I Now Pronounce You Divorced

Who has the kids on Thanksgiving? What happens if Christmas plans change at the last minute? And when was the last time you looked at who’s named in your will or power of attorney? We’re bringing back Holiday Custody Hacks , an episode from the I Now Pronounce You Divorced archives featuring Erik McCauley, Esq., who was recently named Partner at Melone Hatley, P.C. Erik explains how starting the h...

You keep the house. Your spouse keeps more of the retirement savings. The numbers look equal—but will they support equally stable futures? In this episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced!, attorney and CEO Charles D. Hatley, Esq. , sits down with Monica Cervantes, a financial advisor and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) at PAX Financial in San Antonio, TX, to explore why a divorce settle...

What do a custody dispute, a contested estate, and digging up a body have in common? They’re all stories our attorneys can’t forget. In this Halloween special of I Now Pronounce You Divorced , attorneys from Melone Hatley, P.C. share real legal stories with twists that sound like they belong in a scary movie. From the complications of dying without a will to custody and visitation disputes, courtr...

Should you keep working on your marriage, consider a trial separation, or move toward divorce? When you’re hurt, disconnected, or exhausted from trying, it can be difficult to know what comes next. In this episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced , Charles Hatley, Esq., welcomes Dana Che Williams , marriage and relationship coach, speaker, author, and host of the Rebuilding Us podcast , for an hone...

Divorce is more than a legal process. It can reshape your identity, your relationships, and the way you parent. The paperwork matters, but the emotional side is often the harder part. In this Lessons from the Past episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced , we revisit conversations with three mental health and coaching professionals about what it takes to move forward after a marriage ends: Karen Mc...

Why is it so difficult to leave an abusive relationship? From the outside, it can seem simple: recognize the abuse, leave, and move forward. But domestic violence is often built around power, control, fear, financial dependence, emotional manipulation, and isolation — making the decision to leave far more complicated than many people realize. In this episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced , we ar...

In this special compilation episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced , we revisit conversations with financial professionals Tasha Baron Smith, Kari Jessen, and our Managing Attorney Erik McCauley, Esq., to highlight some of the financial decisions that deserve attention before, during, and after divorce. You’ll hear practical conversations about reviewing your estate plan when a marriage ends, und...

In this Encore episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced , family law attorney Rebecca Melone, Esq., and Charles Hatley, Esq., break down one of the most important tools attorneys may use during the discovery process: the deposition. A deposition is a formal, sworn question-and-answer session conducted before trial. Attorneys use depositions to gather information, preserve testimony, evaluate witnes...

Divorce is already complicated, but when the financial picture doesn’t add up, knowing where to look can make all the difference. In this episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced , our host Charles D. Hatley, Esq., sits down with forensic accounting expert Jacque James , Founding Partner of ARA Litigation Consultants and Founder and President of ARA Fraud and Forensic Services , to explore how fina...

Divorce affects far more than your legal status. It can reshape your finances, your property, your estate plan, and even your physical and emotional health. In this compilation episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced , we revisit conversations with legal, financial, real estate, and wellness professionals to highlight some of the most important considerations that can arise during and after divorc...

When a privately held business is part of a divorce, determining its value can become one of the most complex and consequential aspects of the case. In this episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced, our host Charles D. Hatley, Esq., and Matt Springer, Director of Business Valuation and Litigation Support, take a practical look at business valuation in divorce proceedings and explain why attorneys s...

In this encore episode from Season 1 of I Now Pronounce You Divorced , Charles Hatley, Esq. and Rebecca Melone, Esq. revisit the complicated custody issues that can arise when a parent is denied access to their child. They discuss why documenting missed parenting time and communication matters, how co-parenting apps may help establish a clear record, and what parents should consider before using t...

Post-divorce custody challenges can quickly become more complicated when visitation disputes, allegations, third parties, or parental alienation enter the picture. In this encore episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced, Charles Hatley, Esq. and Rebecca Melone, Esq. discuss why demonstrating a pattern of behavior matters in court, how grandparents and other third parties can affect custody arrangem...

Back-to-school season can be stressful for any family, but shared custody adds another layer of planning, communication, and coordination. In this episode, our host and CEO Charles Hatley, Esq., sits down with Heather Ruiz , Director of Marketing at TalkingParents , to discuss practical ways co-parents can prepare for the new school year while keeping their children at the center of every decision...

Divorce and the start of a new school year can bring major changes for children, along with emotions they may not always know how to express. In this episode, child and adolescent psychiatrist Dr. Julia Jackson shares practical guidance for helping children navigate anxiety, changing family dynamics, and the transition back to school. She explains why some anxiety is a normal part of childhood, ho...

Divorce later in life can bring unexpected questions about health insurance, Medicare eligibility, and the true cost of healthcare in retirement. In this episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced , our host, Charles Hatley, Esq., is joined by our San Antonio attorney, Valerie Fisher, Esq., to speak with Licensed Insurance Agent and Medicare expert John Moore , with Moore Senior Benefits , about what...

Divorce changes more than your relationship status—it can also change how you file taxes, claim credits, divide retirement accounts, and manage income-producing assets. In this re-released episode from Season 1 of I Now Pronounce You Divorced , our host, Charles Hatley, Esq., sits down with Jenny Bittmann, Tax Principal at BDO, about the tax implications that can shape a divorce settlement and aff...

In this special compilation episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced , we're revisiting some of the most valuable conversations from past episodes, bringing together practical advice from trusted professionals who help individuals navigate divorce from every angle. You'll hear expert insights on protecting your financial future, managing the emotional toll of divorce, understanding the connection b...

In this refreshed episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced , we’re traveling back to where it all began, revisiting our inaugural episode because the guidance is just as relevant today as it was when it first aired. Melone Hatley's Founder and CEO, Rebecca Melone, Esq., and Charles Hatley, Esq., discuss the do’s and don’ts of the initial stages of divorce, including how to think about your date...

This special compilation episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced brings together impactful conversations from past guests, Chris Rice , Oliver Walmon , Aaron Cano , and Shauna Warden , to explore the financial, emotional, and practical challenges that come with divorce. From protecting your credit and understanding joint debt to navigating co-parenting, fatherhood, estate planning, and post-divorc...

Divorce impacts more than legal documents and financial decisions. It affects the whole person physically, emotionally, and mentally. In this episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced , Nicole Mueller, a registered nurse, faith-based wellness coach, and founder of Beacon of Wellness Coaching with Nicole , joins the conversation to discuss the hidden health impacts of divorce and why holistic support...

Estate planning isn't just for the wealthy, and it's never too early to start. A solid plan protects your loved ones, honors your wishes, and brings stability during life's hardest moments. In this episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced , Melone Hatley's Managing Litigation Attorney Erik McCauley, Esq. is joined by financial advisor Kate Philleo, AAMS with Waterfront Advisory Grou...

Divorce can make every decision feel heavier, especially when the family home is involved. For many people, a house is more than an asset. It may represent stability, memories, identity, or the life they thought they were building. But when emotions, finances, market timing, and future housing needs all collide, real estate decisions during divorce can quickly become overwhelming. In this episode...

Divorce can bring major financial decisions, and for many families, the marital home is one of the biggest and most emotional assets involved. In this episode of Melone Hatley P.C.'s I Now Pronounce You Divorced, our host Charles Hatley, Esq., sits down with Dante Royster, President of Epic Mortgage, Inc. , to discuss the financial realities of home ownership during and after divorce. Together, th...

What happens to real estate after a loved one passes away? The answer often depends on the estate planning documents in place, how the property is titled, and who has legal authority to make decisions. In this episode of I Now Pronounce You Divorced , Charles Hatley, Esq., is joined by Aaron Cano , with Networth Realty , and Jeff Sodoma, Esq ., with Melone Hatley, P.C., for a conversation on the i...