Kaley Vetter and Larissa Dowling

In a Gay Way

Comedy EN ↓ 15 episodes

"In a Gay Way" is a queer comedy podcast where hosts Kaley and Larissa discuss life, love, pop culture, and the foibles of being young and gay in LA. Help us build our community! Follow us on Instagram @gaywaypod and TikTok @in.a.gay.way.pod. Email us at gaywaypod@gmail.comSubscribe, rate us 5 stars, & share with a friend! "In a Gay Way" is a Dooba Productions podcast hosted and edited by Kaley Vetter and Larissa Dowling & produced by Grace Evans. Sound engineering by Matthew Bach-Lombardo, music by Kovi Vetter, & graphics by Clarissa Respondek. Special thanks to Indiana Wilson.

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Kaley Vetter and Larissa Dowling

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Comedy

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Latest episode

Jul 10, 2026

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Episodes

#15: Gay Background Noise 10.07.2026

This week on the pod, Kaley and Larissa discuss sneezes, Dyke Day debauchery, Larissa’s deep love of Hallmark, and homesickness. They celebrate the eleven year anniversary of Obergefell v Hodges, Lil Nas X re-emerging online, and Kaley buying her wedding dress! Listeners answer how they’re signaling to other queer people, and they end with a new game featuring movie snacks— what should we call it?...

#14: Unfortunate Phrasing 03.07.2026

This week our composer and Kaley's little brother, Kovi Vetter, visits the pod! The gays talk Dayna Kathan of Vanderpump Rules coming out as a lesbian, the dumpster fire that was Pride Month 2025, and ask the hard hitting questions like "Do straight people smile?" Want to write in? Email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠gaywaypod@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow and DM us on IG @gaywaypod  & TikTok @in.a.gay.way.p...

#13: WeHo Pride, Oh Mary! & Gay Nuns 26.06.2026

This week Kaley and Larissa search for the definition of their approachable-level of hotness, they reminisce about their time at WeHo pride and Kaley recounts her recent experience of getting trapped inside of a dream. They discuss deep fakes, Meg Stalter in Oh Mary! and gay nuns. The gays finish the episode with Pride themed madlibs and Larissa realizes they “wifed up a curvy lamp.” Rest In Peace...

#12: Boy by Day, Queen by Night 19.06.2026

Kaley and Larissa discuss Kaley’s nightmarish experience doing drag in a conservative night club, Larissa plugs the show traveling drag makeover show, We’re Here, and Larissa decides they would prefer to be a Queen. They read listener write-ins about dating red flags, and they fantasize about which archetype of Queer they would be if they could choose (Larissa wants to be a nonchalant athlete, if...

#11: One Gay Syllable 12.06.2026

This week Kaley and Larissa talk neurodivergence, Dyke Day, and the Patti Gonia vs Patagonia lawsuit. Listeners write in about their favorite part about being gay (shoutout Grace’s college friend Ivy!), and the gays play a new game called “One Gay Syllable.” If you’re in Los Angeles, catch Indiana Wilson’s one woman Fringe show, “Sister Bernadette Runs the Light,” assistant produced by Larissa. On...

#10: Guns, Nipples, and a Lesbian Lisp 05.06.2026

This week the gays recount Kaley’s recent trip to Sun City AKA “Old White People Heaven,” where she shot multiple guns, they also discover Larissa’s relaxed tongue along with their even and reasonable nipples. They discuss the queers of Cannes, Hannah Einbinder and the Hacks kiss, Dakota Johnson poorly queer-bating and the glorious dub that hockey wives Marie-Philip Poulin and Laura Stacey took in...

#9: The Gay Squint 29.05.2026

Kaley and Larissa catch up on life... Larissa recounts being flamed by a gay man after giving him fashion advice, Kaley describes traveling to Baltimore and feeling like a silly LA b*tch, and Lars experienced their first influencer event as a non-influencer. Larissa shares their guilty pleasure show XO Kitty, and they discuss Lola Tung's upcoming role as a queer soccer player in the sapphic so...

#8: Beanie Baby Feldman 22.05.2026

This week Kaley and Larissa discuss the difference between how Tauruses and Capricorns celebrate their birthdays. They wonder what collagen could possibly be, if Beanie Feldstein is naming her baby Beanie Baby, and whether or not Kaley’s mom has "Gay Face." Larissa finds out Kaley was homeschooled and they finish off the episode with a brand new game, ScattaGAYries. Turn a Friend Gay Tod...

#7: NOCD, Hot Butches, & Transubstantiation 15.05.2026

Kaley and Larissa cover topics like mutually slapping your friends, O.C.D. therapy, Kaley's second altercation at work and her first time being called a slur, working in the service industry, and their last installment of listener write-ins on what made them gay. Thanks for listening, and Turn a Friend Gay Today! Want to write in? Email us at gaywaypod@gmail.com Follow and DM us on IG @gaywayp...

#6: You'll Get the F One Day 08.05.2026

This week on the pod, Larissa and Kaley cover hot button topics, like Indie's Rachel Zegler obsession, anniversary gift protocol, Larissa crying at work, the funny things our parents do, and P!nk hosting the Tony's. (Kaley totally knows who P!nk is.) Listeners write in to tell us what made them gay, Kaley almost loses the cat, and the gays play "Name That Tune: Queer Edition." It...

#5: Geometry Made Me Gay 01.05.2026

Kaley catches Larissa up on her first physical altercation at work and Larissa discusses rude TikTokers and their summer rash guard conundrum. Listeners write in to tell us what made them gay, Kaley recommends the new Netflix show How to Get to Heaven From Belfast, and Larissa mourns the cancellation of their favorite reality show, I Kissed a Girl. The gays end the episode with hot takes and a rou...

#4: The Humility Episode 24.04.2026

Kaley and Larissa discuss the Milan Olympics, their theatre-kid past lives, and living in a red state as a queer person. In "Why Would You Ever Say That?" they consider the importance of theatre education in developing (& destroying) young egos, and they finish the episode with a particularly devastating game of trivia. Once called The Ego Episode , now called The Humility Episode .....

#3: To Kiss! That's What Friends Are For 17.04.2026

This week Kaley and Larissa catch up on life, the Natasha Lyonne and Janicza Bravo kiss, a listener write-in on the topic of queer "stolen valor," a personal game of "Never Have I Ever," and more. Turn a Friend Gay Today! If you like our episode, please share with a friend and rate us 5 stars! Want to write in? Email us at gaywaypod@gmail.com Follow and DM us on IG @gaywaypod &...

#2: Might Try Boxers, Might be They/Them 10.04.2026

Kaley and Larissa discuss boxers, LA vocal fry, a mysterious baseball cap, and play a game that they’ve coined “Ding, Dong, or Ditch.”

#1: Mrs. Incredible, Competitive Sex, and a J-Lo Lookalike 10.04.2026

Introducing "In a Gay Way"! Hosts Kaley and Larissa discuss respecting hot women, being forced out of the closet, queer sex, attempt to play madlibs, and more!

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