Humanizing SEX

In this episode of Humanizing Sex, we invite L, who shares her journey through the adult industry, overcoming addiction, caring for her father, and ultimately finding a new purpose. Today, L runs a dog sanctuary, rescuing animals who have been abandoned or forgotten. We talk about resilience, reinvention, healing, and the unexpected ways we create meaningful lives after surviving difficult chapter...

In this episode of Humanizing Sex , I sit with with Dallas, who entered the adult industry later in life. Together, we explore aging and sexuality, the realities of adult content creation, neurodivergence and kink, and why sex work deserves more understanding than stigma. Dallas also shares how working in the industry has been far more respectful and empowering than she ever expected. Music: Nihil...

This week on Humanizing Sex , we sit down with Bettie Brickhouse—professional dominatrix, fetish wrestler, content creator, and roller derby athlete. Bettie shares her thought on intimay in wrestling, and how physicality, competition, and connection intersect in both her professional and personal life. We also discuss what it was like being featured on Soft White Underbelly .Bettie Brickhouse: htt...

In this episode, we sit down with Hunter Vesper. Hunter shares their take on how people seek connection, safety, and authenticity through sexuality. We also dive into ASMR erotica, playfulness in sex, fantasy, and why silliness and creativity might be some of the most overlooked parts of intimacy. Hunter Vestper: huntervesper23@gmail.comMusic: Nihilore - Freedom to Speak (https://www.nihilore.com/...

In this expisode of Humanizing Sex, We sit with Nicole Minaj—a creator moving from indie content to production porn and short films. They share their thoughts on creative control, ethical porn, sex work as labor, and safety/decriminalization. Nicole Minaj: https://x.com/Sexskittle Music: Nihilore - Freedom to Speak (https://www.nihilore.com/)

This week on Humanizing Sex , we chat with Keifer, an adult content creator and artistic nude model. Join in on our relaxed conversation about how he started his career as a content creator and some of his other life passions. Keifer: https://linktr.ee/schlongxxxx Music: Nihilore - Freedom to Speak (https://www.nihilore.com/)

In this episode, we’re joined by Amy Venus, a Sweden-based Stripper, Content creator, and—most recently—Phone Sex Operator. Amy shares an honest look into what it’s like working under Sweden’s “Nordic Model,” where selling sex is legal, but buying it is criminalized. Together, we unpack how this system impacts real people—not just in theory, but in everyday life. Amy Venus: https://www.instagram.c...

In this episode, we’re joined by Lex, a writer, musician, former goth DJ, gamer, and adult content creator. Lex shares her journey of empowerment, embodiment, and self-acceptance through creative expression and sex work. We explore how sexuality can be a pathway to reconnecting with the body, especially in a world that often teaches us to fear it. Lex: https://www.instagram.com/dearxfawnMusic: Nih...

Claudia joins Humanizing Sex to share her unexpected journey into online adult entertainment in her 50s. From working as a phone sex operator in the 90s to building a cam career today, Claudia talks about body acceptance, aging and sexuality, and the joy of being desired on her own terms. Clauida Midwest Wife - https://claudiamidwestwife.com/Nihilore - Freedom to Speak (https://www.nihilore.com/)

Phone sex operator Ella joins Humanizing Sex for a raw and heartfelt conversation about their experiences behind the calls. Ella shares how phone sex often becomes a space for connection, emotional release, and honest confession—sometimes more than fantasy. We talk about intimacy in the digital age and shifts in dating. This episode explores the deeply human need to feel seen, heard, and understoo...

Dungeon guide, content creator, and sex-positive educator Maddie Dane joins Humanizing Sex for a fun, thoughtful conversation about kink, creativity, and connection. Broadcasting from his lovingly curated “artisanal dungeon,” Maddie shares how humor, consent, and curiosity shape the experiences he offers. Matty Dane: https://linktr.ee/mattydane Nihilore - Freedom to Speak (https://www.nihilore.com...

Hue Belladonna joins Humanizing Sex for a thoughtful, honest conversation about identity, sex work, and being fully human. They share what it’s like navigating life as a queer, trans, asexual sex worker living with disabilities, and how adult content creation became a space for authenticity, empowerment, and creative freedom. Hue Belladonna : https://www.instagram.com/huebelladonna Nihilore - Free...

Tommy Parker joins Humanizing Sex for a candid conversation about versatility in porn, navigating stigma, and balancing visibility with personal boundaries. Tommy reflects on leaving medical school and finding freedom in the adult entertainment industry. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrtommyparkerMusic: Nihilore - Freedom to Speak (https://www.nihilore.com/)

Lexi joins Humanizing Sex to share her story of entering sex work at 21 after losing her mother and being left with no support. She opens up about surviving a chaotic childhood, navigating an industry she finds both defining and damaging, and the empathy she’s gained along the way. X: https://x.com/LillyBluuBBW Poshmark: https://poshmark.com/closet/clothesgal92 Mercari: https://www.mercari.com/u/u...

MYHYEM shares his journey from growing up in a deeply religious environment to discovering self-expression and empowerment through camming. He opens up about how the industry became a path to personal evolution, self-trust, and embracing both his masculinity and femininity. MYHYEM digs into topics rarely discussed publicly: the emotional labor of cam work, cultivating authentic connections with cl...

Eros Valentine is a sex worker, performer, and practicing witch whose journey through gender expression, pleasure work, disability, and community care is as powerful as it is deeply human. Eros shares how they entered the sex industry, how coming out and transitioning reshaped their artistic identity, and what it means to embody sacredness and queerness in a world that often tries to erase both. E...

Mistress V is a professional dominatrix. We unpack misconceptions about BDSM, the emotional labor of sex work, and the parallels between sex work and therapy. V shares moving stories of clients seeking not just pleasure, but connection, permission, and freedom to explore hidden parts of themselves. This conversation reminds us that sex work is work! Mistress V: subenjoyer@proton.me

In this episode, I sit down with Kenni Sparkles — a part-time escort, sugar baby, and content creator — to talk about the realities of sex work, the joys and challenges of building authentic connections, and the isolation that stigma can create. https://onlyfans.com/girlsashi

I sat down with Dan Bear — Pittsburgh-based go-go dancer, community organizer, 2023 Pittsburgh Leather Bear, and 2023 Mr. Mid-Atlantic Leather — to explore what it means to find power, belonging, and joy in leather and kink. Dan shares how dancing became an expression of sexual liberation, why diversity and body positivity are central to his work in the community, and how kink helped him reclaim h...

In this deeply intimate conversation, I sit down with Angel Girl Eva—an artist, musician, and sex worker—to explore how their creative life and their sex work are beautifully intertwined. Eva opens up about their journey into sex work, the vulnerability of online content creation, and how they balances the performative and deeply personal aspects of r https://www.instagram.com/angelgirl.eva/ https...

This is an introductory episode explaining the thought process of how I started the podcast project. Red Umbrella Fund https://www.redumbrellafund.org/