Jenny and Elroy "Spoonface" Powell

It’s Not Me, It’s You: Questions Couples Avoid

Education EN ↓ 12 episodes

The conversations couples avoid—but shouldn’t. We explore the questions that reveal how you love, argue, shut down, and reconnect. From attachment styles to unspoken resentment, this is where real relationships get honest. If you’ve ever thought “something feels off but I can’t explain it”… this is for you. Take the 30-second relationship check-in :https://questions-couples-avoid.scoreapp.com

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Jenny and Elroy "Spoonface" Powell

Episodes

Is your relationship messing with your work? 04.06.2026 15:30

Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Take the 30-second Relationship Conversation Check-In here: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

Is it your fault that this relationship isn't working? 28.05.2026 13:24

Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

If you don't keep up, your partner is going to leave! 20.05.2026 14:17

Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

Is your relationship even real if you don't fight? 13.05.2026 15:52

Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

Is feeling unsafe in your relationship destroying your intimacy? 06.05.2026 14:43

Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

Is your relationship really working? 29.04.2026 13:12

Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

This is why you're not getting enough s*x 24.04.2026 15:08

Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

This is hurting your relationship 15.04.2026 12:04

Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

What are you afraid of? 08.04.2026 11:31

Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

Why aren't you telling your partner? 03.04.2026 19:29

Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore more questions couples often avoid. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this is for you. Get Your Relationship Conversation Starter Pack: https://pensight.com/x/spoonface1/questions-couples-avoid

This is why your partner wants to leave! 25.03.2026 19:21

Most people don’t leave all at once. They leave slowly. Quietly. Emotionally first. It shows up in the small things. Less touch. Shorter conversations. More distance that no one talks about. And instead of asking what’s really going on, we guess. We assume. We wait. This is where relationships start to sink. In this episode, we break down what’s actually happening beneath the surface and the quest...

The Top Three Questions Every Couple Avoids 19.03.2026 18:50

Most relationships don’t struggle because people don’t care. They struggle because certain conversations never happen. In this episode, we explore the questions couples often avoid, including how childhood experiences, attachment styles, and communication patterns shape the way we show up in relationships. If you’ve ever felt like something important hasn’t been said, this conversation is for you....