I Know a Guy Podcast

Why do the same arguments keep repeating? Why do we shut down, lash out, or feel disconnected — even with the people we love most? In Part Two of our shame series on I Know a Guy, we unpack how shame creates emotional cycles in our relationships and why most of us are reacting from protection, not intention. We’ll talk about how to recognize when shame is in the room, how to name it without blamin...

Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed by shame… guilt… or frustration with life and others? You’re not alone. In a world rocked by fear, anxiety, and isolation, many of us are playing the shame-blame game — pointing fingers, losing sight of the real enemy, and losing our identity in the process. But there’s hope. Today on I Know a Guy, we talk about why shame has such power — and how, through the t...

Today on I Know a Guy, we are diving into something we all struggle with: anxiety, fear, and the noise of life. For years, I prayed out of obligation — saying the right words, trying to check a box. But real peace came when I learned to pause. That’s right — simple, intentional pauses that help you surrender your thoughts, fears, and worries to Jesus. If life feels chaotic or your heart feels unse...

Conflict. Misunderstanding. Distance from the people we love most. We all know what fractured relationships feel like — and we all want the pain to stop. But what if the antidote isn’t logic, proof or being right? On this episode of I Know a Guy, we’re exploring a powerful truth: that pausing, choosing love, and valuing relationship over being right can transform the way we connect with others. It...

What happens when the life you built—your faith, your reputation, your “calling”—comes crashing down? In this special I Know a Guy redemptive stories episode, host Steve Cummings sits down with Drew Powell, a pastor’s kid who grew up in church, led worship, and worked in what he calls “the family business.” From the outside, it looked solid. God-centered. Successful. But underneath, Drew was losin...

Are you living life at 100mph—so fast you miss the people and moments that matter? Today on I Know a Guy, we’ll uncover a different rhythm: one where your heart stops chasing and starts being known. We live in a culture of speed, comparison, and constant motion—but deep connection happens at a slower pace. What would happen if you walked at God’s speed? Learn practical ways to slow down, deepen re...

Jesus boiled life down to two things: Love God. Love others as you love yourself. But what does it really mean to love yourself — and how does that empower you to love others well? Today on I Know a Guy, we dive into the heart of that command. You’ll hear how your identity as a Beloved Son of the King isn’t just theology — it’s the foundation for real, simple, everyday love. We explore grace, acce...

Today on I Know a Guy, we dive into a simple yet profound invitation: Bask. In a culture that rewards doing, we often miss the deeper rhythm God invites us into — being with Him. We will unpack how to rest in the warmth of God’s love, lean into presence over performance, and live from identity rather than ambition. Whether you’re struggling with anxiety or just tired of the grind, this episode enc...

True humility doesn’t come from insecurity—it comes from sonship. In this episode of I Know a Guy, we explore what real humility actually looks like: confidence without arrogance, surrender without shrinking, and service rooted in being deeply loved by the Father. If you’re tired of striving or hiding, this conversation will help you stand secure. About Steve Cummings: Experience: 42 years of ment...

False humility often looks spiritual—but underneath it is fear, shame, and a distorted view of the Father. In this episode of I Know a Guy, we explore how shrinking, hiding, and minimizing ourselves is not humility at all. If you’ve ever felt safer staying small or invisible, this conversation will help you see what’s really going on—and why God never asked you to disappear. About Steve Cummings:...

Today on I Know a Guy, we close our father-wound series with the best part — healing. The Father takes every wound and rewrites it with love, identity, and belonging. If you’re longing to know God as Father, this episode will breathe hope into your heart. As you heard Steve mention on today's podcast, if you'd like a free copy of, "The Heart of a Warrior: Before You Can Become the Warrior You Have...

Today on I Know a Guy, we’re talking about the performance-driven father — the dad who made love feel conditional. But the Heavenly Father delights in His sons before they ever lift a finger. If you’ve been striving for God’s approval, this episode is your permission to rest.   As you heard Steve mention on today's podcast, if you'd like a free copy of, "The Heart of a Warrior: Before You Can Beco...

Today on I Know a Guy, we’re talking about the wounds many carry in silence — emotional, physical, spiritual, and sexual abuse from earthly fathers. It’s heavy, but it leads to hope, because the Heavenly Father is nothing like the man who hurt you. If you need healing, this is a conversation worth hearing. As you heard Steve mention on today's podcast, if you'd like a free copy of, "The Heart of a...

Coming up on I Know a Guy, we’re taking a surprising look at Scripture — where even the greatest spiritual leaders struggled as fathers. But in their stories, we discover the beauty of a Father who has no blind spots, no passivity, and no distance. If you’ve ever wondered what God is really like, this one’s for you. As you heard Steve mention on today's podcast, if you'd like a free copy of, "The...

Coming up on I Know a Guy, we’re diving into a deep but hopeful conversation — how our earthly fathers often block our view of the Heavenly Father, and how Jesus came to reveal the Father we’ve always longed for. If you’ve ever struggled to feel loved or seen by God, this episode is for you. Join me and let’s step toward healing together.   Resources mentioned on today's podcast: 1.  "I Am Your Be...

Sometimes the hardest thing isn’t knowing about God — it’s seeing Him clearly. What you heard about your earthly father can blind you to the love of your Heavenly Father without you even realizing it. On the next episode of I Know a Guy, we walk through what I call, "The Father Eclipse." We’ll explore how childhood hurts, unmet approval, and silent pain can cloud our view of God… and how we can mo...

Today on I Know a Guy, we’re digging into something most of us don’t want to talk about: generational anxiety. Anxiety that isn’t just yours — but passed down. We’ll unpack how fear, worry, and unhealed pain can ripple across generations… and how healing starts when we stop hiding, start processing, and care for our hearts — spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically. Whether you carry hea...

Do you ever feel like life is defined by your job, your roles, your performance — but inside, something feels empty? What if you’re not who you think you are? Today we’re releasing a brand-new episode of I Know a Guy called “Are You Like Jason Bourne?” Inspired by the classic film, we explore the idea of spiritual amnesia — where we live disconnected from our true identity in Christ, believing lie...

Have you ever heard yourself say, “Yeah, but …” when someone offered you honest feedback? Maybe you shrugged it off, defended yourself, or dismissed the truth before fully hearing it. On the next episode of I Know a Guy, we unpack a timely message from the Bringing Kingdom blog: the difference between false humility and true humility. You’ll hear why our “false selves” are built to protect but oft...

Are you doing all the “right” spiritual things — reading Scripture, praying, attending church — yet somehow feeling stuck? On the upcoming episode of I Know a Guy, we dive into what it really means when your spiritual journey stalls. It’s not always a lack of discipline. Often, it’s emotional health — the hidden pain, shame, or numbness that keeps us from experiencing true growth. Join me, Steve C...

This January, 2026 — start your year with something deeper than resolutions. On the next episode of I Know a Guy, we dive into real growth — not through perfection, but through heart. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or weighed down by the pressure to perform, this conversation is for you. Let’s discover how the needle moves, quietly, slowly — and how hope, grace, and honest reflection can...

As 2026 arrives today we wrap up our identity and generosity series with the question at the heart of the Parable of the Talents: ‘What did you do with what I entrusted to you?’ But we approach it not with fear, but with the joy of sons who know their Father. Listen to today’s powerful episode of I Know a Guy with Steve Cummings. About Steve Cummings: Experience: 42 years of mentoring and pastoral...

Today’s episode of I Know a Guy shows how kingdom multiplication starts with simple movement—trusting that the Father breathes on whatever we release. Discover why sons don’t compare or compete… they partner. Day three of our identity and generosity series is live now.   About Steve Cummings: Experience: 42 years of mentoring and pastoral counseling with men’s groups in Southern California and now...

In today’s episode of I Know a Guy, we expose the lie that fear is just ‘being responsible.’ You’ll learn how fear buries your gifts, and how beloved sons live free, trusting the Father of abundance. Join us as we continue our year-end identity and generosity series.   About Steve Cummings: Experience: 42 years of mentoring and pastoral counseling with men’s groups in Southern California and now G...

As we close out 2025, we’re spending four days exploring why generosity flows from your identity as a beloved son. Today on I Know a Guy, we look at the Parable of the Talents—not through fear, but through the eyes of a Father who entrusts us with abundance. Join me, Steve Cummings, as we unbury what God has placed in you. About Steve Cummings: Experience: 42 years of mentoring and pastoral counse...