It Was All A Phase Podcast

In this episode, Elba dives deep into one of the hardest places we find ourselves in, the waiting season. Waiting can feel scary, humbling, and full of uncertainty. Whether you’re waiting for clarity, a door to open, healing, or an answered prayer, this episode reminds you of a powerful truth: God’s timing is always perfect. Through scripture (Habakkuk 2:3), personal reflection, and gentle encoura...

In this heartfelt episode, Elba shares a soul-stirring message about purpose, passion, and what it truly means to return to yourself. We were each created in God’s image, not to live in guilt or perfectionism, but to walk in love, grace, and divine purpose. If you’ve ever felt disconnected, stuck in your past, or unsure of your calling, this conversation is your reminder: you were never lost, just...

Born from heartbreak and divine guidance, Amor A La Mexicana™ is more than a project, it’s a calling. In this episode, Elba shares how God turned her despair into purpose, inspiring her to be a light in the darkness. A portion of proceeds supports CHIRLA, advocating for immigrant rights and dignity for all.

This episode is a love letter to our mothers—and a wake-up call for us. Our moms and abuelas carried the weight of survival with little recognition. Because of their sacrifices, we have opportunities they never did. It’s time to stop playing small. Be bold. Be relentless. Take up space. We owe it to ourselves—and to them. If you need encouragement or guidance through a new phase in life, I’ve got...

In this episode, I’m diving into the power of concentration, solitude, and energetic clarity. These days, I crave being alone—not because I’m hiding, but because that’s where I find her… the truest version of me. We’re talking about why what you focus on, you feed—why it’s not enough to set intentions if your energy is scattered. You can’t sit in two chairs at once. If you’re feeling overwhelmed,...

In this deeply personal episode, Elba speaks directly to our Brown girls and boys navigating the pain, rage, and heaviness of today’s world. From spiritual grounding to ancestral remembrance, she reminds us that we are not alone—we are loved, we are powerful, and we come from unimaginable strength. She also shares how her journey back to center has been supported by her spiritual teacher, Dr. Divi...

In this very first episode, Elba shares the heart behind It Was All A Phase—a podcast created for women (and girls) navigating healing, identity, and self-expression. Learn what inspired her to start, who this space is for, and why every phase of your life matters. You are not too much—you are becoming.