It's So Hard

Welcome to Episode 13 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about life in and around the sex industry. This week, Jenn and Tess get gynaecological as they muse over clitoral rehab and whether it's possible to cum too much. They also yarn about different forms of coercive communication and how we can all be better at seeking to understand each other.  Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the r...

It's a super exciting episode 10 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it. Welcome to our special guest, Jameson Scarlett - escort, content creator and all round great human! Jameson muses on his stripper days, Tess reiterates how good a scene partner Jameson is (turns out, the feeling is mutual!) and we all share the stories of our very first nudes. You d...

Kate is back by popular demand in ep 9 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it. Today, we talk painful depictions of un-lubed sex in Bridgerton, whether any of us should have children and how Christian women are reportedly super sexually satisfied. Kate drops some gems about STIs and we all agree that there is no place for shame or stigma in sexual health...

Oooh guys, welcome to our extra deep Episode 8 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it. This week, Tess Louise and Jenn open the lid on their personal histories and how they both survived a cult! Seriously... you don't want to miss this. Tess also shares some bookings where religion and sex interacted in interesting ways and we muse over surviving toxic f...

OMG you guys, it's a surprise bonus episode of It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it. Tess Louise has been plunged into lockdown, so we thought we should do a quick bonus episode about some of the ways that the pandemic has impacted and changed the sex industry. We talk legal shit, online shit and how to reach out and support sex workers during such a comp...

It's episode 7 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it. And today, we have our first special guest - the absolutely fabulous Kate!!! Kate brings a wealth of experience in dating and sex, and together we giggle over the need to clone good men (shout out Jameson!), the importance of oral and the age-old orgasm debate: to fake or not to fake. Join our hosts...

It's officially episode 6 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it. This week, Jenn and Tess Louise muse over coming out as a sex worker, awkward run-ins, the magic of the male prostate and all things anal play.  Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just gi...

It's a surprise bonus episode of It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it. Tess Louise and Jenn mull over January 26th, a complicated day in the Australian context. They discuss their own journeys towards understanding Australia's colonial history and the ways that the sex industry interacts with race in complex ways.  Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit...

Welcome to It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it. This week's episode was recorded some time ago, so it may be a little out of order - forgive us! Tess Louise and Jenn yarn about work cover stories, gender expectations and the relationship between sex and crying... hint: it's totally normal, guys!  Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (a...

Welcome to It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it. This week, Jenn reports the findings of her Tinder experiment, Tess Louise shares a super sexy booking and both hosts mull over the politics of post-sex showering.  Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just...

Welcome to It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it. This week, Tess-Louise and Jenn discuss the politics of Tinder locations, industry terminology, a better way to approach complex sexual fantasies and that one time that Tess worked in a brothel with a real live shark!!! Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos....

Welcome to It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it. Today, Tess-Louise and Jenn talk about casual dating and sex expectations, the impact of medication on cumming and the joys of 69-ing with someone the same height as you! If you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can email us at sohardpod@outlook.com or find us on Insta @sohard...

Welcome to It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry and life in and around it. Hosted by Jenn and Tess-Louise with personal and professional experience in the mental health and sex industries, each week our hosts mull over life, sex, relationships, mental health and balancing it all in complex industries. Today, Jenn and Tess-Louise mull over being women in the world, booking protocol,...

Coming Soon... It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it. Hosted by Jenn and Tess-Louise with personal and professional experience in the mental health and sex industries, each week our hosts mull over life, sex, relationships, mental health and balancing it all in complex industries. Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally se...