Invincible Life - It's time to live the life you deserve

They gave their child a brand-new car when the kid turned 16. Within a year, the car was totalled . So, what did the parents do? You guessed it. They bought the child an even more expensive new car. I understand the desire to give your children a better life than you had, especially if you grew up poor, suffered, or endured trauma. But there is a difference between giving your child a good life an...

We’ve been in “ Swedish death cleaning ” mode for the last few weeks, and I have to say… I’m addicted to how it makes me feel! I find myself getting rid of more and more stuff. I keep walking into the closets and rooms we have already decluttered and organized just to enjoy the way they look and feel now. Another nice bonus? I’m rediscovering things I had forgotten or thought I had lost. Clothing,...

During my hike through the forest this weekend, I recorded some thoughts about empowerment and what it means for each decade of your life. The video is embedded below. Some people may find it odd that I simultaneously coach my clients on how to get ahead in their careers , how to exit the 9-to-5 grind to enjoy self-employment, and how to live a more empowered life. However, I see an overall arc to...

We’ve never felt unsafe in Mexico before , but we had a few unsettling days on our recent trip to Puerto Vallarta to celebrate our 35th anniversary . On Sunday, February 22nd, the cartel leader, “El Mencho,” was killed during a military operation in the western state of Jalisco in Mexico. Around 8:30 AM, we were sitting on a balcony enjoying our coffee when we noticed a plume of black smoke rising...

My goal with this newsletter and podcast has always been to help you become more invincible in your life . But what do I mean by that? Basically, that means having the confidence, courage, and means to work and live your life the way you want . To be free of someone else—or something else—controlling you, owning your time, and deciding how and where you spend your days. I’ve written about the conc...

* “I’ll be happy when I go on vacation.” * “Things will get better next week, month, or year.” * “I can finally enjoy myself when I have more money.” * “I’ll get to live the life I have always wanted when I retire.” These are the endless promises of tomorrow. But you don’t live in “tomorrow.” The past is gone, and tomorrow doesn’t exist yet. You have only today. You have only this moment. You can...

We all face times when everything seems to go wrong at once . I know I sure have. And when that happens, our wellness can take a hit. We have been discussing emotional wellness this month in my empowerment community (you can apply here to join for free ). That includes: * Being able to manage your emotions in stressful situations * Feeling emotionally supported in your daily life by friends and fa...

What is the meaning of life? What is the purpose of our existence? Why are we here? What are we meant to do? Ask 100 people that first question, and you will probably receive 100 unique answers. Speaking of which, I would love to hear your thoughts on this topic. So, please leave a comment and let me know your answer. In this episode, I’ll go into more detail in the podcast's audio to share some o...

“I did everything I was supposed to do. But lately? I feel empty inside. Nothing makes me happy.” I’ve anonymized the details, of course, but this comment was from a recent conversation with an acquaintance. They had followed all the right rules and done all the right things (e.g., college degree, good job, working hard, getting married, raising a family), but now felt like something was missing....

My guest for this episode is Cory Vinny . He is a scientist, writer, and sailor. He and his husband recently left their white-collar careers for a life of adventure. They bought and refitted a small sailboat to live off-grid and circumnavigate the globe on a shoestring budget. They’re currently sailing the U.S. Northeast, gaining sailing skills, and waiting out hurricane season before heading to t...

“ I’m not the person I used to be. ” My client was feeling dejected after being fired. This last job had seemed so promising, but it went sideways after the first year. “ I don’t believe in myself anymore. Maybe they’re right… Maybe I am a failure. Maybe I’m not meant for this kind of job. ” Confidence is a complex beast composed of many layers of reality, self-perception, and the perception of ot...

The dating scene is a nightmare. * 63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single. ( source ) * 65% of single women reported not actively seeking a romantic relationship or casual dates. * Among women aged 40 and above, 71% expressed no interest in dating or romantic relationships. As a coach, I talk with people with various relationship situations and issues: married, divorced, happily single,...

Who is your most trusted confidante? Do you have a person you can call when you need someone to: * Commiserate with about the state of things * Be a compassionate ear for your problems * Give you feedback on an idea * Complain to about anything * Just listen to you! First, let me say that there is a time and place for professional help . Psychiatrists, therapists, and counselors are invaluable. Th...

I’m not doing well. Every day, I read about some new horrific event in the news. It stresses me out, and sometimes it ruins my day. I’m having difficulty focusing on work , relaxing, and sleeping. My wife is managing this better than I am. She doesn’t steep in it like I do. She's worried about my emotional health and gave me some suggestions for dealing with it all. So, I’m adjusting things and tr...

This seems strangely familiar I studied a bit of history in college, and it affected me forever. In particular, one semester, we studied Hitler’s rise to power. I actually did the required reading (believe it or not 🤣), so I see the disturbing parallels between what happened then and what is happening now in the U.S. My goal with this article and episode isn’t to scare you or create a sense of pa...

We are experiencing a stressful time in America. It doesn’t matter who you support or who you voted for; the chaos and anxiety of this moment affect all of us. People are angry, worried, stressed, and fearful, which can spill over into their everyday interactions with friends, loved ones, neighbors, and coworkers. And it’s not just the U.S., dear readers and listeners. I have friends and family al...

Guess how much a provider billed me for a recent medical expense (an angiogram)? Oh, I should first explain that I live in the U.S. You know, the country that thinks it’s okay to put people into debt for healthcare? Okay, if you’re done guessing, I’ll tell you. $27,000.00. Yep, $27K. So, it got me thinking about the importance of an emergency fund . It’s money set aside to cover significant, unexp...

Over the 33+ years of our marriage, my wife and I have noticed something: * When I’m down, she’s up. * When she’s down, I’m up. We never intentionally tried to do this or discussed that we should do it. It just naturally happened. We also have people in our lives (or past lives) who weren’t in balance with us like this. So, when one person struggled (e.g., depressed, worried, scared), the other pe...

My old friends canceled on me yet again. We’ve been trying to have lunch or dinner together for years, and it's pretty frustrating. 31% of Americans say they find it challenging to make new friends . I totally get it. I’ve struggled to make new friends, especially after moving away from the Bay Area in California about eight years ago and leaving the corporate world to work as a solopreneur about...

My youngest son recently turned 21. So, we’re done parenting , right? 😂 I used to think that—before we had children. However, the parent-child relationship simply evolves and changes. It deepens. You are the one person in this world who will always be there for them. Always! In this podcast episode, Nicole and I discuss how our parenting has transformed as our children grow older. I’m Larry Corne...

I tire of hearing the usual BS about homeschooling . I recently mentioned that we homeschooled our children and received the usual uninformed opinions. I responded to many of those folks to let them know more about our experience with it. But, like many things that irritate me, I decided it was time to write an article and record a podcast with my wife, who did 99.9% of our homeschooling. * Maybe...

By the way, I recorded this episode with my new microphone , and I love it! It’s the Audio-Technica AT2035 Cardioid Condenser Microphone (my affiliate link). Check it out if you do podcasting or record audio. * Do you feel nervous speaking in front of strangers? * Does presenting to your work colleagues give you butterflies? * Do you get tongue-tied meeting new people or going on a first date? You...

Note: My mic picked up some interference and generated static at a few points in my recording. Sorry about that! In this episode, my wife Nicole joins me again as co-host. We wanted to talk about our new empty nest life and how we are managing it. Our youngest child recently graduated from college. So, now we’re bracing for the next phase of his moving farther away to start his new life! We discus...

In this episode, I have a special co-host: My wife, Nicole! I thought it would be fun to talk with her about our fitness and health journey over the past 16 years. I have her to thank for getting me on track! We discuss: * How we decided it was time to do something about our health. * The journey we took to get started with exercise. * How we stay motivated. * What we’re doing now that we have an...

⛔️ WARNING: I talk about alcohol abuse and depression in this episode. Believe it or not, I hit rock bottom at 20 years old. I’ve never shared this story before, but as someone who coaches people who sometimes worry they are failing in life, I think it’s time. I want folks to know it’s always possible to turn their lives around . Judging by some comments I’ve received on social media and in my DM...