Kristen Carder
I Have ADHD Podcast
The I Have ADHD Podcast is a clear, concise, and FUN podcast for adults with ADHD. Listen to learn about how ADHD impacts every area of your life from the boardroom to the bedroom...and how you can begin to overcome your symptoms by accepting who you are, flaws and all. Host Kristen Carder is a dually certified coach who has supported thousands of people with ADHD worldwide. Kristen's extensive experience working with ADHDers began in 2012, and she now leads a global community of adults with ADHD in her coaching program, FOCUSED. ****OBVIOUSLY, the content in this podcast is not meant to be...
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Episodes
394 I Tried Using ChatGPT for My ADHD… Here’s What Happened 14.04.2026 43:20
Let’s talk about AI—because I know some of you are curious, some of you are already using it constantly, and some of you are like, “absolutely not.” All fair. In this episode, I’m sharing how tools like ChatGPT can actually support an ADHD brain in real life. Not as a replacement for your thinking, your relationships, or your treatment—but as something that can hold your thoughts, help you get uns...
393 BITESIZE | PDA in Adults: Why You Resist Even Your Own Plans 09.04.2026 15:00
Love this clip? Check out the full episode: Episode #354: Why Even Your Own To-Dos Feel Like An Attack: The Explosive Reality Of Adult PDA Listen to the full conversation in the original episode HERE . See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
392 The Weekend Trap: Why Free Time Sends ADHD Brains into a Spiral 07.04.2026 40:11
“Why do I look forward to the weekend all week… and then completely fall apart when it gets here?” If your weekends start with hope and end with overwhelm, guilt, or total shutdown—welcome to the club! In this episode, I’m breaking down why unstructured time is uniquely challenging for ADHD brains … and how to create weekends that actually feel good (without turning them into a rigid, miserable sc...
Why ADHD Adults Feel “In Trouble” in Relationships (And How to Feel Secure) 03.04.2026 1:25:15
Kristen hosted a live master class on Wednesday 4/1 and we thought you’d enjoy the replay! If you prefer to watch on youtube, you can do that here . Find the worksheet Kristen provided here . Join FOCUSED and save $100 on the relationships course in April here . See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
391 BITESIZE | Is My Child Trying To Manipulate Me or Do They Have PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance)? 02.04.2026 13:15
Love this clip? Check out the full episode: Episode #352: The Kids Who Can’t Be Told What To Do: PDA & Low-Demand Parenting (With Casey Ehrlich) Listen to the full conversation in the original episode HERE . See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
390 Two Steps Forward, Three Steps Back (Why You Keep Self-Sabotaging and How to Finally Stop) 31.03.2026 1:10:33
If you’ve ever set a goal, made a plan, felt excited… and then somehow done the exact opposite—welcome to the ADHD self-sabotage club. In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful class from inside my ADHD coaching membership, FOCUSED, all about self-sabotage —why it happens, what it actually means, and how to finally understand what’s going on in your brain. But before we get into it, a little context...
389 BITESIZE | Self-Trust in the Workplace: Finding the Right Environment for Your ADHD Brain 26.03.2026 13:50
Love this clip? Check out the full episode: Episode #350: From Cemetery Shifts To A Career That Fits: Matt’s ADHD Comeback Story Listen to the full conversation in the original episode HERE . See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
388 Money. Let’s Finally Deal With It. 24.03.2026 45:08
Let’s be honest: money tasks are peak ADHD avoidance material. So instead of overthinking it…let’s just do it together. This episode is your guided money session—part strategy, part nervous system support, all designed to help you finally engage with your finances. We’ll work through the resistance, regulate your nervous system, and make money feel just a little bit more doable. Watch this episode...
387 BITESIZE | 2 Types of ADHD Boredom (And Why One Feels Like Panic) 19.03.2026 11:38
Love this clip? Check out the full episode: Episode #348: Too Bored To Function: Why ADHD Brains Would Rather Do Anything Than Be Bored Listen to the full conversation in the original episode HERE . See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
386 A Very ADHD Episode: Deep Feelings and Random Reels 17.03.2026 45:33
This episode is… very ADHD. We start with a quick revisit of ARFID after hearing from a listener who shared a powerful personal experience. Then we dive into your voicemails—covering everything from the heavy question of how to repair damage we worry we’ve done to our kids, to a very relatable struggle: emotional “doom piles.” And because no ADHD episode would be complete without a little delightf...
385 BITESIZE | ADHD & Self-Trust: Stop Using Growth Tools Against Yourself 12.03.2026 13:07
Love this clip? Check out the full episode: Episode #344: Living in a Dumpster Fire: Systems That Actually Work for ADHD Families Listen to the full conversation in the original episode HERE . See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
384 Do It the Easy Way (The Hard Way Is Keeping You Stuck) 10.03.2026 47:40
What if the easiest version of the task is actually the smartest one? In this episode, we’re talking about the path of least resistance — and why for ADHD brains, it’s not laziness. It’s strategy. The path of least resistance is the version of a task that: Requires the least activation energy Uses the least executive function Hurts the least Gets you moving the fastest Not the A+ version. Not the...
383 BITESIZE | “You Don’t Look Autistic” — Why That’s Harmful (And What to Say Instead) 05.03.2026 13:38
Love this clip? Check out the full episode: Episode #342: Love on the Spectrum’s Kaelynn Partlow on Autism, ADHD, and Why She Refuses to Use the Term “AuDHD” Listen to the full conversation in the original episode HERE . See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
382 You Are Not a F*ck Up with Cate Osborn and Erik Gude 03.03.2026 48:13
Today’s episode is pure joy. I’m hanging out with old friends of the podcast Cate Osborn and Erik Gude , two of the most creative, thoughtful, and FUN voices in the ADHD world. And this conversation goes everywhere in the best possible way. Cate is a certified sex educator (yes, we go there) whose work has appeared in The New York Times and Cosmopolitan , and you probably know her from Sorry I Mis...
381 BITESIZE | Grieving the Life You Could Have Had (Late-Diagnosed ADHD) 26.02.2026 9:09
Love this clip? Check out the full episode: Episode #346: Voicemails from the ADHD Trenches: Marriage, Faith, Regret, and Rage (Yep, We’re Going There) Listen to the full conversation in the original episode HERE . See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
380 What If It’s Not Just Picky Eating? ARFID in ADHD & Autism Explained 24.02.2026 49:53
In this episode, we’re diving into something I really wish I had known about sooner: ARFID — Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder . ARFID is a serious eating disorder that has nothing to do with body image or weight loss . Instead, it’s driven by things that are incredibly common for ADHD and autistic folks — sensory sensitivities, low appetite, lack of interest, anxiety, and fear of negative...
379 BITESIZE | ADHD & Self-Trust: Stop Using Growth Tools Against Yourself 19.02.2026 12:04
Love this clip? Check out the full episode: Episode #338: From “Leaf in the Wind” to Coach: Sarah’s ADHD Glow-Up Listen to the full conversation in the original episode HERE . See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
378 Sensational Headlines vs. Science: ADHD Under Attack (Again) 17.02.2026 52:53
BUCKLE UP! The next hour is going to be a little wild—in the best way. In today’s episode, I’m answering a couple of your voicemails, diving into emerging research on the link between ADHD and early perimenopause, and responding to a very fear-heavy Wall Street Journal reel about ADHD medication. We’re talking about: • The idea of a “drug cascade” and why extreme cases don’t equal common outcomes...
377 BITESIZE | Everyone Has ADHD? How to Respond to Dismissive, Ignorant Comments 12.02.2026 10:44
Love this clip? Check out the full episode: Episode #333: Want to Stay Behind Forever? Keep Ignoring Your Capacity Listen to the full conversation in the original episode HERE . See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
376 When ADHD Looks Like Freeze: You’re Not Lazy, You’re Overwhelmed 10.02.2026 1:02:01
In today’s episode, we’re talking about ADHD that looks like overwhelmed and under-functioning: when your brain gets so flooded that it can’t prioritize, and instead of choosing a next step… it shuts down. You’ll learn what overwhelm really is in the context of ADHD (total cognitive, emotional, and/or sensory flooding), why “freeze” can be a very real nervous system response, and how this pattern...
375 BITESIZE | Why Time Management Is So Hard With ADHD (It’s Not What You Think) 05.02.2026 12:16
Love this clip? Check out the full episode: Episode #332: Stop Adding to the Planner Graveyard: One Tool to Improve ADHD Time Blindness NOW Listen to the full conversation in the original episode HERE . See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
374 10 Signs of a Healthy, Functional Family (and How We Get There with ADHD) 03.02.2026 59:45
This is part two of our series on dysfunctional families and ADHD. If last week’s episode felt heavy, emotional, or disorienting, that makes sense. Episode one was about naming reality—and naming reality can stir grief, anger, relief, or all three. But we can’t change what we’re not willing to name. Today, we answer the next (and crucial) question: If that’s dysfunction… what does health actually...
373 BITESIZE | ADHD Medication Myths That Need to Die (Zombies, Addiction, & Personality Loss) 29.01.2026 12:33
Love this clip? Check out the full episode: Episode #331: ADHD Medications: What’s Fact, What’s Fiction, and Why They’re Not “Basically Meth” Listen to the full conversation in the original episode HERE . See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
372 10 Signs You’re In A Dysfunctional Family 27.01.2026 1:02:50
Today’s episode is part one of a two-part series on dysfunctional families and ADHD. I’m sharing this from a very real place. The last few weeks have been heavy with extended family drama, and when things feel overwhelming, I name it and bring it into the light. As someone writing a book on healthy relationships for adults with ADHD, I want you to know I come by this work honestly. When I look at...
371 BITESIZE | Quick Organization Tips From Real ADHDers 22.01.2026 12:04
Love this clip? Check out the full episode: Episode #330: ADHD-Proof Your Life: Real Tips from Real ADHD Brains Listen to the full conversation in the original episode HERE . See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
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