Inner Confidence Podcast

Intro: Communication is the number one thing in good relationships, and that leads to trust. Show with your actions how you would like a relationship to go. You need to create the relationship you want through good communication and nailing the conversation.

Summary: When inviting people back to your place, sell the experience, not the item (i.e. I have a sick pad). Find out what they want before you invite them. Feel out the group and see if they're down to continue to party. Be indifferent to their response and say you're going to party either way. [...]

Intro: 'If you're not approaching a million chicks, you're not gonna get ass'. You need to build up reference experiences of girls liking you. The only way to get there is getting rejected a lot. You need to be the guy that is getting shit done. Girls pick up on that and it shows through [...]

Intro: When you start talking to hotter girls, it's a whole new process of getting used to talking to them, as far as anxiety. The way to have lots of free time is to build different systems in your life and automate everything. Outsource work to other people as well. Keep things organized so you [...]

Intro: If you want strong inner game, do the stuff in life that's hard, get better at it, get results, and stack up wins. Getting things done and executing is important. You build confidence from those winning experiences. Remove clutter from your life. It's unnecessary and bogs you down in life. Say 'yes' to stuff that adds value, [...]

Intro: Having to struggle and not having an easy start in the dating game ends up paying itself back in the long run because you have to develop way better game. You need to have an actual true friendship with a girl to make her your wingwoman. Hang out with her, grab some coffee, and see [...]

Intro: You need to have the growth mindset when you're going through the process of approaching and learning all these other skills with women. Enjoy the process. Being able to approach girls anytime you want and knowing you can pick up girls in any city is the ultimate. It's total freedom. If you're comfortable, you're [...]

Intro: Robbie used to crush burritos with his bros in San Diego when he was a little on the heavy side. Spend time with people who have the same goals as you. Don't waste your prime time with people who don't have these goals. The key to building a social circle is meeting a connector. [...]

Intro: There is no such thing as rejection. It's just feedback. In night game, the opening line can basically be anything. When the interaction starts and you start creating the conversation and engaging, that's when the things you say actually matter. This can happen face to face, or through dating apps like vivmag. The goal [...]

Intro: Profession doesn't really matter to most girls. It's more about whether you’re excited about what you're doing. When guys are bored with themselves in their life, it's a problem. It gives off boring energy. Girls are open to dating all sorts of types of guys. They just want guys who know what they're doing and [...]

Intro: On this episode, we interview Leverage Program moderator Max about his journey around the world. Traveling is a very crucial part of life as it is the best way to get out of the busy schedule. It is also to experience life in different ways . Traveling is actually a good remedy for stress, anxiety and [...]

Intro: On this episode, we interview Leverage Program moderator Max about his journey around the world. Traveling outside of the country is your one real chance to be a foreigner. You shouldn't just leave on the spur of the moment without planning. Definitely plan ahead and set a budget. Take out some 0% APR cards, [...]

Inro: Take swinging slow with your girl. Do not press your girlfriend from day 1 to do crazy shit. Be patient and slowly bust out of your comfort zone and build up to doing crazier and crazier things. You should talk about each experience when you're spending time together at home, maybe a few days [...]

Intro: It's important to face your fears and root them all out. Swinging improves your communication skills exponentially because you have to explain so many things. Your goal should be to face situations where you feel uncomfortable. Confront the feelings of embarrassment, nervous, and awkward. It means you're pushing your growing and pushing your comfort [...]

Intro: If you liked our discussion of connection triggers with Marcus Oakey, you’ll love this episode! We get deeper into the connection discussion, and we even give away some tactics you can use immediately to have better connections, as well as the surprising mindsets behind them. The difference between knowledge and wisdom is experience. Be [...]

Intro: If you like our discussion of connection triggers with Marcus Oakey, you’ll love this episode! We get deeper into the connection discussion, and we even give away some tactics you can use immediately to have better connections, as well as the surprising mindsets behind them. Words shape our entire life. The words that we [...]

We've all experienced those times where we've just hit it off with a stranger and usually when that happens its because we instantly connect over a common theme. For example, discovering that you both: Have a mutual friend in common Grew up together in the same town (and never met) Support the same sports team or even [...]

We've all experienced those times where we've just hit it off with a stranger and usually when that happens its because we instantly connect over a common theme. For example, discovering that you both: Have a mutual friend in common Grew up together in the same town (and never met) Support the same sports team or even [...]

Intro: It's important to start talking to people and daygame before you go out to get warmed up. Start approaching early in the night as well. It's so important to hit your stride in the prime part of the night. You need to get consistent attraction before you can work on Push-Pull, since it only [...]

Intro: Girls in Brazil are very direct. You know whether they're interested in you or not very quickly. They don't play games like American girls. It's hard to learn Push-Pull through writing. It's easier to teach on a trip to Brazil or Europe where Robbie can directly work with you for 10 days straight and point [...]

Intro: As long as you only see girls once every 7-10 days, you will be able to avoid the relationship conversation for a long time. you will not have the argument of why you should be in a relationship together because you're not hanging out regularly enough. Show notes: The difference between forced monogamy, being actively single, and [...]

Intro: Forced monogamy will halt your progress and keep you stuck in a bad place. You'll inevitably break up. Every guy needs to spend a period of time being actively single. It gives you an abundance mentality when you're hooking up with multiple girls. Date girls that are into the same things as you (threesomes, [...]

Intro: Hang out in the type of strip clubs where you like the vibe and the girls. You need to go to different ones and see which scene you like. They all have different cultures. Don't tell strippers they're hot. Pry deeper and tap into the other aspects of their personality. Show Notes: What kind [...]

Intro: Gaming waitresses, bottle girls, strippers, etc. is all pretty much the same. If you're not living a partying type life where you're up until 6am every night, working on getting these girls full time won't be that fun. You need to be comfortable in a strip club, first of all. Be cool and act [...]

Intro: As long as your nutrition is on point 80% of the time, you're good. Keep track of macros (carbs, fat, and protein). Calculate all the numbers for the day and make sure you're in the right percentages for the particular diet you're trying to follow. A good way to get your vegetables is by [...]