It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

Why is going to see a financial advisor a bit like going on a first date? What is an STD (sexually transmitted debt) and how can you avoid it? And finally, why is buying a share just as important as buying 4 pairs of runners online? Host of the podcast She's on the Money and dollar dollar queen Victoria Devine chats with Abbie about all things money, relationships, and future plans. To learn more...

There's SO much anxiety on this season's The Bachelor but we all want good TV, don't we? Abbie proves her point on why being the one chosen for that first date is a curse and why 'Girl Codes' on dating shows are utter bullshit. Also, Abbie called it: Vajayjay is ICONIC. LINKS Catch up with The Bachelor on Channel 10 Play https://bit.ly/2TvS4wn Follow @itsalotpod on Instagram for videos, memes, and...

Being a woman in politics in this country is.. a lot. Brittany Higgins' coming forward has reportedly allowed many other women to feel brave (and safe) enough to tell their own stories of bullying and harassment. Ex-Bachie star Alisha Aitken-Radburn used to be a staffer for the Labor party, for Bill Shorten himself. She's got a new podcast called In The House And In The Senate, where she's speakin...

The Hot AF Jimmy Nicholson chats to Abbie as she recaps episode one and two of season 9 of The Bachelor.  Find out why Abbie disapproves of Jimmy saying he's looking for a "nice" girl.  Also, Abbie sums up her feels about the mansion girls by saying: "Stop getting annoyed at people doing what you would do!".  LINKS Catch up with The Bachelor on Channel 10 Play https://bit.ly/2TvS4wn...

Why is getting a vaccine harder than getting Scomo to apologise for ANYTHING? Also, wait till you hear how disgustingly cheap a date can be on this week's Nightmare Fuel. Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com LINKS Vaccine Eligibility link  https://bit.ly/3wUWISk For more information on the Australian government's vaccine roll out plans https://bit.ly/3rjWJ0D Fol...

It's Season Three and there's no denying that Abbie has been THIRSTY to get behind the mic.  She's got a list of things she's masturbated to since quitting porn, a plethora of ex boyfriend thoughts, and an ICONIC nightmare fuel featuring poo on a cream carpet.  Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com LINKS I Wanna Be Your Slave by Måneskin- https://bit.l...

We bring you back to when Abbie chatted with TikTok legend PeachPRC on everything music, mental health, stripping and backfiring kinks. Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com LINKS Stream Peach's new song ' Symptomatic ' . https://bit.ly/symptomatic-peachprc . Follow @itsalotpod on Instagram for videos, memes, and fun BTS stuff http://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram   Pe...

What's up with the guy serving up Koala mattresses mid-sex? And what's up with the guy who can't keep a solid thrusting pace? You guessed it: It's Nightmare Fuel time with Abbie Chatfield! LINKS Listen to Abbie's episode with Rosie Rees https://bit.ly/35Obtez Follow @itsalotpod on Instagram for videos, memes, and fun BTS stuff http://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram   Send your Nightmare Fuel via voi...

Okay real talk. Pranks. They are - Abbie would argue - the worst form of comedy. They are also, her biggest fear. Why? Well well well you'll have to listen to find out. Plus, one little beluga sent in a voice memo admitting that THEY were the nightmare fuel. It's glorious. It's beautiful. It has to be heard to be believed. So get listening! Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotp...

Why is Abbie having panic attacks about Trisha Paytas and the Frenemies podcast? Also, at what point is someone considered to be 'ghosted'? Is it two weeks? Two months? A year? You'll hear what Abbie deems a proper ghosting in this week's Nightmare Fuel. LINKS Frenemies podcast link https://apple.co/3x9MG03 Regarding Trisha Quitting episode https://bit.ly/359utnf Pregnancy Announced episode https:...

Why is Abbie so scared of going into a relationship? Also, this week's Nightmare Fuel features a meaty Zooper Dooper and a quick Glug It Up refresher.  LINKS Dr. Kirk Honda's Psychology in Seattle Channel https://bit.ly/3x1sKwb Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield...

Should Abbie go on a date with 'The Englishman'? Following Abbie's dating dilemmas comes in a triple dose of Nightmare Fuel featuring the one with the nude brekkie date gone wrong, the one with the horrific boss comment, and the one who tried to break into her own apartment. Enjoy! LINKS Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hell...

Does a naked woman have to be a sexy woman? Why is sucking your tummy in bad for your vagina? And, can you teach yourself how to squirt? Founder of the 'Yoni Pleasure Palace' and Nude Yoga queen Rosie Rees answers all questions nudity and sex while opening up to Abbie about one of the most difficult situations she's faced.  Disclaimer: You are encouraged to make your own health care choices b...

This week is a cheeky lil catch up. Abbie's back from a trip to the Northern Territory where she had more fun than you can poke a stick at. Plus her Nightmare Fuel is just plain weird, and a lesson in how to not pick someone up. LINKS Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @ab...

You've heard of the clandestine 'Soggy Sao' urban myth, right? If not, don't worry, Abbie demystifies all things cracker and cum. Also, Abbie wonders, why on EARTH are people still editing their photos? Aren't we past this cringe fest already? Finally, get ready for a lovely lil TikTok rant. LINKS Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice no...

Can assertiveness be mistaken for bitchiness? Bel Crawford is the powerhouse behind The Self-Love Club podcast and she has a LOT to share with Abbie about managing shitty friendships, establishing your personality and authority at work, a how to cut f*ck boys out of your life for good. Also, why on earth is Abbie talking about Grant Denyer going for a wee? This episode is brought to you by CHEEX:...

This episode contains discussions of violence against women, and homicide. Please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 or lifeline.org.au if any of the topics discussed raise any issues for you. The recent news of the death of Kelly Wilkinson has made national headlines. How many more women have to lose their lives for Australia to step up and pay attention. Also, is Abbie sleeping with a "reformed m...

Why has Abbie decided to identify as Queer and why are some people accusing her of bi erasure? Plus, who knew that there are people out there who can tell you exactly what they want and need out of whatever kind of relationship you're having with them and NOT gaslight you... Cause Abbie only just found that out and it's AMAZING. Also, a compliment and a medical/dating Nightmare Fuel? Yes please! L...

Have you seen or heard about Khloe Kardashian's "leaked" bikini photo? Well, Abbie has A LOT to say about it. Also, ABBIE HAS RELEASED A NEW VIBRATOR!!! Producer Elise tries it out first hand and you get to hear aaaaallll the details. LINKS Get Your Abbie Vibrator here https://bit.ly/3t6AEmq Margot Pincus' TikTok https://bit.ly/3mPC7eN Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfiel...

Why is this season's MAFS screaming the word PROBLEMATIC? Other than a MAFS rant, Abbie gets a text from an ex boyfriend and she is SO not impressed. Also, can a palm lick make a woman cum? LINKS The Dan Savage Lovecast https://www.savagelovecast.com/ Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Get your It's A Lot merchandise http://bit.ly/itsalot-merch   Send your Nightma...

Why is "Condensed milk" the highlight of today's episode? Hint: It's nightmare fuel related. Also, what do you do when you run out of words in a conversation? Do you anxiously over-talk or just embrace the silence? LINKS The Dan Savage Lovecast https://www.savagelovecast.com/ AJ Clementine on TikTok https://bit.ly/3u64hnQ Belle Bambi on TikTok https://bit.ly/31pPnwJ Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod A...

Are we really questioning the fact that the Atlanta shootings weren't racially motivated? Abbie then moves on to a lighter note and unravels the elaborate table saga. Plus on Nightmare Fuel a listener wants to know, what the heck to do when her partner wants her to be safe, but she really wants to go to the beach. This episode of It's A Lot is sponsored by Esmi Skin Minerals. Use the code "ITSALOT...

The following episode contains discussions of sexual assault, alleged murder, rape, and suicidal ideation. If this raises any issues for you please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 Will we (women and young girls) ever be able to walk home at night without holding onto our keys ready to pounce at any potential murderer or rapist lurking around the corner? ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! Plus Abbie talks about t...

You know what's been a lot? People telling Abbie off for being a bad role model for their kids. Plus hate following, why do we do it? And we have a double whammy of Nightmare Fuel for this week from one listener who has a UTI horror story, and producer Elise tells the story of her worst ever date. Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfiel...

What was it like for Brooke Blurton to come out as bisexual on The Bachelor? And what does it feel like to live in "four worlds" - white Australia, Indigneous Australia, social media and the queer community. Also, we challenge you to count how many times Brooke flirts with Abbie (feel free to turn this into a drinking game, if you like). Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodc...