I Hate Dating Apps

We have shocking news... After three years of complaining about dating apps, Jinah has officially eaten her words. Against all odds, she met a genuinely amazing guy online. No ghosting. No games. No giant red flags. Just a kind, emotionally available man who kept showing up—and somehow turned into a committed relationship. So...what happened?! In this episode, Daniel and Jinah catch you up on ever...

Everyone thinks they're a great communicator… until they open a dating app. 😅 If you've ever struggled to get a conversation off the ground with a total stranger—or found yourself stuck at a painful "hello"—this episode is for you. Daniel and Jinah sit down with Rebecca Williams, a professional communications coach who advises top CEOs and recently found herself back on the dating apps. ( https:/...

Michel is a successful single dad and self-described traditionalist who believes in asking a woman out, planning the date, and paying for it. But when it comes to dating apps, he says finding a woman who appreciates his values feels nearly impossible. In this episode, we dive into modern dating culture, dating app expectations, and whether traditional romance still has a place in today's swipe-dri...

Like many of us, Michelle wasn't having much luck finding love on dating apps. So one day, she decided to stop searching for Mr. Right and start looking for Mr. Right Now . After changing her profile to a direct ask for sex… things got weird. In this episode, Jinah and Daniel dive into the wild world of online hookups, unsolicited pics, and honest sexual exploration. Joining guest Michelle is Hily...

Jinah's neighbor Rick has had more than his fair share of dating disasters. From a woman who kicked off their evening by shaving the calluses off her feet, to another who couldn't stop dropping F-bombs at a nice restaurant, Rick just can't seem to catch a break. His stories are a snapshot of the cringe, chaos, and comedy we've all come to know from modern dating apps. But no matter how many fails...

Rejection is part of dating—but on apps, it can feel relentless. A thousand swipes for a single match, only to get ghosted. What used to be competition with a handful of people at a bar is now competition with  everyone in your city (or even your state). In this episode, Daniel and Jinah sit down with mental health therapist @iamthatboyphil and writer @ivyeats to unpack the emotional burnout, self...

Everyone swears they've got it the worst on dating apps — men, women, you name it. But who actually takes the crown for the most tragic (and hilarious) experiences? In this episode, Daniel and Jinah sit down with Ryan Lugo and Akosua Mireku (@poem.a.day.project) to swap war stories from the wild world of online dating. Cringe, laugh, and maybe even cry a little as we ask the ultimate question: is...

We've all made cringeworthy mistakes in the quest for love (some of us more than others— ahem , Jinah). But according to our guest, there are FIVE big dating missteps that people repeat again and again… and they might just be what's keeping you single. This week, we're joined by dating coach, relationship strategist, and host of the YouTube show Dating Makeover , Lana Ricco (@lana.ricco). She's cu...

Falling for a scammer posing as a romantic interest? It happens more often than you'd think—and not just to the naïve. Even the most seasoned dating app users can get caught in a web of sweet talk and stolen valor. In this episode, we chat with private investigator Shelley Cain, whose job is all about catching cheaters and unmasking frauds. She shares how scammers often hide behind fake badges, ra...

Think dropping thousands of dollars on a matchmaker guarantees love? Think again. In this juicy episode, a former elite matchmaker to the ultra-wealthy pulls back the velvet curtain on the wild world of high-stakes dating. From ghosted millionaires to clients who refuse second dates with perfect matches, she shares the real drama behind the glam. With over 5,000 love-seeking souls coached, she's s...

In this episode, we dive into the most common mistakes (and Jinah's pet peeves) that people make when creating their dating app profiles. (Sunglasses in every photo... like WHY??!) Whether you're new to online dating or a seasoned swiper, your profile plays a major role in making a lasting impression. With our guests John DeMato and Nancy Vu - @theboo522 and @dematophoto - we break down the top re...

Let's be honest—Valentine's Day is a commercial holiday designed to sell flowers and overpriced dinners. But even if we know that, it still stirs up emotions, especially for those who are single. For this special Valentine's Week episode, hosts Daniel and Jinah sit down with two top relationship coaches to explore the question: How do you get someone to fall in love with you? If you've met someone...

We know dating apps are a shit show for most people, but it's especially true for men who are on them, and statistics validate this.  But when does it get SO BAD that you just need to take a break from them??  In this episode, we talk to two young, smart, good looking men about why they decided to take a break from dating apps.  Guests Bryan ( @commonsense150) and Austin (@theaustinkellyshow) echo...

We've all had it happen to us: you strike up a great conversation with someone on a dating app, and it looks like it SHOULD be heading to a real-life date.  Except it doesn't.   Why, oh why do people - who are presumably on the dating app to DATE - want to text endlessly instead?  Or worse - ghost you when you suggest actually meeting IRL?   Jinah and Daniel are joined by two guests: Kari Mendoza...

Statistics upon statistics show that it's pretty rough for the great majority of men on dating apps.  Just 10% (or less) of men get ALL the women liking them, leaving some 90% of men with little to no swipes, matches, conversations, dates - and thus - romantic relationships.  Men are lonelier than ever.  Why is this happening??  What's the solution?  And what's it REALLY like out there if you're a...

Do you long for the good ole days before we had dating apps, when finding your match was an IRL event?  In this episode, Daniel and Jinah chat with matchmaker and author Cassindy Chao (@matchmakercassindy). Her book, Ancient Wisdom, Modern Love , uses traditional Chinese proverbs as a source of modern dating advice. You'll want to check out Cassindy's advice for standing out on the apps, including...

Are more and more older women dating younger men? While we're used to seeing famous women as "cougars," these May-December romances may be going mainstream. At first, Jinah thought her matches with younger men were exceptions, but then they kept on coming. So I Hate Dating Apps enlisted relationship coach  Deb Dutcher to explain why this is happening, and what it means for the modern dating scene....

YESSSS! Jinah and Daniel are officially in year TWO of their podcast!  And in this debut episode of season 2, you get to know us a little bit better.  The dynamic duo muses about topics like whether dating for marriage even makes sense anymore, how growing up Jehovah's Witness shaped Jinah into who she became (and maybe explains why her dating life is a hot mess), and how Daniel used to make money...

Dating apps suck for everyone, but it sucks even worse if you're introverted and socially anxious.  So what is one to do when the idea of getting dressed up, going out and talking to someone for hours at a bar or restaurant sounds worse than a root canal??  Jinah and Daniel talk to writer and relationship coach Cain Parish (cainparish.com, @cainparish), who is on a mission to make dating better fo...

What is it like to be in the dating app world over the age of 50?  Well... it's a bit of a shit show according to author, equestrian, and radio DJ Catherine Berra (CatherineBerra.com).  Catherine ventured out into the world of online dating at 48, spent 10 years trying to figure it all out and the resulting hilarious dating stories are now in her book "These stories are true... I s#!+ you not!" Sh...

So you're about to delete your dating apps.  Again.  But then you realize - how am I gonna meet people then??  Before you panic and re-install your dating app, listen to our two professional matchmaker guests talk about what it's like to have someone literally working for you so you can go on curated dates.  Hint: it ain't cheap!!  Matchmaking is as old as civilization. From the days of highly pri...

Not so long ago, it was pretty darn clear who was supposed to ask who out on the first date.  Not anymore.  In this Wild Wild West of app dating, the rules have gone out the window, resulting in confusion for some, resentment in others, and lack of courage and effort all the way around.  We ask our guests Luis (@uonmobileapp) and Samantha (@skmcintosh) who should make the first move?

To delete or not to delete…that was the question facing our guests @laylamyarr and @susan.pappas. Tired of bad dates, endless messaging, and misleading profiles, they were resigning themselves to permanent single status when lightning struck! Check out our newest episode and hear what happened right when they were about to give up!

Ladies —if you're wondering what "the good catches" are looking for on dating apps, this episode is for you!  We look at straight men's biggest pet peeves with women on the apps.  Why won't women give men a chance?? Featuring bachelor guests Joshua, @jj_no_chaser and Dhruv,   @midlifemasculine