Imperfect Mens Club

Hey all. We began with a New Years, year-end, goal setting theme within the context of some JIm Rohn quotes What we ended up with is an in depth reflection on Jim Rohn's wisdom and how much of it might be very helpful as we plan for what's next ---------------- Mark leads with year-end, new year and goal setting as topics. The context is the wisdom of Jim Rohn. Our Jim loves Rohn and brought some...

Mark introduces the topic of self awareness. He shares that their "pregame" discussion was very self reflective. He suggests that the time of year, as well as some other personal events from Jim's life and Mark's have the guys a bit mired in self reflection and self awareness Mark reads a couple of quotes Jim brought to the recording. One secular (Stoic) and one Biblical (Thomas) Jim shares some c...

Mark introduces the episode and frames it around the holidays, the challenges therein and the notion that "the more people the more problems" Jim says the topic is timely and he connects it to our flywheel of life…all starting with the self. He shares his opinion on the more people topic and heightened emotions Mark adds New Years and all the prep before the holidays. He cites the pressure the wom...

Mark introduces the episode with some context about where today's topic came from Jim had a speech to give last week and on the drive he teed up our last episode about writng a letter to your 21 year old self In that episode we mentioned the 80/20 rule, aka, The Pareto Principle He talked about how he wove it into his speech and how it resonate with the audience Then the guys broke down the histor...

Mark introduces the episode and reflects on the "pregame" discussion with Jim. Jim is giving a speech in a few days to a group or around 60 to 80 college students at San Jose State in the dept of Design and construction and he wants to give them career advice and life advice to help them with the transition from school to life Jim brings the wheel into play and shares some context for his upcoming...

Mark starts off introducing the topic which revolves around the presidential election of 2024. What do we do now? Jim and Mark are more interested in addresing what actually happened, why it may have happened and what we might expect to happen next What do we do now? We went back and forth about the blue team and red team. No judgement It's not what happens to you, it's how you respond... We talke...

Mark introduces the topic of communication and within that general topic, the subtopic of persuasion. He then emphasizes the value of having a framework. He puts our framework in perspective Jim chimes in about the idea of having a framework and emphasizes the IMC framework Jim shares his 5 W's framework and how helpful it has been for him in a variety of projects. How it adds perspective for both...

A we suggested in the episode, we want to encourage anyone who is interested and able to contribute to my daughter Caroline's Go Fund Me campaign in support of documenting the devastation that hit Asheville, NC (where she lives) recently with her creative partners in the form of a documentary. Details can be found here - https://gofund.me/8fcfe6fa Thanks for your support!! ———————— Mark introduces...

Mark introduces two topics. Community and legacy He shares that they skipped last week because of the two hurricanes and tells the listeners that everyone was safe in his family and how the communities came together Why we can get along and be supportive in times of hardship, yet we are divided in times of peace Mark says we're not as divided as the media portray us. Mark says if we all got togeth...

Mark introduces the topic based on Jim's experience and the guys decide to expand on the flywheel and the 5 areas of life as "screens" that we look through He starts with money Jim shares a story about meeting some strangers and getting into a discussion about our podcast and specifically money. Jim has been getting more and more comfortable explaining our podcast He shares how one of the people w...

Mark brings up the topic - Love of fate, love of one's fate - "Amore Fati" Stoicism Things happen for you, not to you Personal accountability and self awareness Mark asks Jim to share the back story Three conversations with three good friends Jim did a deep dive into Amore Fate. The Japanese version "wabi sabi" The connection to imperfection People with victim mentalities are not pleasant to be ar...

Mark introduces the topic of civil discourse and reads the definition He classifies it as a worldview topic and asks Jim to chime in Jim tells the story about how he and Mark met and that the original topic of the podcast was going to be civil discourse Jim takes us around the wheel and explains where our worldview comes from. Our childhood and our political views Jim cites the current problem tha...

Mark introduces the topic of people being coachable and referable Jim tells the story of a young man he knows and attending his wedding He goes back a few years when this young man was just starting out and shares how he introduced him to his future boss because he was coachable, referable and persistent. Jim says he still, to this day, tries to be coachable Mark says team sports is great fodder f...

Mark introduces the topic of self identity in the context of how people feel their story about who they are and what they do Jim chimes in with a story about the event he attended that generated our topic for today At the event they did a "speed dating" like exercise where one of the questions was "what do you do?" Cool story. Jim found that changed his answer as he learned by practicing with 40 o...

Mark introduces the topic of friendships between men and shares how it came from our friend Jeff's annual golf outing He connects it to the wheel and the Harvard study of men which concludes that men thrive based on the number and depth of their friendships Jim appreciates the fact that we're coming up on 60 episodes He shares his opinion of male relationships. How they change over time and how gu...

Mark Introduces the topic for this episode - Traditions. He contextualizes it as connected to worldview as traditions are often cultural. The guys arrived at the topic talking about Jim's annual high school football team barbecue he holds at his house and has for 17 years in a row Jim also connects it to our childhood where our worldview begins to form Jim shares his appreciation for what the foot...

Mark starts off with some context about what our podcast is all about. Sharing opinions and experiences with men to help them live a more fulfilled life He introduces the topics of self-regret and self narrative and hopes for some humorous angles Jim brings up the wheel and how we always start with self awareness He talks about the power of reading the definitions. He says if you don't have regret...

Mark introduces the topic and explains that he and Jim will be guided in this episode by an article Jim read in Fast Company. Here's a link to the article Mark suggests personal branding begins with self reflection Jim enters with reference to the self and self promotion in specific.   He shares his opinion about self promotion and how society feels very different about personal branding. Then he...

Mark introduces the topic of expectations. Setting and managing them with others We succeed and we fail doing both He says we do a poor job of being specific and clear and recalibrating as things evolve Jim says ww are "wound up" in the existing political environment. We expect the politicians to be civil and honest…and they're not. They throw rocks at each other Mark identifies that he and Jim ha...

Mark introduces the topic of immigration and draws a thick line between legal and illegal immigration. He's very pro immigration and very much opposed to illegal immigration. He says there are many different lenses to look through at this issue Jim jumps in and identifies that this topic falls into worldview on our flywheel. He mentions that Europe and in particular Italy are wrestling with open b...

Mark introduces the two topics for today and how closely they are connected Self accountability and life changing events The Trump assassination attempt and the selection of his VP running mate Mark reminds the audience of the fly wheel framework and the idea that both guys lean conservative. Mark more so than Jim Jim jumps in ands goes into more detail about the wheel and the 5 areas of life Jim...

Mark starts off setting the stage for his most recent ex-wife encounter. Both guys see numerous lessons to be learned from Mark's encounter the other day and decided to record their conversation as an episode Mark sets the stage for the discussion by giving the event some historical context He describes his emotional state and gives a few details of the actual event - sitting in front of a judge J...

    Mark introduces the topic of mentorship Jim reflects on the difference between being nice and kind.   Real mentorship requires telling people things they need to hear but maybe don't want to. He refers to some of the work Mark is doing, in part holding people accountable. Jim says showing up, prepared and consistently is huge Mark agrees. He brings in communication and how social media and tec...

Mark introduces the topic - apologizing. He says too many people are apologizing too often Mark reads the definition Jim counters with thinking it's a trigger for him. He brings up a conversation he just had with a 30 something and how he said he was sorry over and over…to the point that it was totally inauthentic He was regretting things he said and did Mark agrees about authenticity being critic...

Mark introduces the topic of self doubt He places it in health/mental health category on the wheel Mark talks about waking up "awash" in self doubt yesterday and he wrote about it to help pull him out of it First he went through with his morning routine and was still bummed out..so he wrote about it Jim says self doubt is normal and anyone who doesn't get it every so often isn't striving Jim talks...