It Is What It Is

In this episode, Kylan sits down with her first ever guest on It Is What It Is , Hakeem Hall! They talk about chaotic, funny, and surprisingly insightful conversations about what it really takes to build a personal brand in today’s social media world. From navigating content creation and staying authentic online to balancing ambition with real life, the two dive into the highs, lows, and everythin...

Kylan is back with an episode that proves wedding planning is basically a full-time job with a luxury price tag. From the shockingly expensive details nobody warns brides about, to the chaos of balancing love languages, emotions, and aesthetics, she’s spilling it all with zero shame and maximum glam. The episode also dives into her zodiac sign compatibility with her Virgo Fiancé. From their relati...

In this episode, Kylan shares a major wedding milestone—officially locking in the venue date and stepping into a new phase of the planning journey. From the emotions behind the decision to the excitement of what’s next, the episode offers an intimate look at what it feels like when everything starts to become real. Alongside the wedding updates, Kylan shifts into a powerful conversation about navi...

In this episode, Kylan takes listeners behind the scenes of a major wedding planning milestone—touring potential venues. From first impressions to unexpected details, she walks through every moment of the experience, sharing what stood out, what surprised her, and what she’s now prioritizing moving forward. It’s an honest, unfiltered debrief that gives a real look into the decision-making process...

New season, new energy, and a whole new chapter Kylan’s been dying to talk about… In this season premiere, She’s finally catching you up on everything—from the moment that changed her life (yes… she’s engaged 💍) to stepping into a new level of independence with her new car 🚗. It’s giving growth, it’s giving alignment, it’s giving “everything is happening exactly how it’s supposed to.” We’re talk...

It's the Season 3 Finale!! In this episode, Kylan breaks down the ins and outs of the new year—what’s getting dropped, what’s getting elevated, and what absolutely will not be coming along for the ride. From career moves and creative discipline to friendships, finances, fashion, and personal boundaries, nothing is off-limits, and everything is intentional. She also shares a HUGE potential life...

Happy Monday, babes! This episode is a full runway debrief—no PR fluff, no polite claps. We’re breaking down the looks that ate , the backstage chaos, the last-minute outfit swaps, and the moments that made us clutch our pearls. Kylan also shares her first experience at a brand event, her interview mishaps, and more! Xoxo! Don't forget to rate the show!

Hi babes! In this episode, we’re unpacking two iconic topics: Kylan's 2025 Wrapped for the pod, and her first time working a real-life runway show! She discusses the podcast's success this year, from top listeners to top countries?!?! She also talks about the potential backstage chaos she might endure, and the unexpected glam of the fashion world. And because the internet never sleeps, we’...

Happy Monday, Babes! This week, Kylan is unpacking the plot twist of all plot twists: going from the fast-paced chaos of the sports industry to the creative, slightly delulu, always-dynamic world of content creation— and landing real-life experience in the e-commerce fashion space. Kylan dives into what it felt like to pivot industries, build a new skill set, and step into rooms that once felt out...

In this chaotic Dallas + Oklahoma debrief, Kylan breaks down a weekend that was supposed to be simple — until she somehow almost ended up in London. From small-town shenanigans and late-night convos in Oklahoma to airport chaos that pushed her to her final straw with American Airlines, nothing went as planned (per usual). Buckle up for a storytime full of travel drama, unhinged moments, and the ki...

Disclaimer: This episode is based solely on Kylan’s personal experience and should not be taken as medical advice. She is not a medical professional. Please consult your doctor or a licensed healthcare provider for any questions or decisions regarding birth control or hormonal health. Happy Monday, babes! In this episode, Kylan opens up about her personal journey with birth control — from why she...

She’s back in the Big Apple, baby — and the budget didn’t make it out alive. 💅🏽 Join Kylan as she spills all the tea from her second trip to NYC — from accidentally spending her savings in SoHo, to following a mysterious Asian lady into an alley (don’t ask), to unpacking why she really thought she was getting proposed to. It’s chaotic, it’s delusional, it’s Manhattan-core. ✨ Follow the pod on I...

She’s baaaack ✈️🍎 In honor of Kylan making her glamorous second debut in the city that never sleeps, we're running it back to her first time in NYC. From wide-eyed tourist moments to finessing her way into the US Open, enjoy this special rerun episode of It Is What It Is. Follow the pod on IG: @iiwiibykm

Happy Monday, babes! This week, Kylan finally dives into her recent work trip to Dallas, and spoiler alert...it didn't live up to what it usually does. Between overpriced tequila sodas, a night that fizzled quicker than her patience, and realizing Dallas boys are just mid with boots , this trip was not the yeehaw fantasy Kylan signed up for. The only saving grace? Scoring last-minute tickets t...

Welcome back, ladies! It's time for the iconic Charleston debrief you've all been waiting for. Picture this: one freshly divorced man (who clearly forgot this wasn’t his honeymoon), Kylan looking like a lobster after a second-degree sunburn because SPF is apparently optional when you’re drinking tequila by the pool, and a $1,000 bar tab that probably funded the bartender’s rent. It’s messy...

Hi loves, happy Monday!! This week, Kylan's back and giving her honest tell-all. She's answering your boldest questions—yes, including how she “conveniently” doesn't pay rent, the truth about body counts, and clearing up every wild assumption you’ve made about her. Then she's pivoting to the runway, baby. Kylan is spilling all the tea on how she got her foot in the fashion industry...

Kylan’s back from bathing in the sun and has all the tea. From trying to live a rich-b*tch life at TPC, to instead getting full-body sun poisoning and a travel experience so vile it deserves its own season on American Horror Story: American Airlines. Come hear about her getting medically gaslight by her bf, and her checked bag's detour while she slowly died in the Florida airport. Warning: this ep...

It's Monday babes and Kylan is diving into everything that's on her mind. This week, she's deep-diving into why KPOP is taking over your for you page (again), the beauty of finding your creative spark after a rut, and the power of not giving a f*ck. From stan culture to self-expression, Kylan is talking about what happens when you stop caring about outside opinions and start doing what...

Happy Monday, babes! This week, Kylan is diving into the absolute chaos that is Love Island’s latest scandal—yes, we’re talking Huda and Jeremiah and the Olympic-level mess they’ve created. We’re breaking down every cringeworthy moment and side-eye glance. But it’s not just reality TV tea—we’re also talking about the real-life importance of love languages (because if he doesn’t know yours by week...

Pack your ponchos and prepare your group chat receipts — this Dallas Market trip was one for the books . In this episode, Kylan unpacks her glamorous descent into chaos: think thunderstorm runway shows in literal trash bags, executing the prank of the century on her manager (sorry, not sorry), and being violently awakened by a screaming alarm system that had her on the phone with ADT, as if it wer...

Welcome back babes! This week, Kylan gives her unsolicited opinions on society’s propaganda: Plastic surgery? Overpriced insecurity. Birth control? Absolutely not. Sonny Angels? Be serious—they're ugly and you know it. In this episode, she dives headfirst into the glossy hellscape of modern propaganda and the way it sells us everything from fake noses to creepy little dolls. Kylan also gets real a...

Hi besties! This week, Kylan is coming in hot! (Literally) She finally talks about her first experience with edibles--she takes you on a spiritual , chaotic , and deeply unnecessary journey through a night in Dallas, TX. She promptly loses all sense of space, time, and dignity. From confidently saying “I don’t feel anything” to lying on the floor convinced she was melting into the Earth — it’s a r...

Hi ladies!! This week, Kylan kicks things off by talking all things content creation—from negotiating brand deals with $0 budgets to mentally spiraling over an Instagram post that only got 32 likes (and 12 were your burner accounts). She goes into her day-to-day work as a social media manager for two stores, the good and the bad, traveling the world while working, and the nights she's up until...

Kylan gives a full Commencement Address this week: she's traveling again and giving her ultimate ICKS for men. Before she dives into the male species, Kylan talks about her and Juan's relationship as they're about to celebrate 3 years. It's all about lab-grown or real diamonds, and when they're planning on getting their own place. She shares her ultimate icks for men: wearing f...

Kylan is officially home from calf fry and she’s ready to unload EVERYTHING. From flirtatious cowboys in the desert to hoofing it through the mud to get into tumbleweed stadium, to say the least she’s letting you in on all the tea. Kylan relives her travel misgivings from last year that have come back to haunt her, how she felt like she was in an episode of Manifest due to a emergency on her fligh...