IDK WTF I’m Doing

What if everything you’re going through in your business is actually happening for you? In this episode, we’re getting into why entrepreneurship is one of the most advanced spiritual practices there is — and why nobody talks about it that way. We’re breaking down the real reason your ceiling keeps hitting you, why delayed gratification is a spiritual discipline (not just a mindset hack), and what...

If you’ve ever sat at a job thinking  I could run this better  — that’s not arrogance, that’s wiring. In this episode I’m breaking down the 5 real signs you’re built for entrepreneurship, not just interested in it. We’re talking about why you see problems everywhere, why you can’t stop solving things that aren’t even yours to fix, why someone else’s ceiling feels like suffocation, and why uncertai...

Single mom, solo parent, running on empty? This one’s for you. In this episode of IDK wtf I’m doing , I’m pulling back the curtain on the invisible load of solo parenting — the constant mental tracking, the financial juggling, the never-ending list that nobody sees and nobody claps for. I’m talking about the tears in the car before work, the showers you turn on just to cry in private, and the exha...

Manifestation is step one. Becoming her is the work. In this episode, Mia J breaks down what “acting as if” really means — and why it’s not faking it till you make it. It’s identity-level transformation backed by neuroscience (neuroplasticity + your RAS), and Mia shares a personal story from when she was living in a shelter and used this exact framework to shift her reality. If you’ve been doing a...

In this episode, Mia gets raw and unfiltered about the depressive episode that hit her out of nowhere — crying spells that lasted days, canceling plans she actually wanted to keep, and a body that finally said enough. She breaks down what triggered it, why she couldn’t just “journal it out,” and how being a solo mom, entrepreneur, and woman with no village makes mental health hits land differently...

Have you ever been in the middle of a big decision and felt like you were hearing a million different voices — but had no idea which one to actually listen to? In this episode of I Don’t Know What the F** I’m Doing*, host Mia J breaks down the three voices we all experience: the ego, God’s voice, and your intuition — and more importantly, how to tell them apart. Whether you’re navigating a major l...

You are not your anger. You’re not your anxiety. You’re not your sadness — you’re a person experiencing those things, and that difference is everything. In this episode we’re talking about one of the simplest but most powerful mindset shifts you can make: changing “I am angry” to “I feel angry.” It sounds small. It’s not. When you fuse your identity with your emotions, you make them permanent. Whe...

Are you doing all the right things — visualizing, praying, setting intentions — but still feel like nothing is moving? In this episode of I Don’t Know What the F** I’m Doing*, host Mia J breaks down why divine timing is real, why we resist it, and what it actually means to trust the process. We’re unpacking why the need to control your timeline is often rooted in fear and trauma responses, how for...

I’m bacccck. I took a bit of a hiatus but in this episode I speak Briefly about my spiritual journey including how I became reiki certified,

In this episode I talk about pillar 2 of 4 for me… Entrepreneurship. Do you see entrepreneurship as a pathway for you? Follow me on socials: @callhermiaj and @noirjoya

In this episode, I begin talking about one of the four pillars of me: Parenthood. I discussed how becoming a parent catapult me into the rest of my journey. Has parenting shifted you in anyway ? Follow me on social media : @callhermiaj & @noirjoya 🤞🏽

Season 1, Episode 1… the beginning of figuring out wtf I’m doing. If you can relate, this is the right place for you. I give you just a brief overview of what I’m trying to figure out: spirituality, parenthood, entrepreneurship, and health. Find me everywhere @noirjoya or @callhermiaj