I Am Just Gaying

In this final part of our two-part conversation with the legendary Ultra Naté , we explore what it means to lead with heart and purpose — from building community and creating spaces of belonging to getting your hands dirty as a leader who serves. Ultra opens up about the importance of self-care, holistic health practices, and nutrition as the foundation for sustainable well-being — reminding us th...

in Part 1 of this special two-part episode, global dance music icon Ultra Naté joins the I Am Just Gaying podcast to reflect on her legendary journey through music, love, and liberation. From her timeless anthem “Free” to her influence on the global house music scene, Ultra shares how intention, authenticity, and community have guided her artistry for over three decades. Rahshek and Hernando dive...

In Part 2 of Liberation Looks Like This: Mr. Dominus on Love & Life , the conversation goes deeper. Hosts Rahshek and Hernando continue their dialogue with Mr. Dominus as he shares raw and powerful reflections on self-mastery, redefining relationships, and the truth about polyamory—it’s more than just sex. Together, they unpack what it means to live authentically, embrace your full self, and c...

In this episode of the I Am Just Gaying podcast, we sit down with Mr. Dominus for a powerful conversation on authenticity, love, and what it means to live unapologetically. Together, they explore sexual liberation, community, and the complexities of polyamory, challenging misconceptions and centering communication, respect, and emotional connection. From the circuit scene as a space of joy and exp...

Rahshek and Hernando spill the tea on World Pride—from nightlife highs to a canceled Shakira concert twist. With laughs, love, and community vibes, they celebrate belonging, friendship, and the joy of living authentically.

In this episode, we delve into the vibrant tapestry of queerculture and Pride celebration, exploring the powerful themes of joy and resistance. Join us as we celebrate the resilience and creativity that define the LGBTQ+ community, sharing stories what we thought World Pride 2025 was going to be - we will let you know what really happened during episode 2. Discover how joy becomes an act of resist...

It’s a wrap on Season 1, babes! In this special finale, Rahshek and Hernando look back at the laughs, the tea, the vulnerable truths, and the pure joy that made this season unforgettable. We revisit your favorite moments, spill a little behind-the-scenes gossip, and share heartfelt thanks for riding along on this journey with us. From traveling while gay, to queer joy in music, to navigating love,...

In this powerful episode of I Am Just Gaying , hosts Hernando Rahshek is joined by Listener’s Choice winner Sofi Mari for a candid conversation about what it means to travel while queer. Together, they explore the joys and challenges of navigating the world as LGBTQ+ individuals — from safety concerns and gender dynamics to community support and the role of active allyship. Through personal storie...

We’re back, baby—and sounding better than ever! 🌈🎶 Originally dropped on April 18th with some pesky technical glitches, this remastered edition of “Rhythms of Pride” is here just in time to kick off Pride Month the right way—with a celebration of the beats that move us, unite us, and tell our stories. Join us as we vibe through the rich musical legacy of Black and Latinx queer joy—shouting out t...

In this episode of I'm Just Gaying , hosts Hernando Del Castillo and Rahshek plug into the world of artificial intelligence — but through a fabulous, queer lens. From playful drag queen name generators to real talk about algorithmic bias, they explore the creative highs and questionable lows of AI tech. Can a machine understand queerness? Is ChatGPT emotionally available? And who would your celebr...

In this special teaser, the I Am Just Gaying hosts are handing over the mic — to YOU! That’s right, for episode 11 of the season, we’re letting our listeners choose the topic and inviting the winner to join us as a special guest. Got something gay, juicy, brilliant, or bold you want us to dive into? Now’s your chance to shape the show. Listen to this teaser, get the details, and send in your ideas...

Get ready to move your hips and your heart! 💃🏽🏳️‍🌈 In this episode of I Am Just Gaying , hosts Rahshek Darnell and Hernando Del Castillo dive deep into the vibrant intersection of music, culture, and queer identity. From the underground house beats that sparked liberation to the reggaetón anthems that still set the floor on fire 🔥, we’re celebrating the Black and Latinx artists who shaped the...

Join us for a powerful and heartwarming episode of the I Am Just Gaying Podcast as we welcome Paula Boykin , founder of Paula’s Kitchen Mission . In this Women’s History Month spotlight, Paula opens up about her journey to launching a food justice initiative that addresses homelessness and food insecurity—rooted in the legacy of her grandmother’s open-door, open-heart philosophy. We dive into:🍲 T...

In this episode of I Am Just Gaying , hosts Rahshek Darnell and Hernando Del Castillo dive into the meaning of community and its role in combating the growing loneliness epidemic, a concern highlighted by former Surgeon General Vivek Murthy. They reflect on their personal definitions of community, cultural influences, and the power of connection and support. The discussion expands to the triad of...

We’re back, baby! After a much-needed self-care break (aka lying in bed contemplating life while binge-watching reality TV), we’ve returned refreshed, recharged, and ready to cackle . This episode is all about laughter—the good, the ugly, and the nearly life-threatening (yes, we almost caused an accident mid-giggle, but let’s not dwell on that). Join Rahshek Darnell & Hernando Del Castillo as...

In this episode of I Am Just Gaying, hosts Hernando Del Castillo and Rahshek Darnell tackle the ever-evolving landscape of politics and its impact on the LGBTQ+ community. From the latest executive orders impacting queer rights to the power of grassroots activism, they explore why staying politically engaged is more crucial than ever. The duo also debunks myths surrounding TikTok’s political influ...

In Episode 4 of I Am Just Gaying, the hosts dive into the vibrant world of LGBTQ+ pop culture and its profound impact on personal identity. Joined by comedian Sampson McCormick , they explore how queer representation in the arts—through figures like Lil Nas X and groundbreaking performances—shapes the journey of self-acceptance and fosters a sense of community. The conversation spans diverse topic...

In this episode, Hernando Del Castillo and Rahshek Darnell share their journey of friendship spanning over 25 years. They discuss how they met through AOL, the challenges of mental health, and the evolution of their relationship from a long-distance romance to a deep brotherhood. The conversation emphasizes the importance of communication, support, and the significance of chosen family in their li...

In this episode of 'I Am Just Gaying', hosts Rahshek Ellis and Hernando Del Castillo explore themes of joy, resilience, and personal growth within the LGBTQ+ community. They discuss their experiences with mental health, navigating single life, and the importance of community support. The episode also highlights moments of queer joy, including celebrating sobriety and the release of a children's bo...

In this debut episode, your hosts, Hernando Del Castillo , and Rahshek Darnell , kick things off by introducing themselves and sharing the purpose behind this podcast: creating a space for open, authentic, and unapologetically queer conversations. After a quick dive into what’s been going on in their lives lately, the discussion shifts to the heart of the episode: sex positivity . Together, they e...

Great Chat with amazing Comedia, Actress all around funny Lady Grace Victoria from ohgcomedy. You can follow her on instagram at @ohgcomedy and all over Miami. We chat about breakups, comedy in Healthcare, and at the Funeral Home. Amazing spirit and great chat! Great talk about becoming your own comedian.....

Keba is an amazing singer and songwriter. You can find her music on all platforms as Kebamusic. She is on instagram as @kebamusic and on all platforms. She performs with her band all over Miami as Keba & The Usual Suspects. You can follow them on instagram @theusualsuspects_music. Come listen to this amazing interview about her Journey on becoming the amazing woman she is today!! Thank you Keb...

This was an amazing chat! About life....Growing as a person. Rudy is the Founder of Cultivating Advancement Please follow him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rodolfo.martinez.100. We have to learn as men to feel our feeling! Cry, laugh, and be Sad. 

Great chat about Pridelines and during pride month what a great chat! Go to https://pridelines.org/

Excited to have Vocalist and Artist Sofi Mari Instagram: @sofimarimusic with her new song coming out May 14 across all platforms. We talk Music, Drum and Base and LGBTQ and women leading the scene. Fun times with a very talented artist and friend of mine. Come join the talk at "I am Just Gaying"  Aquarian Age Ft. Sofi Mari Lexxi Vonne Launch May 14th,2021 https://www.instagram.com/p/CN7iMhMFw...