I Gotta Confess

What if the friendships around you are shaping your faith more than you realize? In this episode of I Gotta Confess Ruby's husband Lemuel is back! , we dive into the power of brotherhood, sisterhood, and why God designed us to grow in healthy relationships...not in isolation. (Although some alone time is always nice) We talk about accountability, comparison, community, and how the right people can...

What if the strongest marriages aren't built on perfection, but on communication? In this episode of I Gotta Confess, we're joined by Ruby's husband Lemuel as we talk about the habits that have transformed our marriages and helped us grow through the hard seasons. It's time to start choosing connection over silence. If you've ever struggled to feel understood, found yourself repeating unhealthy pa...

In this episode of I Gotta Confess, we get real about marriage, pride, healing, and the power of bringing hidden things into the light. We talk about making hard adjustments, learning to honor our spouses, breaking unhealthy patterns, and why true healing often begins with honest confession. If you've ever struggled with communication or letting go of old habits, this episode will encourage you to...

What if your biggest struggle isn't change... it's trust? In this episode of I Gotta Confess, we talk about overthinking, wanting all the answers, and the challenge of trusting God when you can't see the full picture. We unpack the difference between stewardship and trust, why we carry things God never asked us to carry, and how peace comes when we finally let go of the "what ifs." If you've ever...

This episode is a real conversation about relationships, conflict, and what it actually looks like to live in harmony with the people around you. Not fake peace. Not pretending everything’s fine. But real, intentional harmony. We get honest about the tension of being right vs. being loving, how easy it is to withdraw or react when things feel off, and what it looks like to choose unity even when i...

Here is something we all deal with waiting. Waiting for answers, waiting for coffee, waiting for life to look like what you thought it would by now, waiting for your back to stop hurting (for real when does that happen??). In this episode we talk about what it looks like to hold onto what God said when your reality doesn’t line up yet. And as much as we try to “help” the process along we need to t...

In this episode, we get real about something we all say: “Life is busy.” ...admit it you have said it too! But is busyness actually the goal of what God put us on this earth to do? We dive into the difference between being productive and just being full, and how it’s easy to pack our schedules with good things while missing what matters most: our relationships, our time with God, and our own healt...

This episode is a real and relatable conversation about over‑talking, over‑explaining, and learning how to slow down—both in our words and in our lives (Have I talked to much already in this description?) What do you do when you say something unnecessary, replay it all night, and wish you could take it back. Let's get real about “budgeting your words,” and leaning on the Holy Spirit to guide what’...

You know that big thing that keeps bothering you? What if it started as really small...and it was never meant to become such a big deal? In this episode of I Gotta Confess, we get real about overthinking and how quickly frustration can escalate when we don’t pause before responding. Go ahead a take a pause before you start overthinking that :) If you struggle with spiraling thoughts, speaking from...

This episode is a honest conversation about overthinking, assumptions, and what happens when we live too much in our own heads (We have all done it). We talk about how unchecked thoughts can quietly damage relationships and steal real connection. This episode will help you see what it looks like to take thoughts captive and choose clarity over mental chaos. If you’ve ever replayed a moment in your...

What happens when life just keeps piling on… and you finally hit your limit? In this episode of I Gotta Confess, we get honest about feeling overwhelmed, the “pile up” moments we all face, and what to do when it feels like too much. We talk about how easy it is to sink under pressure—whether it’s responsibilities, emotions, or unexpected hits—and how our first instinct isn’t always the right respo...

This week’s episode is an honest conversation about when God shows up when you need Him most. In the middle of a heavy season we talk about the small, deeply personal ways God reminds us that we are seen, known, and loved. It can be so easy to miss His goodness when life is loud and fast. But this episode will challenge you to sit, be still, and think about Gods goodness. #GodisGood #ChristianPodc...

In this special I gotta Confess and Faith Conversations crossover episode Eddie joins Aubrey and Ruby for laughs, honesty, and a real conversation about comparison, calling, and staying faithful to what God has actually put right in front of you. The it is so easy it is to measure ourselves against everyone else this conversation helps you let go of that pressure. Let's help you find your assignme...

This episode is a real one with an emotional confession about forgiveness. We talk about letting go of childhood wounds and how choosing forgiveness now without waiting for an apology makes us free. Click play and let's unpack what it actually looks like to release bitterness, stop keeping a record of wrongs, and walk in love even when it’s uncomfortable. Get ready because we are getting ready to...

What if the people around you are shaping more than you realize? In this episode of I Gotta Confess, we get real about pain, anxiety, and the power of having the right people in your corner when anxiety hits hard. Ruby's unexpected ER visit opens an important conversation about what it looks like to have people who don’t just show up in crisis, but help anchor you back to Jesus. If you’ve ever fel...

Have your thoughts ever spiraled? One nagging thought that goes deeper and deeper before it feels out of control? Well what you think matters more than you know, and that is exactly what we are talking about today. Negative thoughts can make deep roots if you don't deal with them right away. This episode will encourage you to take every thought captive, but don't stop there...replace those thought...

This week we’re confessing something a lot of us don’t like to admit...sometimes we talk way too much. We are going to get real about marriage and those moments where our “explaining” and “processing” turns into pouring gas on the fire. Sometimes learning when to stay quiet can actually bring more more influence than all the extra words we pile on. Come hang out, laugh with us, grow with us, and i...

This episode is all about the power of our words and the “aroma” we bring into our friendships. One honest conversation and a heartfelt text can completely shift our perspective, so important to have friends who don’t just hype you up, but gently point you back to Jesus. Friends who drag you deeper into your frustration and validate your anger probably don't leave you feeling the best. Remember ou...

What does Honor really look like? Between friends? In a Marriage? In this episode we talk about honoring the voices God placed around you, and learning the difference between trying to “win” in relationships and actually building something healthy. If you’ve been feeling the stress of life lately or just not like yourself, you’re not alone. God’s love doesn’t stop when you’re having a rough day, a...

We are 2 months into 2026 already....let's get honest about goals, consistency, and the pressure we feel to “get it all right” at the start of the year. (I guess we can restart in the middle of the year right?) So what do you do when expectations become overwhelming? Well first listen to this podcast, then give yourself grace and set realistic goals. If you’ve ever felt behind, discouraged, or lik...

What if the feedback you run away from is actually the key to your growth? In this episode of I Gotta Confess, we talk honestly about accountability, pride, mentorship, and why real relationships require honesty. We try to help make asking for feedback not be so scary, maybe.... God designed us to grow through mentorship, friendship, and spiritual covering. This episode reminds us that healing and...

What if the reason you still feel stuck isn’t a lack of faith, but a lack of real connection? In this episode of I Gotta Confess, we talk about the kind of friendships that actually lead to freedom. Accountability can feel uncomfortable but it is healing. If you’ve been hurt by people, guarded your heart, or wondered if real friendship is even possible anymore… this conversation is for you. So we...

If you struggle with loneliness, friendship wounds, and knowing who to trust with your heart, you are not alone! In this episode of I Gotta Confess, we talk honestly about friendship, healing, boundaries, and what it means to let the right people into your life. We talk about choosing freedom over offense, why “free people free people,” and how God brings healing through healthy relationships. If...

We can often struggle with marriage expectations, emotional dependency, and the pressure of looking to people for happiness. In this episode of I Gotta Confess, we talk honestly about marriage, joy, misplaced dependency, and what happens when your spouse—or your friends—become your source. This conversation opens up a vulnerable confession about relying on a husband for happiness, the pressure tha...

Christian women often look to a new year with hope, faith, and questions about what’s ahead. In this episode of I Gotta Confess, we talk about grief, gratitude, restoration, and why hope can still be strong even after deep loss. This conversation begins with an unexpected phone call and unfolds into a powerful reflection on heaven, conviction, and what it means to believe for a good year—even when...