I Don't Care

Send a text  Burnout is bullshit. Now let me say, I know that I'm about to catch so much shit from people on this episode, if you just look at the title. I know. But I also know that I'm coming from a place of the reality of "been there, done that". I get it, and I don't want people to think that I am dismissing your exhaustion. I'm definitely not. This is not me mini...

Send a text I wanna talk about something today that could actually genuinely change the way that you lead in your business. It's not because it's a trendy business concept, but more because it actually forces you to confront one of the biggest reasons that you're probably overwhelmed. It's because you expect a hundred percent in areas in your business from your team where 80% w...

Send a text Today we are gonna talk about where I've been. Not necessarily because I owe you an explanation, but because there's definitely a leadership lesson in this that I think every business owner needs to hear,  that we don't always talk about.  I didn't necessarily fall off. I didn't burnout. I think burnout is bullshit. We'll talk about that in a later episode...

Send a text I wanna talk about something that took me a little bit of time to understand, and it's that when you have standards, that doesn't make you difficult. And it doesn't make you cold. It doesn't make you unapproachable, and it definitely doesn't make you mean. It doesn't matter what people tell you or what people say. None of those things are true because you...

Send a text  Man, I feel like maybe I am going through an identity crisis. I've been spending a lot of time talking about identity of you and your business, and you and your brand, and lately I've been thinking a lot about like - the old me, the version of me. Before the titles, before like all the systems. Just - the me before, like every decision felt like it carried someone else'...

Send a text Well. 👀 It has been a hell of a month, and that explains the little break in releasing episodes. This episode is gonna be pretty real and pretty raw. I have had a hell of a month, and it's not been the kind that's filled with the chaos of fire drills, compliance and audits, and back-to-back coaching calls. It's been more like the kind that makes you like stop, take a de...

Send a text  So, last night I was scrolling on Facebook like I do, and in about I don't know, five minutes, I counted like eleven (11) different business coaches all screaming the same bullshit; "grind harder, work while you sleep, push until you make it!!!" I sat there and I thought to myself... "how are people still buying this bullshit?". Because, I don't get it: I...

Send a text  No. That's it. That's the sentence. And if that word alone makes you uncomfortable, buckle up. Because this episode is about to slap you in the face, and I'm okay with that because here's the truth: Every single time you say yes, when you mean to say no, you're lying. You're lying to yourself. You're lying to the other person, and you're definit...

Send a text  I am going to get kind of real with you today on a hot topic that I just think is bullshit. Imposter syndrome. It is an absolute buzzword on the internet right now and has been for a while, and frankly, I just think that it is bullshit, and it's a way for us to continue to lower our expectations and have an excuse to not get out of our own way. You may not agree with everything t...

Send a text I'm aware, this could get hit with backlash and I don't care. There are two words in my agency that you will never hear my team use. Maybe three. Now that I've said that, because "never" is also another word, but the two words that my team does not use is "family" and "love". I know that already, some of you are maybe a little bit uncomforta...

Send a text I TOO HAVE BEEN GUILTY OF SAYING THE SAME THING THAT I'M ABOUT TO RIP APART. "No one will care about my business as much as I do", or it's ugly cousin "No one will ever work as hard as I do". You've said it. I've said it. Every business owner I know has said it. And if you're saying it right now, you probably think it makes you sound committ...

Send a text To start, I explain what "I Don't Care" is all about. Now if you're wondering who I am and why I get to say all these things, here's the short version. I built my business in the middle of chaos. I was working full-time doing investigations during the day of abuse and neglect of individuals with mental illness and developmental disabilities. I was also starting...