Is it just me ?

In today’s episode, we’re unpacking a dilemma that hits a little too close to home: “Is it just me… or am I just average?” Not failing, not thriving… just floating. If you’ve ever looked around and felt like everyone else is standing out while you’re stuck in the background, this one’s for you. We’re talking comparison, quiet seasons, and the lie that you have to be exceptional to be valuable. Spo...

We’ve all seen the TikToks about the “soft life” — the slow mornings, the effortless luxury, the permanent peace. But what does a real soft life actually look like? In this episode of Is It Just Me?, I’m unpacking how softness doesn’t always mean ease or laziness. Sometimes, it’s choosing rest and responsibility at the same time. I reflect on my own journey with this — including glamping at Glasto...

In this episode of Is It Just Me?, we’re unpacking a listener dilemma that hits way too close to home: “Am I actually over it, or am I just avoiding it?” You know the drill — we say we’ve moved on, healed, let go… but have we really? Or are we just really good at burying things until they bubble back up? I talk about emotional avoidance, delayed grief, and how healing isn’t always linear (or loud)...

Ever felt like your heart is holding both sorrow and joy at the same time? In this episode of Is It Just Me?, we’re talking about grief — and how it doesn’t cancel out gratitude. I reflect on losing my dad to cancer when I was 10, how Father’s Day still brings up all the emotions, and why it’s okay for healing to feel messy. We dive into how grief isn’t something to “get over,” but something we le...

Ever felt stuck waiting for the perfect plan before you make a move? In this episode of Is It Just Me?, we’re unpacking the grip of control and how clinging too tightly to the plan you once had might be the very thing holding you back. I talk about underestimating your own gifts, over-familiarity with your faults, and the trap of believing “anyone could do this” — when in reality, not everyone can...

Ever held back because you didn’t want to look silly trying something new? In this episode of Is It Just Me?, we’re unpacking how the fear of embarrassment might be quietly blocking your blessings. I talk about perfectionism disguised as caution, the power of starting badly, and why it’s more than okay to try something — and change your mind. We also revisit that viral Doechii moment where she dec...

In this episode of Is It Just Me?, we’re talking rom-com delusion, emotional manipulation, and the chaos we used to call “true love.” I’m unpacking My Best Friend’s Wedding—a film I once adored but now see with very different eyes. From sabotage and gaslighting to full-blown manipulation, Julia Roberts’ character wasn’t fighting for love… she was fighting for control. And the worst part? We were t...

In this episode of Is It Just Me?, we’re getting into the emotional chaos that is… trying to be consistent while feeling everything all at once. I’m talking about that weird space between giving yourself grace and feeling guilty for not doing more, and how it’s possible to cry on the floor and still tick things off your to-do list (barely). We’ll unpack why vulnerability with friends can feel so l...

In this first episode of Is It Just Me?, I’m diving into what it’s like to live in your twenties, love God, and still feel like you’re behind in life—whatever “behind” even means. We’re chatting about the pressure to have everything sorted, what society expects of us (spoiler: it’s a lot), and how easy it is to fall into comparison online. But also—the beauty of figuring things out slowly, trying...