Inner Hoe Uprising

The hoes chat about expressing gratitude, Zaya Wade, puberty blockers and the mental healths of young trans kids, what to do when your date robs a bank, what to do when the comedy show date turns dark, dealing with jealousy, finding your g-spot and much more!  Hoe(s) of the Week:  Tawanna (aka Tawee-wee), Matina (aka Martini), Tamaj (aka Panini), BigEYEKnows All (#MustStayWoke...niggas creepin), C...

The hoes chat about how to ghost and let people know you’re only DTF with care , the new bill thats been introduced in congress to study the safety of sex workers, dating people who complain TOO fucking much, biphobia, battling back against self deprecation PLUS we watch some awful porn together.  Hoe(s) of the Week: Camille (aka Camillion here Camillion there tougher than Nigerian hair) and Sydne...

The hoes chat about the life and times of Bayard Rustin -- the Black gay civil rights leader who went to jail 70 years ago kinda just for being gay, cute dates for film nerds and history buffs, how rape culture hurts men, sexuality and anti-depressants, sexuality, weight, face sitting and body image, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week:  Terrell J (tee ray ray), Raymah, Ash, and Tawanna, & Dyme...

The hoes chat about how folks in 2020 are defining and navigating political beliefs on dating apps,  shame and nuanced approaches to dating, losing friendships after pregnancy, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week:  Emeka and Danielle E. Self Care Tip: A reminder:  Be gentle with yourself.  Fuck That (Currents Events): How dating app users are considering their personal politics when it comes to find...

The Hoes chat about why you don’t need to stay hard for 4 hours, how antiquated ideas about sex and sexuality hurt da boys, the new Netflix film about a Black Cam Girl in the early 90s, group sex, and shitting yo pants.  Hoe(s) of the Week: Kitty L and Amber R.  Self Care Tip:  Manage your expectations Fuck That (Currents Events): The man who took bull stimulant to stay hard and the new book that...

The hoes chat about sleep, the young Black sex trafficking victim who’s facing life in prison for killing her trafficker, nude models and body shapes, dating while misanthrope, and PoliDICKZ aka your run down where the candidates stand on sexuality and gender.  Hoe(s) of the Week: Tamika and Elizabeth Self Care Tip: Akua gives tips on how to improve the amount and quality of sleep that you’re gett...

Happy New Year! The hoes chat about porn watching habits of 2019, media literacy, Butt Stuff, Anti-depressants and sex, the Get Sam’s Groove Back Challenge and much more!  Hoe(s) of the Week: @Wowow_vanaa and all the signal boosting homies, Our Patrons, Alia Sterns, Yewande A. Whitley H, Alicia T, and Kyrstal C Self Care Tip: Practice Lateral Reading, Media Literacy and Fact Checking  Fuck That (C...

The hoes do a deep dive on what sex, love, and dating has looked like in 2000s and the 2010 and predict what’s to cum in the 2020s. Bae(s) of The Week: Sam’s Fav Podcasts Podcasts you should listen while we are on break: QueerWOC, BagLadiez, Marsha’s Plate, Tea with Queen and J, A Little Juju Podcast, Ms. Vixen, Man Up, Flash Forward, The Black Guy Who Tips, Sexually Liberated Woman, 1619 Project,...

Two Spirit Trans Femme Indigenous Rock Star Quiahuitl Villegas joins IHU to talk about growing up queer and punk, having a spiritual gender awakening, reconnecting with indigenous roots, Traditional Afro Latinx Music and much more!  Hoe(s) of the Week: @turtlexxo, veryone who wished us happy bidet; Angela D, NCSD Folks (Lakita, Leandrea, Matt, David, Desiree), PLUS Sophia and Chloe and Annie, and...

Scientist, Youtuber, Intersex person, and Gayest of all Gays, Babalwa Mtshawu joins Akua and Sam to discuss her journey being an Intersex queer person living in South Africa First, Sam and Akua give some intersex 101, including definitions, condition descriptions, and misconceptions.  Points of interview discussion include:  Discovering that you are intersex, South Africa Khossa, Family dynamics,...

Note: The guest of this episode now goes by Arrows Fitz and uses he/him/they/them pronouns.  Filmmaker, model, and Youtuber Ari Fitz joins IHU to talk about their gender journey to coming out as non-binary, growing up queer, sex on reality TV, navigating accountability on twitter ad much more!  Bae(s) of The Week: INNER HOE UPRISING!  Hoe(s) of the Week:  Lucky W, Whitney, Tamika C. Self Care Tips...

The Hoes chat about science baes, getting away in nature, seasonal affective disorder, anti-depressants and sex drive, hiring a sex worker, body hair, coming out to your child, virginity pacts, and more! Bae(s) of The Week: @lab_shennanigans & Dr. Nadya Mason Hoe(s) of the Week: Happy Birthday Tamika C! & Kai P, Kitty L, ImSoLovelee, Ashlee Blackwell & Xavier G Self Care Tips:  Akua gi...

On the eve of Halloween Afrofuturist, Scholar, Visual Artist and Ultimate Philly Jawn Zalika U. Ibaorimi joins Rebecca and Sam to discuss horror, technology, Afro Surrealism, sexuality, Christianity and much more!  This is the part in our #OccultOctober series Bae(s) of The Week: @thouartanuli and @kieraplease and special shout out to @mototcityprettycreative Hoe(s) of the Week: @Wittywit & Ja...

Filmmaker, Goth/punk bad ass and Horror film connoisseur Monika Estrella Negra joins Sam to talk about the intersections of Black Womanhood, Queerness & Horror. Bae(s) of The Week: @AmorousEbony Hoe(s) of the Week: Waciuma Maina, Mel Lady, Gustavo Self Care Tips: Take a Self Care Quiz Cute Date Idea: Attend a mixology class with bae Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  Filmmaker and Horror film expert...

Akua and Sam give you a quick rundown of Horror film genres to prep you for todays episode “Black Women are THEE Final Girls” with Monika Estrella Nega. 

Witch, Cunty Conjurer, and podcaster Juju Bae joins Rob and Sam to talk about all things at the intersections of African Traditional Religion and sex.  Bae(s) of The Week: Shelly Ann Fraser Pryce, Simone Biles, and Allyson Felix Hoe(s) of the Week: October Sex Trivia Attendees  Cute Date Idea: Try on Halloween Costumes  Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  Juju Bae joins the hoes to talk about Hoodoo, Ifa...

On a very spooky episode of Inner Hoe Uprising all four hosts come together over a metaphorical campfire to trade hoe-rror stories. Think “Lore” meets “Are You Afraid of the Dark” meets hoe-tales. Bae(s) of The Week: The Carnival KVNG @omgitsalphie Hoe(s) of the Week: Samantha B., Carla P., Melissa C., Aida J., Chris J., Carly & LoveAlwaysANg Self Care Tips: Make your house (or room or sleepin...

Rob and a Sick Sam are together to chat about navigating trauma in relationships, dating burn out, solo polyamory, getting ghosted and more! Bae(s) of The Week: Roselyn of Loving Solo  Hoe(s) of the Week: Lis20182019, Zuri Love, & @S_Hero4Hir Self Care Tips:  Get comfortable with discomfort Cute Date Idea: have a chilli making competition Fuck That (Currents Events): Is there a Gay Gene? Fuck...

Journalist, Activist, and Sex Worker N’Jalia Rhee aka The Blasian Bytch joins the hoes to discuss life after a coma, the pressure to go into vanilla work, pro-sex worker activism, race, gender, ethnicity and size in sex work and much more!  Bae(s) of The Week: The FDNY woman graduates Hoe(s) of the Week: Yewande A., Anna T. Christina C. Zeziljah P. Lakisha W, Samantha B, Carala P V, & Melissa...

Your Big Titty Goth JoyFriend  This week Zuri Love -- a Black non-binary goth nerdy babe chats with Akua and Sam about  escorting, full service sex work, companionship, and other forms of sex work. Bae(s) of The Week:  Marquise Wilson  Hoe(s) of the Week:  Vicki W, Carly, Jason G, Destiny E, Rosemary & KWezt, Tampa Hoes Notorious Vick, The Lone Ranger, Clit tv, and our potential people from Vi...

24/7 Slave Veronica Yahns talks to Akua and Sam about master/slave dynamics, polyamory, therapy, loved ones, feminism, kink and more!  Bae(s) of The Week: Jamiesha Prescod @cinejamographer @youlookokaytome Hoe(s) of the Week: @Kunjo & His Sleeping Beauty Photo Series  Akeela, Layla and Amaya, Antoinne M, Grecia P, Vikki W, sharks3212, kalidoty, bodega_hive212, MarsMwenja, TheVargasShowYT, SENO...

The Hoes are all together to discuss breakups, why they freakin’ suck, and how to deal with them. Bae(s) of The Week: @ randybaby11 Hoe(s) of the Week: @giveherthephd24, @thatsdifferenttye, Emensa, @king_himself, @90skindofworld , @itstarekali , @Alicia_flower_child, Ophellia, Jolana W, Kwetz Self Care Tips:  Stop editing yourself to fit another persons narrative. It’ll make you bitter, especially...

Akua and Sam link up to chat about work day dates, a suspicious public toilet sex policy in Wales, creepy couples, PMS & universal basic income, dating while moming and more Bae(s) of The Week: Kendra Austin @kendramorous Hoe(s) of the Week: Lyan718, Tayo, Phillip M,  Caroline Colvin, the shade room comments & new followers, and Darius H. Plus Akua gives a recap of her Dating in the Digita...

Rob and Sam discuss HPV, cervical cancer, and why you should definitely be getting your Pap smears. Plus: a man with an emoji family, late summer date ideas, a rocky relationship between siblings and more!  Bae(s) of The Week: Nica Marie Hoe(s) of the Week: @Imsolovelee, @theesupaman, & kunjo  Self Care Tips: Go to events without trying to find a mate to go with  Cute Date Ideas:   Do an Adven...

The Hoes are back and discussing a Taiwanese Masturbation suit, MTV’s Are You the One, Akua and Sam’s mini vacation, Baby Daddy’s homophobia, having sex for the first time in your twenties, creepy red flags and more!  Bae(s) of The Week: The cast of this seasons Are You the One with Basit (@basitcom), Remy (@remdelarem), Brandon (@officialbrandondavis) & Aasha (@aasha__), & Kai (@kai_wes) ...