Intimacy Advisor Podcast

While a healthy sex life often gets overlooked as part of a health regime, we also discuss how your sexual health needs to be just as talked about, just as important, and just as educated as everything else. If you are keeping diet and exercise on your high-priority list but your sex life (personal or partnered!) is lack-luster, this episode is for you. Reclaim your sexuality and rediscover your d...

Using the right communication to handle dry times in your sexual relationship is part of the process. Sometimes rejection is unfazed by the rejector, sometimes it comes with purpose, but regardless, it can do some major emotional damage on the rejected partner. In Episode 44, we talk about how rejection happens, and some tools on both ends to come back together. And once that connection happens ag...

High on Love is quickly gaining popularity between adult stores, sexual wellness educators and experts and those in the cannabis industry. With a revolutionary product combining hemp seed oils into the sexual health space while keeping luxury at the root of the brand's development, CEO Angela Mustone shares her expertise of the line! Follow High on Love on Instagram (@highonlove.official) and Twit...

Porn! It might not be for everyone, but there certainly is  every  type of porn. In Episode 42, Haley talks about how watching it can lead to super hot (and educational) mutual masturbation, open doors for role play and kinky sex. Watching porn with your partner can lead to increased trust in the relationship, intensified arousal, and maybe trying something new for the both of you! Shop Lover's La...

Today's episode is all about erogenous zones that we all know, erogenous zones we often overlook, and some fun toys to stimulate different than something more simple like a standard vibrator. Later in the episode we'll talk about how lingerie can be the best stimulant for your largest and most important erogenous zone! Shop Lover's Lane for your favorite toys, oils, lubes and lingerie to spice up...

In the 40th Intimacy Advisor Episode, we are relearning stimulation! This time with a much more gentle approach and through a back door. So often with penetrative sex, it's much more rough than back door play needs to be! Slow, lubricated, cleanly, with lots of foreplay and communication will make it the very best - listen to the details here! And shop all your favorite anal products at Lover's La...

Here's the harsh reality of sex toy materials and how dangerous select few of them can be. Always look for a non porous toy; Episode 39 gives you the know of which toys are made from toxic material and which ones are safe for all over the body!  Shop healthy sex toys and other intimate products at Lover's Lane . See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Another Episode for the penis owners and prostate players! This Episode is all about  how  to touch that sensitive spot found internal and all the benefits of the perfect p-spot massage. Remember, go slow, use lube, toys are great for intercourse to keep that perfect stimulation, and most important...have fun!  You can shop at Lover's Lane here for all your back door friendly lubes, toys, and stim...

Look no further, your date ideas are right here! Summer is the real season of love, because it can be a bit more spontaneous, fun, and sexy than Valentines or the over-anticipated anniversary or birthday getaway. Episode 37 takes a peak at some fun ideas for your next warm date night, and maybe includes a few wearable toys for a fun concert out!  Shop Lover's Lane for some exciting toys, outfits,...

Enough girl talk - this one is for the fellas...there are so, SO many toys and enhancements out there for men, so which ones are worth the time (and funds) in trying? Episode 36 will dive straight in to popular c-rings, strokers, prostate toys, pumps, and lubes in between. Keep building up your experience maybe in mutual masturbation with a partner or even if you're ridin' solo.  You can shop Love...

Soooo...you want a threesome?! Are you in a relationship looking to add a third and don't know where to start? It's not going to be all hot and bothered right in the beginning if it's done correctly! You guessed it, communication is key for a super hot threesome and Episode 35 gives you all the information to make sure all your  bases are covered.  Shop Lover's Lane and don't forget lubes, oils, c...

Happy PRIDE Month!! Let's kick off being back to the Intimacy Advisor Podcast with a Pride Celebration of our own, Episode 34, a resource to everyone to go over some terms used for queer and transgender humans. Respecting boundaries, open communication, willingness to learn, adapt, and change is what will make great allies! Love is love. Hop in to your closest Lover's Lane to celebrate Pride with...

Happy Massage Month! It's starting to heat up outside so keep the heat between you and your partner in the bedroom, too! And if intimacy or passion has been lackluster lately, you are not alone. In the post-COVID world, needs are not being met due to high stress situations, and most everyone is in the same boat right now. Episode 33 gives some suggestions on how to use massage to reignite what cou...

Hate to break it to you all...but porn does not give us the best how-to lessons on sex. Sure, the squirting scenes where it's (just about literally) raining in the sheets are hot as hell but in order to actually get that release you really need to know your body well. In Episode 32 of The Intimacy Advisor Podcast, we discuss  what  is squirting exactly,  what  is it made of, can I do it, and how!...

Just when you thought you had a perfect bedroom collection of your favorite oils, lubes, and stimulating gels...BOOM! CBD infused products start popping up everywhere on shelves and claim to really be that magic touch! And you know what? They really are fantastic! Especially if you are one of the 75% of women who will experience pain during sex at some point, CBD is absolutely becoming a staple pr...

Your desires don't need to be secrets to your partner; although it can seem intimidating to tell them your fantasies...  What's the worst that could happen? Misunderstandings? Communication? Growth? Actually getting your desires  fulfilled?!  We say go for it! There are a few preliminary suggestions we have before you pop the question "can we try some hot, new, kinky sex?" It matters where it's sa...

We know any fun bondage/discipline scene or dominant/submissive relationship calls for a safe word to ensure everyone's physical and mental safety. But what about in our daily relationships? How do you avoid conflict in a way that could be damaging later? Have you ever thought about bringing a safe word into a discussion if need be?  In Episode 29 we'll navigate through pros and cons of using a ha...

Total. Power. Exchange. Some find it hot, others find it, well, not. But regardless of your stance on it, TPE exists! Whether you're giving up control or taking charge of your sub's do's and don'ts throughout the day- it can be really fulfilling for increased connection, commitment, communication, and understanding. How do I start outlining our agreement now? Episode 28 dives in to a few options o...

The changing of the seasons can always be pleasant, but what about the changing of your sex drive? At times, it can be not as enjoyable. Of course we only notice when the going gets worse and not the other way around. So in Episode 27, we're using this time to remind you that spring will always come again, and so will you!  Take a look at hormonal changes and different stages your body goes throug...

A lot goes in to a relationship. It's not always amazing connection, great sex, perfect communication skills...though a lot of times it starts off that way. So you know you love them but something is shifting in your dynamic, what now? Therapy. It's not just for big hurdles or someone messing up on their part. Therapy is an excellent (and healthy!) way to learn communication skills that better you...

Happy I-W-D, International Women's Day! The first step in change is education. And as far as sex education goes...well, there  isn't  much sex education! So no wonder why studies show men are having more orgasms then women. In honor of IWD, we need to close the orgasm gap! Episode 25 dives in to a few techniques to help coax the gap to close.  Of course you may need a toy along the way or some gre...

In order to have good sex, a lot of trial and error happens (generally) when growing up! In health class, you're taught why  not  to have sex so who's the teacher for topics such as...how to give yourself an orgasm? How to give your partner great oral? Enter Dr. Sadie Allison, America's Pleasure Coach, author of 6 books with over two million copies sold, co-founder of GoLove lubricant, and CEO of...

Have you ever considered opening your relationship? That could mean a whole list of options: from inviting a third to enjoying a physical and emotional relationship with others - the possibilities really are endless. In Episode 23, we discuss what types of values and limitations there are for open relationships and provide a description of the many different kinds!  There's something for everyone...

Kegels - yep, another thing to add to your workout regimen! Strengthening your PC muscle or your pelvic floor has a long list of benefits for both penis and vagina owners! Our favorite perk? Longer, stronger, more controlled orgasms! Who wouldn't want to take 10 minutes out of the day for  that?! In Episode 22 we're going to bust some common misconceptions and myths around our favorite secret sque...

'Tis the season! ...the  love  season, to give some well deserved effort, thoughtfulness and time to your relationship! Even if you and your honey don't give gifts and classify Valentines as an unnecessary "Hallmark holiday"- why would you not give them a little extra attention on the one day of the year where it seems extra appropriate! In this episode of the Intimacy Advisor Podcast, we talk how...