I Declare Love

The I Declare Love Podcast is back! Alex (the Love Engineer) discusses what is ahead for the fall of 2024 season and highlights some of the most impactful episodes of 2023.

A very different yet important episode of our podcast.  As we wrap up this season, the Love Engineer has a message.  Enjoy and stay connected.

In the 4th part of this series on declaring love, Coach Tre and Dr. Joi engage in a role-playing scenario around the issue of vulnerability. While Dr. Joi makes her interest clear, it doesn't resonate with Coach Tre the way she hoped. Listen to hear why. 

In part 3 of this series, Alex Merritt, Coach Tre, and Dr. Joi discuss the value of emotional intelligence when navigating intimacy. 

In this episode, Alex Merritt, Dr. Joi, and Coach Tre continue their discussion on how to declare love with a look at how pop culture and the superficiality it creates influence our ability to declare love in 2024. 

In this episode, Alex, Coach Tre, and Dr. Joi discuss how men and women process information differently when evaluating potential partners, the impact of media on body image, and how to prioritize loving yourself in any relationship. 

In this special episode of I Declare Love, Alex Merritt brings on fellow engineer Bill Brown to discuss his experinces through marriage, divorce, and covenants. In part two, they discuss the need for communication and intentionality in relationships and the perceptions of gender roles. 

In this special episode of I Declare Love, Alex Merritt brings on fellow engineer Bill Brown to discuss his experinces through marriage, divorce, and covenants. In part one, they discuss the difference between contract marriage and covenants. Bill also discusses how a friendship became a romantic relationship based on an existing foundation of trust and support.  

In this episode, Dr. Joi discusses the importance of intimacy, commitment, and self-love. In the theme of this series, she also talks about contracts for non-traditional relationships and the need for self-reflection when considering any commitment. 

Host Alex Merritt starts this series discussion about marriage and covenants with a few personal stories of her own and how imagination can play a powerful role in shaping our ideas about relationships. 

In each segment of this "Lies of Love" series, Alex the Love Engineer, Dr. Joi, and Coach Tre explore the myths and messages that may create challenges in relationships as well as how to overcome them. In this edition of The Loveseat, they role play some of the challenges of turning a situationship into a relationship.

In each segment of this "Lies of Love" series, Alex the Love Engineer, Dr. Joi, and Coach Tre explore the myths and messages that may create challenges in relationships as well as how to overcome them. 

In each segment of this "Lies of Love" series, Alex the Love Engineer, Dr. Joi, and Coach Tre explore the myths and messages that may create challenges in relationships as well as how to overcome them.

In each segment of this series, Alex the Love Engineer, Dr. Joi, and Coach Tre explore the myths and messages that may create challenges in relationships as well as methods to overcome them.

In this episode, Alex, Dr. Joi, and Coach Tre explore how to not mess up Valentine's Day no matter what.

In this episode learn how or why a man may not feel ready to be emotionally available in certain situations.

This episode focuses on the many joys and pains of pleasures when it is out of balance for the mind, body, and soul.

In this episode, you'll learn why (like the tip of Cupid's arrow) love sometimes hurts.

How to introduce your partner to new experiences in love.

In this episode, Coach Tre challenges us to show up to our relationships in a NEW way to get a different outcome.

In this episode, Dr. Joi shares the secrets of having all of your new experiences be pleasurable in 2024. Choose new experiences that will make your brain process lust, attraction, and attachment in a way that is pleasurable...using science.

2024 can be your most love-filled year!  In this segment, The Love Engineer shares how she tapped into New Love after ending what seemed like a perfect relationship.

Uncover how a thoughtful question allows you to give gifts that your man really wants.

Tthis episode explores and analyzes the differences in giving, gifting, and receiving pleasure.

In this episode, uncover why being considered a prize may not leave you feeling loved while the many gifts of love are revealed.