IYKYK with Brat

Hey babes, it's Brat — welcome back to iykyk, where we talk about the things you pretend you don't care about… until he slides in your DMs at 2 a.m." On this weeks episode we discuss all things dm's. From ranking the different types of DMer's like:  The Soft Launch Guy (reacts to every story but never says anything real) The Paragraph Philosopher (writes like he's auditioning for The Bachelor ) Th...

Well, well, well! Looky looky! Your girl Brat is back after a longer than anticipated hiatus. Thank you guys for your continued support and inquiries about the show. I'm not going anywhere, don't fret. This episode, I'll just be shooting the breeze with my friends/producers Court and Rima. Filling you guys know what I've been up these past few months, and what's to come in quarter 4 so stay tuned....

We had a lot to unpack this week, starting with a story that had the whole Brat Pack side-eying their platonic friendships…An 11-year friendship down the drain—all because his new girl didn't like it. And instead of standing on business, he hit her with: "I just don't feel like arguing no more." Huh?! Be serious. So we're asking the real questions: Was he ever really your friend? Did he fold under...

Back with another one, Brat Pack! Let's talk relationship dynamics, shall we? This week we're diving into  established relationships —the kind where y'all are both in it for real. So… who's paying for what? Is it 50/50, bills split down the middle, or is someone covering the tab and the other showing up with vibes? Do y'all talk about money  before moving in or is it just assumed? 👀 We're asking...

It's been a long time… we shouldn't have left you. Your favorite Brat is back! After a little hiatus (mind ya business), we're catching up on all the things. In this episode, we talk about who really taught us how to love (hint: was it healthy tho?), whether the stars are actually telling the truth about you (hello, astrology girls), and what it means when a man is "woman-centered" (is it cute or...

We missed y'all! Brat and the crew are finally back with a new episode and we're catching you up on what's been going on behind the scenes. Then we jump into a convo that had us in our feelings the "pull-back" theory. Court found a video that got us asking all the questions: - Is the pull-back just emotional ghosting? - Are people using the "pull-back" as a manipulation move? - How do *you* respon...

Aye Brat Pack! Whew—this week is a  ride . We're checkin' in with Brat before her surgery and talking all about what's been keeping her distracted… mainly the final season of Harlem that got her in a chokehold like no other. Then we get into the real convo—love, relationships, and all the chaos in between: 💭 Ever doubled back? 💔 Feel like you missed out on an ex? 👀 And be honest… can you sleep...

Hey Brat Pack! We're back with another episode. This week's recap is a long one because the kids were out to play. Celebrating our producer Courts birthday and my cousin G's birthday pajama jam, a time was had! This week's topic is centered around something called the "March theory". Whether you welcomed a new love had an ex spin the block or are opening yourself up to new beginnings nothing is im...

Hey Brat Pack! We're back with another episode and this week I'm joined by my girl Bri. So excited to have her on, it was long overdue. We kick the show off with a rapid fire this or that, getting to know Bri's preferences and she didn't disappoint. Next, is our topic that's all about dating and having options. We share a clip of a young lady saying "date them all sis"! We pick Bri's brain on how...

Hey Brat Pack! We're back for another week and this episode we have our first guest of the season: Chad Brown! We kick things off with a toast/shoutout to all women during Women's History Month. Then we dive into a NEW segment called clipped were name the things we're tired of or will no longer tolerate.  This week's topic poses the question what's the dumbest thing you've ever done for love? Our...

Hey Brat Pack! We're back with another episode. This week's recap comes with an AHA moment. Seeing things for what they are and letting it be just that. The topic for this week (surprise, surprise) comes from the male perspective. We dive into a video of a man listing the things he's cool with in a relationship. From sharing locations to having your own living space. Although this is his list and...

Back for Season 2! 🎉    We're kicking things off with a check-in—yes, I'm still on my journey of self-discovery, and a lot has changed since Season 1!   This episode, we're diving into relationships: What does it really mean to be "soft"? Does not being soft make you a bad partner? What does a true partnership look like? I'm giving you my unfiltered truth—the good, the bad, and the messy.   Plus,...

Season 1 of If You Know You Know is coming to a close! It's been an incredible six-month journey, and I couldn't be more grateful for you—the listeners—and my amazing producers. In this season finale, I reflect on the unexpected lessons podcasting has taught me and the growth that's come with it. With Valentine's Day around the corner, let's talk about the most important love of all— self-love . Y...

Join us on If You Know, You Know as Mal brings his dynamic energy and camera-ready stories to this episode. We kick things off by catching up on our week—celebrating the essentials of life: wealth, health, and peace—while also navigating the highs and lows of losing a pet and handling work pressures. Mal shares the adrenaline rush of appearing on *Pop the Balloon*, giving us a behind-the-scenes lo...

Hey Brat Pack! Join us for another episode of If You Know You Know podcast. This week we're joined by Coach Ju from Authentic Basement Podcast. Before we got into the fun, Brat recapped what was a hard week as she had to say goodbye to her dog of 3 years. RIP Syx you'll be missed. We then jumped into Coach Ju's business with a rapid fire game of this or that, which led us into our topic of open re...

Join us on If You Know You Know as we toast to health, wealth, and peace for 2025. Brat kicks off by sharing personal updates, including frustrations with a new work system, co-parenting adjustments, and planning a family cruise to create meaningful memories. Meanwhile, We reflects on handling a flu outbreak at home while managing work challenges, emphasizing the joy of finding balance in mature s...

Hey Brat Pack! Welcome back to another episode IYKYK the podcast. This week, we're joined by a special guest, Exghty —a multi-talented creative with his own podcast, music career, and clothing brand, Mood Attire . Be sure to show him some love. We kick things off with a fun (and slightly ruthless) game of Two Gotta Go ! From five different categories, Exghty has to make the tough call and eliminat...

Hey, Brat Pack! We're back with the second episode of the new year, and it's a juicy one. 👀 This week, we dive into a wild social media video that's sparking all kinds of debates—a woman says she filed for divorce just 30 days after her husband lost his job. Yes, you heard that right! It's a jaw-dropping situation that raises some big questions:     💭 How do you love?   💭 What are you really in...

Hey Brat Pack! It's the holiday season, and what better way to celebrate Christmas than with family, laughs, and a little holiday spice? 🎁      In this special episode of *IYKYK the Podcast,* we're mixing things up with fun games and candid conversations about topics that will have you thinking, laughing, and maybe blushing—like *sex on the first date* and *whether you're still sneaking around wi...

Welcome back to another episode of the IYKYK Podcast with your girl, Brat! 🎙️ This week, we're diving into the holiday hustle as Christmas quickly approaches, and Brat shares the behind-the-scenes of finalizing gifts and who's been a bit of a challenge to shop for this year. But we're not stopping there! We spice things up with a little icebreaker from the game Hella Awkward. Next, we tackle a rel...

Hey Brat Pack welcome back to another episode of the IYKYK Podcast.  This weeks recap consists of preparing for Christmas and the stress but also fulfillment of being with family and gift-giving. We follow-up with the topic that's a call back to love languages. We explore how understanding our love languages can lead to healthier relationships, and why our toxic traits tend to be the complete oppo...

Hey Brat Pack, welcome back to another episode of IYKYK the podcast ! This week, we're joined by a guest, my good friend Nico , who also happens to be a DJ. 🎧 We kick things off with a drink and a quick recap, before diving into a fun icebreaker to get the conversation flowing. From there, we jump into this week's hot topic:  "Are women ruining good men acting like they deserve more than they do?...

Hey Brat Pack, welcome back to another episode of IYKYK the podcast . In today's episode, we're catching up on the week's happenings from nose ring changes to my pod producers quick trip to ATL. In this weeks topic, we take a listen to a clip that highlights how important communication is, and how things can get lost in translation if we're not careful. How do we close the gaps in our communicatio...

Hey Brat Pack! Welcome back to another episode of the If You Know You Know  the podcast! This week, Brat takes us on a journey through her experience of returning to therapy and the importance of prioritizing self-care, especially as the holidays approach.  Brat dives into the Thanksgiving do's and don'ts, offering some personal insights to help make the holiday smoother and more enjoyable for eve...

Aye Brat Pack on this episode of If You Know, You Know for a mix of candid conversations and personal insights. We kick off with a light-hearted take on my love for tequila and a new favorite drink of the week, the "Razzle Dazzle," before diving into reflections on the recent elections. I share my thoughts on Kamala Harris, the impact of racial and gender biases, and pride in the Black community's...