It’s Not That Serious

We welcomed Dana and Josh, the best-friend duo behind Ethereal Photography (they shot our Florida beach photos last December). Dana and Josh share how they met on Instagram, the bumpy start to their working relationship, and how they grew from a one-time second-shooter arrangement into a full-blown best friendship and travel-heavy business partnership. The episode wraps with a guided mini-session...

This week on It’s Not That Serious, we’re talking about something people don’t discuss enough — grieving old versions of ourselves. The older we get, the more we realize growth doesn’t just bring change… it also brings loss. Sometimes we miss the carefree version of ourselves, the more hopeful version, the version before heartbreak, burnout, motherhood, healing, boundaries, or life simply changed...

Coming to you from the car on our way back to Wisconsin after an unforgettable concert 🎶 We’re recapping the night, reliving our favorite moments, and then… things get real. We pull out the We're Not Really Strangers card game and the road trip turns into laughs, honesty, and some unexpectedly deep conversations. https://www.instagram.com/twinnytimes2/

We thought we knew our bodies until we hit our late 30s and now we’re like WTF.  Something has been… off. We’re tired—but wired. Snapping—but also crying in the car for no reason. Forgetting everything. Sweating at night. Questioning our sanity 😅 So we finally asked the question: Is this just life… or is this perimenopause?! This week on It’s Not That Serious, Amy and I are getting REAL about the...

Friendship breakups don’t get talked about nearly enough — but they can hurt just as much (if not more) than romantic ones. In this episode, Amy and I get really honest about our personal experiences with friendships that didn’t last. We talk about the pain, the confusion, the growth, and the lessons we’ve learned along the way. From slowly drifting apart to sudden fallouts, we share what these re...

At some point in life, something strange happens — you look around and realize you’re the adult now. And somehow… that feels both empowering and mildly terrifying. In this episode of It’s Not That Serious, we’re talking about that weird moment in adulthood when you realize the responsibility is yours. The decisions, the direction, the consequences — all of it. And yet, most of us still feel like w...

In this catch-up episode, we sit down to share what life has looked like lately, what we've been up to, including getting attacked from seashells and everything in between.  Oh! And stay tuned… because there may be some merch on the way 👀 Make sure you’re following along so you don’t miss the drop! Follow us on Instagram

In this episode of It’s Not That Serious, Amy and Kay open up about their friendship and how it started, why they kept it quiet at first, and the moments that made it undeniable. Through laughter, stories, and real talk, they explore what happens when you stop overthinking and start owning who you are, who you connect with, and the season you’re in. DM us here! Instagram

This episode is a reflection on growth-the kind that doesn't come with clarity or confidence, but with grief, responsibility, and becoming someone new in real time. This past year changed everything. We talk openly about losing both parents-in-law, carrying grief while life keeps moving, and what it looks like to make big decisions-like buying a business - when your heart feels heavy and uncertain...

Are You My Mommy?” dives into why some of us become the fixer, the planner, the emotional load-bearer, and the one who tries to hold everything together even when no one asked us to. Kay opens up about her own experiences (yes… it gets personal), and she and Amy explore how these patterns start, why they’re so hard to break, and what it actually looks like to step out of the “mom” role for your ow...

This week, we sat down for a good old-fashioned catch-up. We’re talking life updates, what’s been going on behind the scenes, and all the little things that have been keeping us busy lately. But of course, in true It’s Not That Serious fashion, we couldn’t help but get a little deep at the end, diving into what it really means to have hard conversations, why they matter, and how to navigate them w...

In this episode of It's Not That Serious, we're diving into all things mindset-what it really means, why it matters, and how to keep it from feeling so heavy. From the wildest "mindset hacks" we've seen on the internet (love notes to your water bottle, anyone?) to the simple shifts that actually make life easier, we're unpacking how the way you think shapes your everyday life. We'll talk about min...

This week, things get personal on It’s Not That Serious—because Kay’s husband Robby joins the mic! After 17 years of marriage, he’s here to spill the tea on what makes relationships work, what no one tells you about marriage, and yes… to give Amy some brotherly advice for her dating life.   From funny behind-the-scenes marriage moments to “what guys really mean” when dating, we cover it all: green...

Why do I need to be believed? Is it that serious?    Ever catch yourself over-explaining like you’re on trial? Same. This week we ask: why do we need to be believed so badly and is it actually that serious, or are we just exhausting ourselves with receipts? We dig into childhood roots, adult over-explaining, and the deep need for validation.    Find us on Instagram at twinnytimes2 

Rejection hurts, whether it’s being ghosted, passed over for a job, or feeling like someone just isn’t that into us. In this episode of It’s Not That Serious, we dive into the fear of rejection and everything that comes with it: the anxiety, the overthinking, the sting to our ego, and even the funny (but not funny at the time) moments when rejection knocked us down.   We talk about why rejection f...

In this lighthearted episode of It’s Not That Serious, we dive into one of my favorite topics my best friend’s love life. From what I hope her next beau will be like, to the non-negotiables I’ve set for anyone who dares to date her, we get into the fun (and slightly protective) side of best-friend matchmaking.   We laugh about the “application process” it would take to win her over (and win me ove...

In this episode of It’s Not That Serious, we’re diving into the messy, blurry world of situationships—you know, that gray area between “just talking” and “actually dating.” We break down why we stay in them too long, the red flags that it’s time to move on, and that gut-check moment when you just know it’s over. Whether you’re in the thick of a situationship or helping your bestie navigate hers, t...

In this episode of, It's Not That Serious, Amy and Kay dive into the transformative power of self acceptance and its impact on their own personal growth. Through candid conversations, Amy and Kay explore how embracing vulnerability and honesty with yourself can lead to deeper relationships and a more fulfilling life. Tune in to discover how letting go of excuses and embracing your true self can be...

Amy and Kay are diving into the journey of taking ownership of your own happiness, and the realization that one is coming to save you. Embracing self-reliance and setting boundaries can lead to deeper relationship and a more fulfilling life. Tune in to learn how to become the main character in your own story. Follow Us on Instagram!

In this episode of It's Not That Serious, Twinnytimes2 kick things off with a winter confession: they don’t scrape their windows—and not because they can’t. They break down why that small choice reflects a big mindset shift about where we put our energy. Tune in as they turn this icy habit into a powerful metaphor for life, relationships, and knowing when it’s time to stop forcing what’s not worki...

In this episode, Twinnytimes2 opens up about the twists and turns of navigating careers that look nothing like what they studied in school. From questioning the pressure to “stick with it” to embracing what truly lights them up, they share personal insights and real talk about making bold moves. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a path that no longer fits—or never did—this one’s for you. Life’s too sho...

In this episode, the twins reminisce about a wild night at the fair, sharing laughs, unexpected moments, and what it means to always have each other's backs. From silly adventures to heartfelt reflections, they open up about the power of sisterhood and their hope that everyone finds a ride-or-die like they have. Instagram

In this episode, the twins sit down with their longtime friend Jimmy to reflect on how they met, the unexpected bonds that formed, and what dating really looks like in your 30s and 40s. From hilarious first impressions to heartfelt insights on love and friendship, this one’s full of real talk and good vibes. Instagram

In this powerful episode, Twinnytimes2 open up about mental health, healing, and the moment their friendship deepened in an unexpected way. When one of them hit rock bottom, the other stayed—no questions, no judgment. Tune in for an honest conversation about being there for the people you love, even when it’s hard.   Better Help American Foundation for Suicide Prevention

Going Through The Big D.....and Don't Mean Dallas In this powerful and personal episode of TwinnyTimes2, Kay and Amy open up about their unique experiences with divorce—one as a wife navigating the end of a marriage, the other reflecting on childhood shaped by her parents’ separation. They dive into the emotional rollercoaster, healing journeys, co-parenting challenges, and how their perspectives...