It's Not Me, It's You

EPISODE 16 This episode goes from horoscopes to straight-up horrorscopes real quick 😭 We sit down with our guest and get into his dating history (being in love not once, but twice, almost getting engaged, and all the chaos in between). Somewhere along the way, we start questioning if it was real love… or just the stars playing games. We talk zodiac signs, patterns in dating, red flags we ignored,...

🎙️ Episode 15: Red Flags, Green Flags & Everything In Between (w/ Cosze) In this episode, we sit down with our guest Cosze and get into the messy middle of modern dating... the red flags, the green flags, and all the confusing signals in between. Like most of our conversations, it starts one place and ends somewhere completely different. We talk dating experiences, reading people’s energy, fig...

The Fun Parts of Dating (Yes, We’re Being Sarcastic) We had a little time before the year wrapped… so of course we hit record. This one’s off-the-whim, no outline, no filter, just us talking about the “fun” parts of dating (heavy sarcasm implied). From mixed signals, situationships, overthinking texts, dating fatigue, and the emotional gymnastics that somehow count as modern romance, we’re laughin...

Dating apps aren’t just awkward anymore… they’re kinda dark. In this episode, Matt breaks down his real-life experiences on dating apps...from sketchy situations to straight-up fraud, and why “trust, but verify” isn’t paranoia, it’s survival. We talk about: The illusion of safety on dating apps Red flags that show up way too late When giving the benefit of the doubt turns into being naïve How opti...

This week’s episode gets heated in the best way . Vanessa and Matt get real about love, fear, commitment, and whether past experiences leave us tainted or just more self-aware. Matt opens up about thinking he might’ve been in love once and why he doesn’t know if he’ll ever find love again. Vanessa challenges him on how commitment does define a relationship, especially after dedicating 7 years to o...

In this episode, we get into the real foundations of dating, relationships, and self-awareness. Because the truth is: dating gets way easier when YOU know who you are. We talk:✨ the two types of single people (the ones who want to be single vs. the ones who absolutely don’t)✨ how dating & sex are an energy exchange ✨ why some people protect their sauce… and others just hand it out like Cost...

In this episode, we sit down with Jenny, who’s been in a loving relationship for three years and is building a future with her person. We dive into everything from sugar babies to self-love, and how knowing yourself is the real key to finding the right partner. Jenny gets real about not settling, the importance of growing with your partner, and the exciting next steps she and her girl are planning...

This week on It’s Not Me, It’s You we’re joined by the incredibly talented Chef Tavos; food truck king, flavor wizard, and culinary dreamer who’s out here making magic happen with the love of his life by his side. 🌮 ❤️ He’s serving up more than just mouthwatering dishes… he’s also dishing out his secret sauce on love . Their food? It doesn’t just taste good, it transports you . One bite and you’r...

In this episode, we sit down with Ethan Moreno (Matt’s little brother) to talk about something that’s rare but beautiful... finding real love young and keeping it strong. Ethan opens up about how he met his high school sweetheart, how he knew it was love, and the little things that keep their relationship alive. We dive into: 💌 What makes a relationship feel healthy and loving🌍 Navigating long d...

This week on It’s Not Me, It’s You Podcast , we’re breaking down " the roster" , what it is, why people have one and how it ties into dating. We dive into authenticity in dating, the importance of synergy, and how knowing yourself sets the tone for the kind of love you attract. Whether you’re single, cuffed, or somewhere in-between, this episode is full of real talk, laughs, and insights...

It’s giving chaos, delusion, clarity… and confidence. In this episode, your favorite sibling duo is back in the studio talking all things modern love. From dating just to smash vs actually building something real, red flag hobbies, and everything in between. Matt introduces us to the term hardboiled (aka confident with a side of gusto), while they both try to make sense of dating in 2025. Is the h...

She’s not your average housewife, she’s running the house, the schedule, and the bedroom. In this episode, we sit down with a real-life freaky housewife and talk about the power dynamics of love, control, and cooking in thigh-highs. No more settling. No more playing small. It’s time to upgrade your role, from passive partner to power player. Let’s talk dominance, devotion, and domesticity… all at...

Ghosted again? Same. In this episode, your favorite chaotic sibling duo dives into the messiness of modern communication (or lack thereof). We’re talking about ghosting, breadcrumbing, avoiding hard convos, and why “just say how you feel” seems impossible for some. We also get into accountability in dating (yes, even yours 😬), the fine line between honesty and cruelty, and the underrated power of...

She left Boston for love. The love didn’t last. What came after… she’s still figuring out. This week on It’s Not Me, It’s You, we sit down with Lena the Stitcha... a guest who says less but makes you lean in more. She moved cities, changed chapters, and while she may not have all the answers, her presence says there’s more beneath the surface. We talk about starting over, the quiet in-between, and...

This one’s exactly what it sounds like... real talk, no filter. We sat down with our homie Louiekillz , an artist and self-declared reformed hoe , and let’s just say… the conversation got wild. From running the streets and not being ready, to trying to figure out what love even looks like now, we covered it all. It’s giving locker room talk, mixed with just enough honesty to catch you off guard. I...

Grab your drink and pull up a seat... it’s another fireside chat with your favorite sibling duo! In this episode, Vanessa (the “seasoned vet”) and Matt (the self-proclaimed “rookie”) go head-to-head on the ever-changing battlefield of love. We’re talking about dating do’s and don’ts, how intimacy has evolved, and much much more. No scripts. No filters. Just real convos, loud laughs, and sibling ch...

Welcome to the very first episode of It’s Not Me, It’s You... a love, dating, and relationship podcast hosted by siblings who could not be more different. She’s the big sister: 11 years older, been in long-term relationships, and seen love from the inside out. He’s the little brother: never been in love, but got plenty of hot takes and chaotic opinions. In this episode, we shoot the sh*t on everyt...