I Am The Wife: From D-day to OK

Series 4, Episode 11: Patricia and I finally speak after months of trying to find time together. We talk about where we are with our lives and healing, how my friend's affair and divorce is playing out and how the affects of betrayal never truly go away.

Series 4, Episode 10: P and I finally catch up after not being able to organise tie to speak. I find out how P has been feeling since she met up with her ex-husband's affair partner and I tell P how my body doesn't seem to forget dates.

Series 4, Episode 9: This is such an epic occurrence in P's journey! She fills me in on the 4 hours (yes, 4 hours!) she spent with her ex-husband's affair partner, what they talked about, how it made her feel, how it made the AP feel and what they are doing from here. Mind blowing!

Series 4, Episode 8: OMG!! This is an emergency episode as P prepares to go and meet her ex-husband's affair partner. Yes, you read that correctly! P has arranged a face to face meeting with the woman who had an affair with her husband. Listen to find out how this came about and how she's feeling. Then watch out for part 2, when we find out what happened!

Series 4, Episode 7: P and I discuss the viral sensation of the couple busted on the kiss cam at the Coldplay concert this week. What's your view? DI you agree/disagree with us?

Series 4, Episode 6: Due to work and family commitments and big time differences, P and I are finding it difficult to speak as often as we would like. Today, we catch up after a few months of not speaking. I am approaching my 50th birthday and realised I had some lingering anxieties about money. P has been out of town for a new contract and I tell her latest news from my friend "Clare".

Series 4, Episode 4: P and I read out two emails from listeners on two different topics and give our perspectives on both. One is about the ripple effect of infidelity affecting wider family members and in-laws. The other one is about the book "Leave A Cheater, Gain A Life" by Tracy Shorn. We're not experts and don't claim to solve anyone's problems, but speak from our own experiences.

Series 4, Episode 5: This is a topic that has been appearing in both P and I's lives recently. We see it in true crime, infidelity, relationships and communities everywhere. Today we discuss people whose image and reputation on the outside is upstanding, wholesome and full of integrity, yet are using this to hide more sinister and calculated intentions and behaviour, that people will find hard to...

Series 4, Episode 3: In today's episode I share some upsetting news about my husband and P tells us about an experience she had with her ex-husband's ex! A very unexpected, but valubale part of P's healing from betrayal journey.

Series 4, Episode 2: P and I discuss how she's been feeling recently as my life has been consumed by a promotion at work. P recalls a photo she found on her phone and how befriending someone she finds attractive makes her feel.

Series 4, Episode 1: P and I bring in the new year with a big dose of healing for me and some welcome validation for her. I talk about what it was like going back to where I got married and P discusses some information that was passed onto her about her ex-husband.

Series 3, Episode 14: I had an emotional experience this week with my husband after we reached a huge transition in our life and P had a realisation about her ex-husband that helped her move on another phase. We also answer a listener question struggling with outbursts of anger.

Series 3, Episode 13: Finding time to talk has been so difficult these last few months. P and I catch up on how we are and where we are with our infidelity journeys.

Series 3, Episode 12: P and I welcome back my dear friend, Richi Watson, who I credit with a vast amount of my healing. He was the ONLY person I knew who could genuinely help me deal with the devastating and catastrophic emotions I was experiencing after d-day and I often say he saved my life. We discuss this in a lot more detail in an episode called Emotional Freedom that can be found in Series 1...

Series 3, Episode 11: P and I have found it difficult to find time to record. We catch up with an issue about my friend crossing boundaries and we ask why should we always have to take the high road.

Series 3, Episode 10: P and I have had a really busy June, so it’s been a while since we spoke. P has been on a date that’s causing her to think and I read out some questions about how to recover from specific aspects of betrayal sent in by a regular supporter of our Insta and podcast. P and I do our best to answer.

Series 3, Episode 9: P and I discuss the future of our podcast and I respond to being called “toxic” because of my views on infidelity and my refusal to allow unfaithful husbands place the blame on the wife.

Series 3, Episode 8: P finds out her spidey senses were bang on when she discovers some news about her ex-husband. I go on a sweary rant about the tone deafness of how betrayed wives are treated by those who betrayed them.

Series 3, Episode 7: I sympathise with the “can’t win” situation my betrayed wife friend is in dealing with her ex-husband’s choices and P is still single but has a funny feeling her ex might not be for much longer.

Series 3, Episode 6: I fill P in on the developments with my friends. P realises she’s hit a bit stage in her recovery process.

Series 3, Episode 5: P and I talk about the heaviness that is felt when people disappoint you and how crap it is when people are not who you thought they were.

Series 3, Episode 4: Both P and I are feeling better after such a low point last week. I got to speak my truth this week, with my unfaithful friend, and P’s depression is lifting.

Series 3, Episode 3: Both P and I have been struggling with life at the moment and how recent occurrences have affected us. My PTSD has taken me out with a vengeance and P’s had a string of let downs.

Series 3, Episode 2: Holy shit! This all literally happened over the last 2 weeks and culminated in yesterday being a d-day for my closest friends. Hear about how I helped to bust one of my best friend’s affair and how I feel about him cheating on his wife. P has been by my side through it all.

Series 3, Episode 1: We’ve finally managed to record the first episode of 2024! The sound quality is a bit rubbish and kept cutting out, but we catch up on an emotional breakthrough I had, news of P’a divorce and we discuss whether we would have wanted someone to tell us what was going on.