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It Takes A Village
Nine to Noon's Kathryn Ryan interviews parenting experts to help you navigate the trends, trials & tough calls of modern family life.
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Episodes
When should you be worried about speech and language delays in children? 09.07.2026 17:06
Speech delays or difficulties can be concerning but there are a number of myths surrounding speech and language, so when should we be worried? Speech and language therapist Christian Wright. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
Unpacking a child's changing brain 02.07.2026 18:42
"What were you thinking!?" - the exclamation many parents, caregivers or teachers can make, when trying to decipher what and why kids do what they do. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
What can be done about fussy eaters for parents? 18.06.2026 20:29
Getting children to eat their veggies, try new foods, and generally get a balanced diet are age-old parenting challenges. From the earliest introduction of solids, to picky toddlers, and growing teenagers, the trials are endless. So how do you deal with a fussy eater, and when does it become a more serious health issue? Registered dietitian Anna Richards has some tips. Go to this episode on rnz.co...
The two wildly different sides of a child's brain (and how to parent both) 11.06.2026 22:36
Why modern childhood's putting parenting to the test, and why a radical parenting approach is needed to help free kids from constantly responding to their defence system. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
Who rules the roost in your household? 04.06.2026 20:07
Who rules the roost in your household? And when can these accommodations become a problem? Jenny Hale is a senior parenting coach at the Parenting Place. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
How to help kids adjust to changes to the education system 28.05.2026 14:47
How do all the education changes affect students and what support might they need? Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
Co-parenting arrangements fall through cracks - researcher 26.05.2026 17:05
A leading researcher says New Zealand's official data systems fail to track the realities of co-parenting and shared care arrangements. Often unseen because they are not counted in the Census, these shared care arrangements are happening in one-in-five households, according to Motu Research's senior fellow Kate Prickett. Parents getting less informal support from the other parent for things like c...
Parenting: sharing the mental load 21.05.2026 20:04
The long-standing friction in parenting - who does the unpaid, administrative, load? The scheduling and the logistics of the kids' lives. Who signs the form for a school trip, who chooses and buys the birthday presents and then organises the party, who's in the group chat for after school activities? For the parent doing too much how can they step away, and do less? And for the parent not doing en...
The value in kids stepping up to stop peers being bullied 19.05.2026 23:00
Research by the Mental Health Foundation NZ suggests that half of bullying scenarios stop if a peer intervenes. But how can we teach our kids to be UPstanders - someone who intervenes when someone is being bullied - as opposed to BYstanders? Kylie Ryan has a clinical background in social work. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
How grandparents are vital for the wellbeing of our mokopuna 07.05.2026 21:51
André Ngapo is learning designer and national coach at Brainwave Trust Aotearoa which focuses giving tamariki the best start in life. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
Does the rise of FAFO signal the demise of gentle parenting? 30.04.2026 17:08
FAFO parenting is all the hype online but what is it and is it the answer for exhausted parents moving on from gentle parenting? Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
How to talk about social media pressures and the manosphere 23.04.2026 23:20
The so-called 'manosphere' has been in the headlines following Louis Theroux's documentary into the network of influencers promoting hyper masculine viewpoints and spreading misogyny. These influencers, who were once fringe, are now very much in mainstream. And while Theroux's documentary focused on the personalities of these people themselves, others are interested in the real life impact on our...
Calls for tighter restrictions for online pornography 16.04.2026 19:50
In New Zealand, there is no age-verification system to prevent of young people viewing online pornography. Often, this content can be graphic, sometimes violent - including coercive or non-consensual behaviour. Therapist, educator and researcher Jo Robertson has called for better safeguards. She joins Kathryn to discuss what other countries are doing - and how parents and caregivers can navigate t...
Critical thinking for teens to manage the online world 09.04.2026 23:29
Repeating mental pathways, giving time to emotions and being a good debater are all key parts of learning to think critically, says an expert in teaching the important skill. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
How to cut through the noise as a new parent 02.04.2026 20:58
how do you know what information to trust, where to turn, and how to cut through the noise. Dr Natalie Flynn is a registered clinical psychologist, the author of Smart Mothering - where she dubbed this - "bombardment syndrome", and the co-founder of Parentland, alongside her late husband Nigel Latta. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
How to teach teenagers about investing and the value of money 26.03.2026 20:25
Social media is brimming with advice about how to get make money in a hurry - and that can be very attractive to young people. So how best to get teens interested in their money - and how to manage it wisely? Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
What did you do at school today? 18.03.2026 18:04
Speech and language therapist Christian Wright discusses the difficulty of asking children what they did at school that day and why often they'll simply say "nothing". Christian and Kathryn explore why this question is so hard for children to answer and how can parents turn it into a back-and-forth interaction, all while building a child's language and conversation skills Go to this episode on rnz...
Ensuring good dental care into adulthood 11.03.2026 24:14
As children get older and take more responsibility for their teeth, what can parents and caregivers do to ensure good habits through to adulthood? Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
Helen Ellis on being a grandchild or grandparent living geographically apart 05.03.2026 19:08
Do you have to video call grandchildren living overseas? Or perhaps you email your grandparents who are abroad? In the modern world it's common for families to be split over countries and continents. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
How to help kids understand the internet 25.02.2026 21:21
Dr Niraj Lal is a Melbourne-based researcher and writer whose new book is aimed at getting kids thinking about how they use the internet, who they interact with and what data is being gathered about them. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
Considering a child's right to play in their neighbourhood 18.02.2026 16:03
Remember the days when children would roam free, playing with friends around the neighbourhood. How can parents encourage their offspring back to outdoor free play? Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
Occupational therapist on the support caregivers of neurodivergent children need 12.02.2026 18:33
Elana Cohen is an occupational therapist who has two decades experience working with children of all ages and abilities - and their families. She's Nelson based - working for Health NZ's Child Development Service, as well as in private practice. Elana says parents and caregivers need lots of support to help neurodivergent children flourish. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
How to help kids deal with the back-to-school nerves 04.02.2026 18:37
Return-to-school nerves can be a normal reaction after the long summer break, but when should parents be concerned and what can they do about it? Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
Navigating the pros and cons of school uniforms 02.02.2026 15:20
Otago University's Dr Johanna Reidy researches the impact of school uniform design and policy on health and educational outcomes. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
Parenting: 'I'm bored' 17.12.2025 13:19
Summer holidays come with plenty of opportunities for children to utter 'I'm bored'. Parenting expert Zhenlin Wang on whether that's a bad thing. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
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