Into You

"In this episode, Fern chats with Kate Hutchinson about what dating is like as a transgender woman. Kate also shares her journey with self-confidence, disclosing her gender to others and what we can all do to support each other to fully be who we are. No matter what your gender identity or who you're attracted to, if you need a hit of inspiration and empowerment, this is the episode for you! Follo...

"In this episode, Fern speaks to Kate Hutchinson, Education Manager at Diversity Role Models, about her personal experiences of pansexuality. Kate opens up about what it was like understanding her sexuality growing up, how being pansexual can impact her everyday life and why pansexuality is sometimes still not fully embraced, even within the LGBTQ+ community. If you've ever felt different in datin...

"In this episode, we continue our conversation about cheating and betrayal with relationship coach Claire Grigson. Claire shares how technology has impacted betrayal, how being cheated on might affect you on a psychological level and the risks related to not being honest in a relationship. Whether you've experienced cheating first-hand or are simply intrigued by the psychology of it all, this epis...

"On this episode of Into You, Fern delves even deeper into betrayal as she chats with dating and relationship coach Claire Grigson. Claire talks about whether it's ever OK to look through your partner's phone without them knowing, shares her own experience with infidelity and discusses which personality types are more likely to cheat. If you've ever felt suspicious in love, been driven to do thing...

"On this month's episode of Into You, we continue our conversation with influencer Robbi Jan, whose marriage ended due to infidelity. Robbi describes what it's like to rebuild your life and step back into the dating pool after being cheated on, and shares some of the biggest lessons this has taught her about love. If you've ever feared being betrayed in a relationship, this episode will prove to y...

"This month on Into You, Fern chats about cheating with social media influencer Robbi Jan. Robbi opens up about how her husband having an affair impacted her mentally, emotionally and even physically. She also explains how she rebuilt her confidence, self-esteem and trust in others after her marriage broke down. If you've ever been burned in love or wondered how to overcome a massive disruption to...

This month on Into You, we delve back into the illusive world of confidence as Fern continues the conversation with relationship coach and trainer, Anna Rova. In this episode, Anna talks about why playing "hard to get" in dating is unlikely to get you what you want long-term, challenges us to look closer to home in regards to feeling confident about finding love and shares the secret to how we can...

"Ever heard that, in order to succeed in dating, you simply need to be more confident? In this episode of Into You, Fern chats with dating coach and trainer Anna Rova, to explore what confidence in dating is really all about! Anna discusses why we may lack confidence, what's keeping us stuck in those same old cycles of doubt in dating and how we can connect more to ourselves in the pursuit of gett...

"In this month's episode, we rejoin Fern and her boyfriend, Josh, where we left them: stranded in Josh's broken-down car on their very first date! Josh attempts to explain himself, and also shares what this harrowing experience taught him and what he has learnt from dating a bubbly, blind podcast presenter! Lots of lessons, lots of laughs ... it's the perfect episode to put a smile on your face wh...

"To mark the 25th episode of Into You, it's time to ""mix"" things up by speaking to producer, sound engineer and podcast perfector, Josh Holland, who also happens to be Fern's other half! We pull back the curtain of Fern and Josh's love affair, with an insider glimpse into how they found using dating apps, what Josh thought about Fern being blind, their (pretty disastrous!) first date and so much...

"This month on Into You, join Fern for Part 2 of our exploration of boundaries with relationship expert and author Dr Tracy Dalgleish. In this episode, Tracy identifies some factors that can make you less likely to set or stand by your boundaries, explains the psychology behind deciding whether our boundaries are ""reasonable"" or not, and shares the secret ingredient which makes receiving somebod...

This month, Fern chats with relationship expert and author Tracy Dalgleish all about the social media buzzword "boundaries," and what it really means in modern-day romance. Are boundaries akin to angry, scary school rules, or could they actually help us to build healthier, more loving relationships? How do you know what YOUR boundaries even are? And, once you know, how do you go about addressing t...

This month, join Fern as she continues her chat with relationship coach and TikTok sensation Jacob Lucas. On this episode, Jacob shares how your location could be a factor in how easy it is to resolve an issue, and explains how to make amends after a heated disagreement with your beloved. If you're sick of getting sucked into the same old argumentative cycles of pointing the finger, it's time to p...

This month, Fern chats to professional dating coach Jacob Lucas. With over 600,000 followers on TikTok, you could say Jacob knows a thing or two about attracting people and keeping them interested! The topic up for debate on this episode is arguments and how to have less of them when comes to your love life. Join Fern and Jacob for a light-hearted look into why we argue, how to defuse a heated dis...

This month's episode of Into You is Part 2 of our exploration into red flags in relationships. Fern continues her conversation with liscensed psychologist, founder and director of Behr Psychology, Dr Jessica January Behr. Jessica shares why being too quick to spot red flags in others can end up hurting us, how we can identify and start to work on our own potential red flags, what red flags can tea...

On this month's Episode of Into You, Fern chats to licensed psychologist, founder and director of Behr Psychology, Dr Jessica January Behr. Jessica explains what red flags actually are, what they can teach us about ourselves and whether there is any hope that the red flags we spot in our potential partners might ever change.   If you've been struggling with troublesome behaviour when it comes to y...

This is part two of our conversation with Dr James Jackson - a psychology researcher and lecturer on how hormones shape our bodies at Leeds Trinity University. James shares what online dating has done to attraction, whether marriage could be beneficial to your long-term health and if we can MAKE somebody become attracted to us. The sparks are flying, the chemistry's electric and you won't want to...

On this month's episode, we dig deep into the mystical phenomenon known as human attraction. I speak to Dr. James Jackson - a psychology researcher and lecturer at the Leeds Trinity University, who reveals why we are attracted to certain people more than others and what is going on inside our bodies at the time. James shares how tricky attraction can be and why so much of how we behave when it com...

On this episode of Into You, I talk to content creator, Trey Beckham, who runs a YouTube channel with his girlfriend, Alyssa. Alyssa has had anxiety since the start of their relationship five years ago and Trey talks about what this has meant for him and for them as a couple. Trey shares what Alyssa's anxiety has taught him and offers advice on the do's and definite don'ts to anyone trying to supp...

On this episode, Fern chats to writer and YouTuber Lauren Rose, who has battled with severe anxiety, including agoraphobia and panic attacks, for many years. Lauren shares how anxiety has impacted her love life, giving tips on how to deal with anxiety when dating and opening up about some of her worst fears about the early stages of being in a relationship. She speaks openly and honestly about wha...

In this month's episode of Into You, we take a good look at the psychology behind love during the holidays.   Clinical psychologist, relationship expert and author of Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly, Dr. Carla Marie Manly, talks us through such issues as how to celebrate being single this holiday season, what strategies work best for a day at the in-laws', whether to a...

This month on Into you, we are delving deep into the psychology of the relationship world as we ask: "What is your template for love?" Psychologist, author, blogger and lecturer Aimee Daramus discusses attachment theory and what it might mean for your love life. Find out which attachment style you have, how it impacts your relationships and what you can do to overcome any issues this might be caus...

This month on Into You, we dive deeper into the science of long-distance dating as Fern chats to psychologist, relationship coach and family therapist, Elena Semenek.  Elena explains why someone may be drawn to a long-distance relationship, the hardest part about being so far away from your partner from a psychological perspective, and shares her six stages of long-distance relationships. Down-to-...

On this month's Into You, we're asking the question, "Does absence really make the heart grow fonder?" as we find out what it's like to be in love with someone who lives far away from you. I chat to Leo (from France) and Kyomi (from Peru), about the long-distance relationship which started when they met via a language exchange app called Tandem. Leo and Kyomi share what it was like when their firs...

In the final of our three-part series on domestic abuse, Fern speaks to psychologist and researcher Dr. Dina McMillan to uncover the science behind toxic relationships. Dr. Dina shares why people become abusive, what to look out for in a potential partner and offers some tips and tricks she has used in dating in order to avoid getting involved with an abusive person. Dr. Dina's passion for spreadi...