Impact Ready

In this episode, Steph talks about "getting to the root". She discusses the importance of identifying root causes in various aspects of life, like in health, conflict and personal development. Drawing from her background in Chinese medicine, she emphasizes that addressing symptoms without understanding the underlying issues leads to ineffective solutions. You end up "chasing branche...

In this episode, Steph discusses the 'novelty phase' that often accompanies new endeavors, highlighting the initial excitement and motivation that can fade after a few months. Have you ever started something you were super excited about, and then about three months in, you seem to lose your motivation? That's the novelty phase. Steph emphasizes the importance of pushing through this ph...

In this episode, Steph explores the complexities of giving and helping others, particularly in relationships where the recipient may not be ready or willing to accept help. This topic comes up a lot for people because relationships are nuanced, complex and we are often invested in the outcomes of the people we love! Steph discusses the importance of understanding one's limits in providing supp...

In this episode, Steph discusses the importance of taking action not just at the start of the year, but throughout the entire year. There is a powerful formula used in coaching: Insight + Action = Transformation. Action is where the rubber meets the road and so many people avoid it. She emphasizes the need to connect with a strong personal 'why' to motivate action, the dangers of waiting for the p...

In this episode, Steph talks about the "crisis of complaining" and how it affects us and the people around us. She references Wayne Dyer's famous quote, "When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change." This discussion addresses the pervasive issue of complaining and the three hard truths that go along with it. She emphasizes the importance of per...

In this episode, Steph talks about a famous rule around communication called the 7-38-55 rule. She emphasizes that effective communication goes beyond words, highlighting the significance of tone and body language. The conversation illustrates how much of our communication is nonverbal and how many people aren't intentional about the way they take up space in a room. Steph shares personal anecdote...

In this episode, Steph explores the profound impact of the stories we tell ourselves and how they shape our perspectives and emotions. Through the example of a coaching client named John, she illustrates the importance of recognizing and challenging our narratives to foster personal growth and empowerment. It comes down to one insight: "It's all about the story we tell, isn't it?" The discussion e...

In this episode, Steph discusses the concept of personal bottlenecks, drawing from a coaching client's experience. The conversation explores how individuals often become the obstacles to their own success, emphasizing the importance of personal responsibility, effective communication, and taking action. Steph provides practical strategies for overcoming procrastination, creating routines, and main...

In this episode, Steph reflects on the new year and shares the top 5 tools and ideas from the podcast in 2024 that have helped listeners and clients achieve personal growth and impact. She shares these 5 tactics: 1) the ONE change, 2) radical ownership, 3) problem energy vs. solution energy, 4) choose your story, and 5) energy is everything. We are always out there seeking new tools, but sometimes...

In this episode, and in honor of the coming new year, Steph discusses the most controversial episode of the last year for the Impact Ready podcast. It was Ep.6 "Stress is a Choice". She breaks down the different reactions people have to this sentiment, "stress is a choice", and talks more about what it means in practice. Steph emphasizes how this idea is about perspective and the story we tell abo...

In this episode, Steph explores the complex relationship between negative and positive thinking, challenging the notion that one must choose between the two. Don't we want to know all sides, all facets, of who we are? We are constantly sifting and sorting through experiences in life. Negative thinking is framed not as a flaw but as a valuable part of the human experience that can lead to self-disc...

In this episode, Steph describes another sneaky form of the Perfectionist saboteur...regret. She discusses how our inability to let things go and feel stuck in regret is connected to the false narrative that we have the capacity to be perfect, and when we make mistakes, we have somehow failed. This was a pervasive belief for her, and has often comes up for many people in general. By understanding...

In this episode, Steph examines the sentiment, “So much of our joy comes from anticipation of an event, not the event itself.” This came as a result of acknowledging that many people today report feeling very little joy in their lives. Steph talks about the practice of anticipation as a way of creating excitement in your life, and therefore increasing your baseline level of joy. Through a client s...

In this episode, Steph reflects on the question she asks herself all the time: How do I know if this is meant for me? She discusses the idea that the best things in life aren't forced, and the mental dilemma of deciding if you aren't trying hard enough, or the thing you want just isn't meant for you. We talk about how a lot of it boils down to a desire for control. And that by releasing the fear,...

In this episode, Steph discusses the concept of 'start-stop energy,' a frustrating cycle where individuals experience momentum in their goals or projects, only to have it abruptly halted. She shares personal anecdotes and insights on how this pattern affects various aspects of life, emphasizing the importance of being intentional with time and preparing for life's inevitable challenges. Steph outl...

In this episode, Steph discusses the absolute power of understanding your personal why and how it influences your ability to create a fulfilling life. She describes your "why" as the big reasons behind your actions and as your foundations when things get hard in your pursuits. Your "why" can serve as motivation and your tether to the ground when things get stormy. Steph shares the clinical experie...

This episode, Steph describes the transformative power of "holding it loosely" or letting go. She discusses how resistance to reality can lead to pain, something most people deal struggle with on the daily. Through personal anecdotes, she illustrates the journey of embracing the unknown and the growth that comes from surrendering control. The conversation encourages listeners to view letting go no...

In this episode, Steph discusses the importance of embracing hard things in life as a pathway to building resilience and confidence. She emphasizes that these qualities are not innate but cultivated through doing hard things. We have all had experiences that felt challenging in life, but in looking back, led to tremendous growth. The conversation also touches on the fear of the unknown and the hum...

In this episode, Steph talks about appreciation and gratitude from a different angle. She discusses the strange cynicism surrounding gratitude, the contrast between gratitude and the messaging we get from mainstream, and the innate ability to apply an "appreciation filter" to anything. Steph relates to feeling gratitude even in challenging times and encourages listeners to practice appreciation as...

In this episode, Steph discusses a common sentiment from clients: "Growth can feel exhausting!" This is regarding the process of practicing personal growth and self-development. Steph describes how this feeling often stems from unrealistic expectations and the way individuals approach their growth journey. By shifting perspectives, being mindful of input, and recognizing the importance of repetiti...

In this episode, Steph describes the power of "changing your state" as a technique to interrupt negative thought patterns. She emphasizes the importance of being aware of our habitual thoughts and how they shape our experiences. Changing your state is simple and can have almost instant impact. She shares practical strategies for doing this so you can shift your mindset. It's one of the easiest way...

In this episode , Steph delves into the concept of resilience, exploring its importance and the ways to cultivate it in our lives. She describes lessons from Biosphere 2, an experiment from the 1980s that taught us valuable lessons about why the trees need wind to survive. The same is true of for all us going through this human experience. The episode concludes with practical steps to enhance resi...

In this episode, Steph discusses the complexities of navigating the holiday season, addressing both the joy and stress that can accompany this time of year. The biggest struggle during this season? EXPECTATIONS. So how do we manage those? Steph shares personal experiences and insights on how different family backgrounds can shape holiday expectations and stresses the importance of understanding an...

In this episode, Steph discusses the value of investing in yourself, whether it's your time, energy or resources. Why? Because we can only rise to the highest belief of ourself. Our investment is essential to overcome limiting beliefs and achieve personal growth. And as you grow, you expand your ability to impact others, some of whom you haven't even met yet. There are so many ways to invest in yo...

We are celebrating 50 episodes of Impact Ready! Steph reflects on the journey of the podcast and draws inspiration from the Blue Angels after watching their documentary. She highlights the phrase 'glad to be here,' said by the crew members and pilots, and discusses the sentiment behind that, and how it applies to our life and our ability to impact. Thank you for being here for 50 episodes! Let's k...