I’m Trying, Dude.

We wrap Season 3 with one of our most personal, reflective, and laugh-filled episodes yet. From stupid humor that sends us into tears to deep questions about legacy, fulfillment, and friendship, this one hits on all fronts. Dan opens up about accountability and what it means to show up, Marcel reflects on chasing meaning beyond metrics, and together we look at what it means to keep trying—creative...

In this episode of I'm Trying, Dude , Marcel and Dan dive into the real reason we struggle with consistency — especially when it comes to routines, working out, or picking up new habits. They explore how to shift from a mindset of “I should” to “I want to” , and why that simple change is the key to sustainable growth. Things get personal, too. Dan relives some wild high school fights (includin...

In this raw and real episode, Marcel and Dan unpack everything from Memorial Day weekend plans gone sideways to the value of hard conversations in male friendships. From unexpected tension and honest apologies to food meditations, kombucha love, and being haunted by an ice bath fail—this one is truly all over the place in the best way. Whether it's mindful eating, getting vulnerable in a sauna...

Dan kicks things off with his Brooklyn Half win—and how that somehow led to a night of trying way too hard to impress a woman. Marcel confesses to breaking his sobriety and reflects on the emotional spiral that followed. From dating drama to performative masculinity, the guys unpack why we chase validation and how true confidence comes from within. It’s raw, hilarious, and painfully relatable. 🕐...

Addiction comes in many forms — and not all of them look destructive at first glance. In this episode, Marcel and Daniel open up about their own struggles with addiction, both obvious and subtle, and how they’ve replaced old patterns with new “healthy” ones. But is constant replacement true healing? They explore the tension between obsession and discipline, what it means to be truly free from comp...

This week, we’re diving into a topic we’ve both wrestled with — body image. Dan opens up about his long history with body insecurities, unhealthy dieting, and how a childhood comment stuck with him for years. Marcel reflects on his own struggles with feeling too skinny and how the desire for external validation shaped his early fitness habits. We unpack how body image affects not just how we look,...

This week on I'm Trying, Dude , Marcel and Daniel dive into the moments that tested their moral compass — from small things they got away with as kids to the deeper question: are we actually good people? They swap stories about books that shifted their perspective, movement and recovery journeys, and share a hilarious moment involving running, falling, and friendship. Tune in for laughs, refle...

We're back! Season 3 of I’m Trying, Dude kicks off with a deep dive into courage—what it means to show up, to try something new, to speak up, or to just sit with someone who's hurting. From running marathons to asking for tea on a flight (yes, really), Marcel and Dan unpack why even the smallest decisions can take courage. We also talk about burnout, acting class breakthroughs, creative do...

It’s the last episode of Season 2! 🎉 In this wrap-up, Marcel and Dan reflect on their journey so far, balancing goals with self-care, and how to build consistency without burnout. Marcel shares highlights from his intense Bahamas training trip, Dan preps for a Thailand wedding, and both discuss their first-ever joint modeling gig… which involves no pants 🚇. They also get real about what’s next f...

This week, we’re catching up and covering everything from Mardi Gras chaos to the underrated power of dancing. Dan’s trip to New Orleans takes an unexpected turn, Marcel gets deep about his hairline, and we both realize we might have cracked the code to feeling young forever. Also in this episode: 🟣 Dan’s wild, unplanned Mardi Gras adventure (and a whole new side of New Orleans) 💃 Marcel’s sober...

This week, we’re switching things up—again. A "long-distance" recording, half caffeinated, and a whole lot of real talk. Marcel and Dan catch up on life, injuries, and the mental game of chasing big goals. Dan just got back from Ireland, where he lived his best medieval life in a castle, and Marcel is questioning if he pushed himself too hard on his latest 20-mile run. Also in this episo...

This week, we’re switching things up—again. Looser structure, more real talk, and a whole lot of rule-breaking. Marcel and Dan dive into childhood chaos, from strict upbringings and rebellious streaks to revenge plots that may or may not have involved a car 👀. Marcel shares how his dad’s rule-breaking shaped his life, while Dan confesses to a klepto phase that got way out of hand. Also in this ep...

Learning to thrive solo & make the most of your time. Being alone doesn’t have to mean being lonely. Whether you’re single on Valentine’s Day or just looking to enjoy your own company more, we’re diving deep into what it actually means to thrive solo. We’re talking about: - The difference between being alone vs. feeling lonely - How to make solo time feel meaningful instead of isolating - Why...

What if the only thing standing between you and the life you want… was your fear of failure? In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the thought experiment that could change everything. We dive into: Why this question forces you to confront what you actually want. The biggest excuses that stop people from even trying. What happens if you love something but you’re actually bad at it? Why failure ma...

For years, men have been told to "man up" and hold it in. But why? In this episode, Marcel and Daniel dive into the stigma around men crying, where it comes from, and why it’s time to let it go—literally. From childhood lessons about toughness to the science behind why crying is actually good for you, we’re breaking down what it really means to be strong. 🗣️ Topics We Cover: Why men are told not t...

Why are we so afraid of being average? In this episode, Marcel and Dan dive into the deep-rooted fear of mediocrity—where it comes from, how social media fuels it, and the dangerous game of comparison. We break down the difference between healthy competition vs. toxic comparison, how ambition can turn into burnout, and the biggest question that shook us: “When is it enough?” Along the way, we get...

We all make mistakes, but how often do we truly talk about them? Do we process them, and if so, how? Are you sure that all the mistakes you have made in your life left you with the right lesson... or did it even teach you one? Dan & Marcel are diving into all these questions and more in today's episode, to make sure that you learn after you crash & burn. And while it was a joke: failing ca...

Hobbies over Side Hustles, filling your cup rather than filling your wallet. Kicking off 2025 with the first episode of season 2 that will take us through the rest of winter with a topic both of us have a lot of experience with: making money with something you love to do. But is that always the best choice? Tune in and figure it out together with us... Much love, Dan & Marcel

Not what you think. Just a low-key episode shooting the sh*t to end the year and "season 1" of I'm Trying Dude. Stoked you guys made it here, and proud of ourselves for actually pulling through with this podcast thing! More to come in 2025 but we're sending you off to enjoy your holidays and we'll see you next year. Or you'll see us, at least lolMuch love,D + M

Ngl, this day was not it for Dan or Marcel. But it presented a nice opportunity to talk about how to handle feeling unmotivated & deciding when to push and when to rest up instead. All while being riddled with self-doubting questions like: am I a bad friend?! Tune in as we turn these frowns upside down. Much love,D + M

This episode we're diving into bromantic things you and your bro should probably do more of. Also: a thanksgiving debrief, Dan almost dying (again), video game nostalgia and as always: a good dose of "not taking ourselves seriously, in the slightest." Hope y'all enjoy. Big love, Dan + Marcel

A whole new setup and we're getting into goal setting, what happens when you hit them, and how to stay motivated the whole way there and beyond. Alongside, some tales of Mexico, close calls at immigration, and whether or not guys should leave their phones behind to connect with other dudes. Also always, we're trying, and hope you enjoy the episode. Big love, Dan + Marcel

The good times keep on rolling. In this episode, we cover topics like sexuality (FINALLY amirite??), telling our friends we love them and why, relationship advice, and some steps to take to live more positive lives. As always, if you have any feedback, it's much appreciated. Big love, M+D

Definitely not a political podcast, but with the recent elections Dan & Marcel dive into some politics, the struggle of saying "No" for no reason, and how to finish a marathon without drugs. All while managing their temporary long distance relationship. Hope you enjoy -- and we love to hear your thoughts, so please don't be shy and reach out with Qs or prompts! Big love, We're Trying, Dudes.

Boys and their mommas .. and boys and their girlfriends. A glimpse into how we approach our relationships with the women in our lives, and how choosing honesty can lead to happier and healthier co-existing. But where do you draw the line? Who gets to hear the truth and when is it just off-putting?