Imperfect Mens Club

Mark brings in the topic in the context of our Wheel. The concept of focusing one only one thing until you momentum and can diversify with only the cash flow from that one thing. Simplicity Jim brings up the idea of focus and how that is bolstered with simplicity. He expands on our wheel and the five areas of life and the center of the wheel, the self Jim and Mark share their experience with the m...

Mark introduces the topic of self identity The guys joke about their lack of Biblical knowledge around God's statement to Moses "I am who I am" Jim refers to a podcast he heard that mentioned the we're never ready and you just have to face your fears Mark reflects on his career and how he speaks with everyone he helps about their self identity. It's the most important part of his work. You have to...

Mark introduces the topic of reinventing yourself in the context of a personal brand. Both guys have been working on their brands. Jim is finishing up a formal effort with his brand Mark puts his career up as a reinvention experience Jim shares his view of how stories and brands have evolved over time and explains why he has made his recent investment of time and money working out his brand and me...

"You cannot kill a thought. It needs to die of old age or natural causes" Mark introduces the topic of worldview and the different belief systems we all have…and where we get them Jim adds the influence of the political distress specifically in LA and brings in the flywheel Mark clarifies the politics of it all and both guys laugh at how everything is about politics Jim says most of us don't like...

Mark introduces the topic by reading the definition and symptoms As much as the guys believe it to be real, it's also funny Jim asks Mark what "Psychic pathology" means and he takes a shot Jim shares his opinion about friends and family that seem to struggle with this Jim talks about his mom. She exhibits physical manifestations Mark thinks this physical reaction indicates a pretty severe conditio...

Mark introduces the topic and frames it in the context of his recent experience with having a plumber show up at his home to do some work He shares how gratitude plays a part in the discussion. He expresses a concern that the topic is so rich that staying on topic might be tough Jim reflects on the story Mark has already told him Jim expands on the "Showing up" concept Jim shares his perspective h...

Mark introduces the topic of disingenuous people. Both guys have had recent experiences with people who were being disingenuous. Mark asks whether he thinks people are born this way or do become this way based on environment or circumstance. Jim says he's been using that word more often lately Mark reads the legal definition of the word Jim shares his definition. He clarifies the nuance of this ac...

Mark brings up the topic of communication in the context of self talk and self reflection Then he shares a framework Jim brought that he uses for communication. The triple A method Assumptions/Agreement/Action Mark is a fan Jim brings up a favorite quote of his - "The most important conversation you'll ever have is the conversation you have with yourself"…and that's a crazy person Mark shares his...

Mark introduces the guys and topic. He cites how aligned both guys are. As they enter the call they're thinking of the same topics and thoughts Neurodivergence (See definition at the bottom of the show notes) Mark shares a call about his grandson and his current struggles which may well involve him being on the spectrum Jim shared his perspective about labels and crutches and his own story about b...

Mark introduces the topic of male and female relationships. Jim had brought up the recent Bill Belichick   interview with his new 24 year old girlfriend Jim covers our framework and the wheel of life. Relationships is one of the five and women is a subset of that Jim likes looking at life in increments of 10 years. Now we're both in our 60's and things have changed Jim brings up the Belichick inte...

Mark introduces the topic of confidence.   Self-confidence The topic originated with Jim's interest in elitism - entitlement - self-accountability - confidence In order to be self accountable, one must be confident Jim ties in the current news events and his recent book as he frames his view of confidence. Particularly sports and business He distinguishes between confidence and the competence requ...

Mark shares the value of the "pregame" the guys use to prepare for the podcast He introduces the topic of frameworks How they can be good or harmful Jim shares how frameworks evolve and how ours did. Our tagline "The Imperfection Is The Perfection" Jim used this with his kids when they got frustrated with him He thinks imperfections and failures make us who we are Jim shares how when we started th...

Mark introduces the topics of solitude and one's persona Jim jumps in to help contextualize this discussion Mark reads the definitions of   "Persona" and "Solitude" Mark asks Jim about his trip Jim separates being alone for a few minutes from the very different version of a 7 day solo trip Jim has chosen solo trips in the last few years He reflects on how his roles and personas have changed as he'...

Mark introduces the topic of the power of the mind and self-talk The idea that we now have science and data to support the value of positive talk, visualization and vibration in influencing our happiness and peace of mind Jim got the idea from Billy Carson's appearance on Lewis Howe's Greatness podcast Jim shares the story of how we met. He was struggling mentally and emotionally and had some evid...

We just started talking. No Intro! Mark brings up human nature. He suggests that men and women have unique natures as well He says recognizing and acknowledging human nature is necessary as part of any discussion of behavior Jim asks Mark his opinion about homosexuality Mark shares his ignorance and his opinion as well as his curiosity Mark brings up the Catholic Church Jim shares his significant...

Mark introduces the topic of agency. Jim thinks Mark is a great example of what an agent is He reads a definition and adds some context to what an agent is and how he may, in fact, be one The value of having an objective third party negotiating on your behalf Jim thinks AI will make being an agent much more valuable He discusses the agents he uses. His patent agent, for example. Agents are not as...

Mark leads with the definition of "fortitude" and "self fortitude" He suggests the one is more internal and the other more external Jim shares his recent difficult week due to 4 or 5 people he is close to are experiencing hardship. From illness to the loss of a young man to suicide Jim puts his experiences in the context of our "Flywheel of Life" "When you're healthy you have hundreds of things on...

Mark introduces the topic of serving others and connects it to the flywheel of life in the category of relationships/others. Jim brings up the wheel and discusses each of the 5 areas - Money, worldview, relationships, health and career/profession This episode is about others. Men and women He says there are two types of service and then shares his recent event KBIS in Las Vegas. He was selected as...

Jim - the most important conversation you'll ever have is with yourself…and that person is a crazy person Jim frames service in the context of bringing a product or service to the market to help people in some ways He frames this in the context of his most recent project that he asked Mark for help with - his talk about the kitchen and bath industry Jim asks. If it's not just money, why do we seek...

Mark introduces the topic and both guys have personal accounts of dealing with making themselves vulnerable Jim thinks that most of us don't put ourselves out there Jim brings in our flywheel and the 5 areas of life and then uses his 5 W's approach (Why, who, when, where and what) Mark reads the definition of self-vulnerability that Jim provides from his online searches about the topic Jim says ac...

Today Jim and I welcome a special guest. Paul Carroll was my mentor in the start-up staffing space at the beginning of my career and he joins us today to talk about his latest work volunteering with young men in the foster care system We started recording before my introduction:). It sounded good so we decided to keep rolling. Sorry for any confusion Pauls shares his sense of urgency and the "sign...

Episode 3 Bygone Era Mark introduces the topic for this episode.  The notion of there being a bygone era. Jim suggested the topic given the current political landscape and the guys explore other applications of the notion in life Mark reads the Google definition Jim comes in and suggests that we have entered a new era. He brings of his 5 W framework and the concept of self awareness (Who,what,when...

Mark introduces the episode about belief systems in the context of the fires in Southern California Remember…Jim is a California native still living in the Bay Area and Mark has lived in Florida since 1990 Two very different perspectives and responses to natural disasters! Jim says it's personal because he has friends and family in the fire zone He brings in our tag line and framework. He says we'...

Mark introduces Episode 1 of Season 4 with the topic of a paradigm shift . A shift in the way the country is moving with the election of Donald Trump and the push back against "woke" Jim introduces the wheel and worldview as a likely connection to the topic. He believes the shift is well on it's way and we can see and hear evidence of it as more people open up post election Jim has some examples a...

We recorded this Dec 23, 2024. We decided to sneak one in during Christmas week and when we connected for the pre game, neither of us had any ideas about what might make a good topic Then we shared a couple of real "what just happened" stories and AI was a common theme. So we decided to share our genius I didn't edit or listen to this episode for the first time in 3 years. I think it'll be good Le...