needs? We talk about why physical intimacy can create attachment before a real emotional connection has formed, the conversations you need to have be...

What does it actually take to build a healthy, lasting relationship? In this episode, Jillian shares seven uncomfortable truths about love that most of us were never taught—from how childhood coping strategies show up in adult relationships to why communication, effort, emotional regulation, and taking responsibility for your own happiness matter so much. She explores why healthy relationships are...

Dating can make it easy to confuse chemistry with compatibility, mixed signals with potential, and the desire for a relationship with an actual connection. In this episode, Jillian shares seven uncomfortable truths about dating that can completely change the way you approach finding love. She explains why attraction alone isn't enough, why self-respect is your greatest dating advantage, and why yo...

Have you ever found yourself making excuses for someone's mixed signals? In this episode, Jillian answers three listener questions that all point to the same truth: healthy relationships don't leave you wondering where you stand. She explains why chasing someone who isn't investing in you only leads to confusion, why consistency matters more than chemistry, and how to communicate your needs withou...

Have you ever wondered if you'll always struggle with relationship anxiety? If you've convinced yourself that anxious attachment is simply who you are, this episode is for you. Jillian unpacks why your attachment style isn't your identity, how the stories you tell yourself can keep you stuck, and why feeling anxious in love doesn't mean you're broken. You'll learn how your past, your environment,...

If you constantly find yourself chasing emotionally unavailable people or bringing overwhelming anxiety into your relationships, this episode is for you. Jillian breaks down why we stay stuck in painful patterns, how fear disguises itself as chemistry, and why true security starts with learning to meet your own emotional needs. She also shares practical ways to self-soothe, communicate from a grou...

Why do some first dates never turn into second dates? And why do so many people shut down when relationships get hard? Jillian answers two listener questions that reveal what actually creates attraction, why chemistry is often misunderstood, and how to stop letting fear sabotage the relationships you want most. Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in...

Why do we spend so much time trying to explain someone else's behavior? In this episode, Jillian shares the mindset shift that can instantly change the way you experience dating and relationships: people can only meet you where they are mentally and emotionally. She explores why rejection isn't always personal, why trying to rescue someone's potential only leads to heartbreak, and how accepting pe...

What do you do when you meet someone who seems perfect… but the sex is terrible? It's one of the hardest dating questions to admit out loud: Can a relationship survive without physical chemistry, or is attraction something you can't force? In this episode, I answer a listener's question about disappointing intimacy with an otherwise incredible partner, and why you never have to choose between emot...

Most relationships don't end because of one big mistake—they slowly fall apart through small habits we rarely notice. In this episode, Jillian reveals the behaviors that quietly destroy trust, the qualities that matter most in a partner, the biggest misconceptions about finding "the one," and the mindset shifts that create healthy, lasting love. Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice messag...

You sent in the questions, and Jillian hand-picked three conversations that uncover what so many people struggle with in love. Is your jealousy really insecurity—or are your needs simply not being met? How do you stop blaming yourself after a breakup? And what happens when the person you love doesn't want the same future you do? Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it cou...

Ready to go deeper? Join the Conscious Woman membership for exclusive content, coaching, and community to help you get the love you want. Link in shownotes. https://jillianturecki.com/membership?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes&utm_campaign=conscious-woman  Why do so many couples end up feeling like roommates instead of lovers? In this episode, Jillian explains why passion naturally changes...

We're trying something new. We asked you to send in your relationship questions—and you delivered. In these listener call-in episodes, Jillian personally listens to your submissions and hand-picks a few to answer on the show. In this episode, she tackles questions about attachment styles, trusting your intuition while dating, letting go of someone who won't fully choose you, and what it really mea...

Why do so many people ignore what they already know deep down in their relationships? In this episode, Jillian explores the difference between anxiety and intuition, the red flags people rationalize away, and the green flags that actually matter when building healthy love. She breaks down the questions you need to ask before ending a relationship, why feeling unwanted or emotionally unsafe changes...

Everyone talks about red flags. But what about the green flags that actually matter? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the difference between anxiety, chemistry, emotional safety, and real compatibility—and why so many people stay stuck chasing people who are unsure about them. She shares the relationship patterns that keep people attached to emotionally unavailable partners, the signs you shou...

Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian  This episode is for anyone stuck in the painful in-between of a situationship, mixed signals, or feeling emotionally invested in someone who won’t fully choose them. Jillian breaks down why so many people settle for uncertainty, over-function to kee...

If you've ever felt completely fine when you're single—confident, healed, grounded—and then watched all of that fall apart the moment you actually liked someone, this episode is for you. Relationship anxiety isn't just anxious attachment. It's the fear of not being good enough, the fear of being left, and the weight of expecting one person to meet every need your life is missing. Jillian breaks do...