It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

This week Abbie has a chat with Astrologer Jaz Borri! Jaz Borri is an empowerment astrologer & self-discovery mentor from Sydney, Australia. Using modern mysticism, Jaz is passionately in service to the 21st century woman who feels just as she did: lost, heavy minded and ready for change. After years of struggling with a mental health disorder, codependency, toxic relationships & unworthin...

Abbie reads your stories you have emailed in about your wild exes, including lots of cheating and drama. She finishes the episode off with a little advice on how to get over your own awful ex. It's A Lot now has a website and new email address. itsalotpodcast.com hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

EBTIL has revoked his consent to have this episode continued.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TW: In this episode we talk a lot about vulvas, being two cis women who have only slept with cis women, our language defaulted to binary and cis language. I just wanted to say that we both acknowledge that not all women have vulvas and not all vulva owners are women, and we still have work to do in fully converting our language.  This week Abbie is joined by her friend Ellie who is the founde...

HABITUAL NUTTER This week Abbie is joined by Lillian Ahenkan akaFLEX MAMI!!!! Flex is an absolutely glorious human who has made critical thinking *cool* again with her card game REFLEX along with her incredible IG stories full of reddit threads, and her two podcasts (Bobo and Flex and Whatever I want).   Flex and Abbie play REFLEX, asnwering a question each, then go on to answer a l...

Abbie dissects a tweet that says the following: I'm the kind of girl that says I want a boyfriend but any time a guy tries to get to know me I'm like "nah not you"??? I'm the reason I'm fucking single". Lotsa issues but nothing we can examine! 
  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Grrr!! This one is full of anger. A listener DMd Abbie a message asking how to deal with her D-Bag of an ex who is attempting to slut shame her. Gross. 
  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's been a couple of days because Abbie needed a mental health break. Today Abbie rants about anti-vaxxers and conspiracy theorists in a very niche facebook group she is in. She gives advice on how to deal with being ghosted, how to just be "better" in bed (and how to deal with someone not being able to cum or get hard) and how to deal with being bisexual... even though she doesnt really know yet...

Abbie talks about the anxiety of that first sexual encounter after a dry spell, and how to ease some of that anxiety! 
  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abbie had a break on Saturday so is giving you a 20 minute lockdown episode. She talks about femme men, performative actions that become habits and what that means for the body positivity movement being co-opted by thin white women (perhaps including herself) as well as the low down on going to therapy and finding a therapist for you! 
  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more inf...

Abbie has a laugh about a reply to a nude she received, then answers a question about sexting and sending nudes. Here is the link to Abbie's PopSugar article on sexting! https://www.popsugar.com.au/love/how-to-sext-someone-47331817 
  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abbie discusses WAP by Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion and all of the reasons why she loves the banger. If you don't agree, check your internalised misogyny. 
  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abbie is stuck in Quarantine due to COVID-19 border restrictions in Queensland and because of this, she is going to be uploading daily mini episodes to keep herself sane. Email itsalotpod@gmail.com for questions or topic suggestions 
  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode is a rollercoaster of juicy relationship head scratchers starting with Abbie chatting to her gorgeous friends Viola and Simon, which then swiftly turns into a “Tell All” Interview conducted by Simon on his friend's sticky relationship status.  Simon's Friend - who remains unnamed, has been thrown into a long distance relationship. Since the move, Simons unnamed friend...

This week is a little late, and a little different. Abbie had a date, her first date since her most recent break up. After Abbie being turned down multiple times on a drunken night, Danny Clayton finally agreed to a date. This is a big big deal. Learn how Abbie actually is in the dating game, with a play by play recount of Abbie and Danny's first meeting through to the end of their first date.&nbs...

TRIGGER WARNING: Emotional Labor  I wonder which woman you are using for free Therapy today ?  This week Abbie finally gets a chance to sit down and chat with Soaliha, who you probably know from the podcast group. Soaliha is all all round gem, and this chat is a testament to that.  In this episode, Abbie and Soaliha unravel that mess that is - Male toxicity and Emotional Labor. As w...

Abbie talks about being happy while being single, answers a question about a failed threesome, gives some advice on how to not fear that everyone hates you and describes in detail how to give a blow job (SORRY MUM AND OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS) The Daily Mail will have a field day.   Ask Abbie: How to be Single Past Life Regression – Brian Weiss Feeld App for Threesomes and other alternate s...

This week abbie speaks to April, also known as “The Bodzilla” all about flags in relationships. Not all flags have to be the Colour RED, Abbie and April breakdown the Red, Yellow and evn green flags to navigate dating. Discussing how we can be blinded by flags and allow certain behaviors to slip under the radar when we are with someone we THINK is right for us.  Follow April on In...

TW: Suicide, mental health, abortion This week Abbie talks about her preparation for BIP and how she feels about being on reality TV once again. She then answers questions regarding her abortion, how to keep a FWB situation fulfilling for both parties and whether feminism has a place in Bach Nation. The link to Abbie's IGTV: https://www.instagram.com/tv/B7aSjvWFuSR/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_...

This week, Abbie is joined by the amazing Gina Savage. Gina discusses her ongoing battle with Melanoma and the incredible work she is doing to raise awareness and fight the illness. Gina shares her inspiring message around her purpose and how fundraising and awareness has sparked her drive to help those around her and make a positive impact on lives.  The chat is funny and heartfelt, just lik...

In this weeks episode, Abbie is joined by amazing listener of the show, Susana Danielle Downes. This is the first installment of a new kind of episode that gives you, the listener the opportunity to share Abbie's platform. Susana is Miss Earth Australia, a bi-racial Filipino woman who we adore! In this chat, Abbie and Susana answer your questions on anxiety around dating, Owning your sexual pleasu...

In this weeks episode, Abbie is joined by the incredible Sunny and Glo. In this chat they speak on their experience as Black Womeb of Colour and their thoughts on topics such as performative activism, the expectation that has been placed on them to be in a position of presence, education and damage control when they are hurt themselves in the worlds happenings and people in positions of power chec...

A special message of love to Abbie's wonderful grandmother who was sadly lost this past week. We love you Grandma, we will always love you.  TRIGGER WARNING: This episode sexual health, Mental health  This week is an open, honest, sit down chat with you guys! Answering some of your burning questions,.  This week Abbie chats about STI Stigmas, Anxiety around making new friends, the b...

TRIGGER WARNING: Fat Shaming, Disordered Eating, Anxiety and Depression, Body Dysmorphia  Usually Abbie gives a little intro but this week she was sick, and could barely talk! So we get right into it.  This week Abbie is joined by the gorgeous, smart and feminist Demi Lynch, founder of The Nasty Woman Club (media company and podcast. Demi and Abbie decide to give each other recommendatio...

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses mental health and abusive relationships  A playful episode with Phoebe Thompson to discuss navigating the world as fierce and proud to be, sexual woman. Phoebe opens up about her physical appearance, the male gaze, her character portrayal on Love Island and the type of “love” she recieves to her DMs. Some noteworthy quotes from this episode...