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Get in the car, gays, we’re recovering from ennui! In this episode I share how I am successfully clawing my way out of a generalized dissatisfaction with life. I discuss The power in sharing your pain and letting people witness you Being discerning and cutthroat about our media diets Getting re-energized through doing what feels good intuitively rather than morally In the full Patreon episode I go...

On this episode I discuss how to carry out sustainable activism for any cause. I use the example of Palestine and my journey figuring out how to care for myself and Palestine without becoming emotionally burned out and cynical (again). I discuss: The importance of becoming the ultimate authority in your life Doing "what’s right" vs. what feels right Attuning and honouring to your body’s internal Y...

My life has changed for the better due to entering my thirties and understanding my brain more (autism). I'v begun the process of building authentic self-esteem and discuss this in depth. Namely: The tenets of improved self esteem Tools to reframe self care if you’re struggling to take your needs seriously Putting respeck on your name: not diminishing your talents When is self deprecation appropri...

On this episode I discuss: Autistic burnout vs. depression When affirmations feel like lies The emotional cost of managing everyday life The cost of hidden disabilities Moral imperatives The selfishness of Nihilism Cognitive distortions The applications of optimism, hope, pessimism and nihilism  References:  Rebecca Solnit interview - https://open.spotify.com/episode/45Qgrl4kcHVap19qqVc2...

Thank GOD its over! We loved it but my lorddd: what a rollercoaster of a show. Entertaining, shocking, messy!  We discuss Thoughts on each contestant’s behaviour in episode 6-9, with a special mention to Nolla and Khanya’s bizarre behaviour Each couple’s proposals The reunion: surprise breakups, growth and drama On the full Patreon episode we go on to discuss: Should we judge people by the fr...

Please DO NOT share with us the outcome of Ep6-10! SPOILERS: discussing Episode 1-5 TW - Ab*se and addiction The Ultimatum SA has us by the pubes! It’s 10/10 and we spend the episode dissecting it. The full 1hr40min discussion is on Patreon. Things we discuss: Nyakwezi gives an update on her tussle with the psychic Holding space for friendship breakups The Public humiliation (or efficacy) of dragg...

This is one of my favourite episodes to date! I’m joined by the brilliant astrologer wizard Jaliessa Sipress to discuss amorality, the nature of suffering, manifestation and human duality Amorality and moving away from good/bad and right/wrong Manifestation and moving away from mainstream models.  Engaging with world suffering and debating the idea of resilience Social expectations, fear of j...

I didn’t stutter! On this episode we are graced with Nyak’s presence to discuss all things people pleasing. Is it a tool that helps avoid conflict, or does it actively contribute to it? We read out your juicy people pleaser DMs (thanks for sending them) and discuss polyamory and a dust up with a psychic (oops! everyone pray for us😬). Additionally:  Communicating capacity and boundaries in fr...

Amanda Seales is being unfairly dog-pilled on. When people are cut down because they're honest and direct, what does this say about society at large? If it's unsafe for a successful, effective, beautiful neurotypical woman (I recorded this a week before she shared she was autistic - okay psychic!) to be unflinching in her anti-establishment critiques, what hope is there for the average black autis...

TRIGGER WARNING: S*icide I've been having a hard time making meaning out of life - what with societal collapse, genocides and hustle culture - and wanted to share some conclusions I made about why it is better to stay alive than to opt out. I hope this episode makes you feel seen and a little less alone. Themes discussed: Arguments in favour of staying alive Finding joy while the world is burning...

Hey girls and gays 😭😭😭😭😭  We are officially BACK in action and so happy you're here! So much has changed, but so much has also stayed the same. Have a listen to understand changes to the show and what you can expect. I've also got SEVEN episodes on Patreon, and counting. Join the highest Patreon for 4-5 full length episodes a month: https://patreon.com/iswis Instagram: iswis_podcast + mu...

WELL HELLO GIRLS AND GAYS! In this episode we’re discussing spiritual growth in 2020 and answering your questions. Blame the Conjuncture for us sounding like cyborgs. Spiritual content: Ask And It is Given, and Money and the Law of Attraction by Abraham Hicks. I STRONGLY RECOMMEND you listen or read to a FULL BOOK for full context and efficacy. https://tinyurl.com/y7gkontyLike this podcast? TIP US...

TW mention of Suicide and Sexual Assault. On this episode we discuss themes around George Floyd’s murder. How do we keep spiritually sane and safe in the face of white supremacy. We are taking a hiatus for an undetermined length of time, keep well girls and gays! Like this podcast? TIP US! The COVID-19 FUND IS OVER - all tips will line our bellies with ribs and our fingers with gold.  www.paypal.m...

should our friends serve the productive function of inspiring us? should we admire our friends and want to be like them, or are they just a good time? We also get into black capitalism, hypergamy, the illusion of loyalty and the pressures of beauty in dating. Like this podcast? TIP US! All money goes FINANCIAL RELIEF ISWIS LISTENERS STRUGGLING DUE TO COVID-19 - www.paypal.me/iswispodcast.
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In this episode we discuss issues around how to effectively and selflessly hold space for people. Do you know how to hold space for people without making their problems about you? Is wanting to fix loved one's issues a compassionate or selfish act? As a spiritual person is it defeatist to accept suffering and illness? Follow Mica on instagram.com/micamontana/ and Alecia on instagram.com/tendertruf...

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Who decides our purpose? Is happiness something we find or something we choose? Like this podcast? TIP US! All money goes FINANCIAL RELIEF ISWIS LISTENERS STRUGGLING DUE TO COVID-19 - www.paypal.me/iswispodcast. TO RECEIVE FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE FROM THE ISWIS LISTENERS FUND - heyiswis@gmail.com. Come chat about this episode on our Facebook group! - www.facebook.com/groups/242333026713965/ instagram...

On cults, compatibility and happiness. Like this podcast? TIP US! All money goes FINANCIAL RELIEF ISWIS LISTENERS STRUGGLING DUE TO COVID-19 - www.paypal.me/iswispodcast. TO RECEIVE FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE FROM THE ISWIS LISTENERS FUND - heyiswis@gmail.com. Come chat about this episode on our Facebook group! - www.facebook.com/groups/242333026713965/ instagram.com/iswis_podcast / youtube.com/mukundwa...

Shifting efforts in friendships, productivity and delayed gratification under lockdown. Like this podcast? TIP US! All money goes FINANCIAL RELIEF ISWIS LISTENERS STRUGGLING DUE TO COVID-19 - www.paypal.me/iswispodcast. TO RECEIVE FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE FROM THE ISWIS LISTENERS FUND - heyiswis@gmail.com. Come chat about this episode on our Facebook group! - www.facebook.com/groups/242333026713965/ i...

Nunu and Tshepi join us to discuss vulnerability and boundaries in casual relationships. Is your hookup style destructive? GUESTS: twitter.com/neon_nu and instagram.com/justtshepi. Like this podcast? TIP US! All money goes FINANCIAL RELIEF ISWIS LISTENERS STRUGGLING DUE TO COVID-19 - www.paypal.me/iswispodcastTO RECEIVE FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE FROM THE ISWIS LISTENERS FUND - heyiswis@gmail.comCome ch...

Are you a valuable member of society - and who determines this? are you a trash employee? do you have the range to freelance? Which yields the most benefits, authenticity or leaning into public perception? For more info on emotional intelligence in the workplace, google: "esther perel workplace" and "alain de botton workplace"Like this podcast? TIP US! All money goes FINANCIAL RELIEF ISWIS LISTENE...

In this episode we discuss legacy, education systems on Mars and tension during self-isolationDONATE COVID-19 RELIEF MONEY TO ISWIS LISTENER FUND - www.paypal.me/iswispodcastTO RECEIVE FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE FROM THE ISWIS LISTENERS FUND - heyiswis@gmail.com. MAKE MONEY ONLINE SPREADSHEET, share with all and send links - https://tinyurl.com/w2jze45Come chat about this episode on our Facebook group!...

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In this episode we discuss how Covid-19 will affect dating habits, who benefits from the resulting fear and isolation, and falling in love with friendsLike this episode? Tip us @ paypal.me/iswispodcast and come chat about this episode on our Facebook group! - www.facebook.com/groups/242333026713965/ SOCIALSinstagram.com/iswis_podcast 

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