I Don’t Give Advice ( But If I Did… )

I am sure they mean well when they attempt to put themselves in our shoes and share their lens, but the reality is they are not you, and no amount of "if" will change that. Here is my lens on why that kind of advice tends to be projections from people's inner world, and some things to think about before accepting any advice as truth or prescription for you.

What's not that big of a deal? NONE of it... not the identities we claim, emotions we experience, the challenges, the mistakes, the missteps... or the stories we tell ourselves about how things should be. So many of us spend so much energy trying to defend the ego - these mental constructs. But we are all so much more than the moment we are expressing in. This episode was inspired by a convers...

There may be someone, maybe you - who has an issue with what was said, or how it was said... and I am here to say: SO BE IT. This episode exist as a reminder that, Yes, things could have been different, but it was not... So, now what?! This idea that "you should have," "could have," won't change what was. We can always see how else something could have been handled, after t...

Emotions have purpose... they provide us with information! This episode is PRO EMOTIONS. Pro being Human. Pro embracing your human experience and that includes EMOTIONS.

One thing I learned from men is the importance of putting yourself first. Most men I've been in proximity with have shown me that selfishness is how they maintain a life that they WANT. They won't prioritize the child, wife, job, or other people feelings. If it does not benefits them in the way they desire, it is NOT A PRIORITY. Pay attention. If you don't already... learn from men, an...

So often we are focused on some possible future, but no amount of worrying is going to stop what will happen. This episode is for those in a state of worry. A reminder to come and be in the present moment. To not emotionally spend to a future that may or may not happen. The reality is, whatever you are concerned about is not happening now; so be where you have the ability to create change... IN TH...

Cheers to the beginning! This podcast is grounded in what I notice...