How’s Your Sex Life?

How do I get more comfortable with dirty talk? What type of person ghosts someone? What type of person gaslights? And I can only orgasm with a vibrator — am I alone?  Comedian  Heather Chelan  gives advice and talks about choosing honesty over ghosting, learning not everyone comes from penetrative sex, and how she’s finally having shame free sex.  Read the full transcript here . Need advice for yo...

How do I talk to my wife about my desires? I’m a 51-year-old virgin and I don’t know where to start! And is there sex after divorce? 

This week Myisha and Jonathan Bastian, host of KCRW’s Life Examined , dig into the science of love and heartbreak.  

Is monogamy or my sexual fantasy the problem? How common is a sexless marriage? I’m Gen X, why are young people trying to date me? 

How do I stop dating avoidant people? I’m grieving the death of my partner. Will I connect with someone sexually ever again? And the art of sex magic. 

Hormone therapy has tanked my libido, but I’m hornier than ever! How can I stay creative in my kinky relationship? 

How to deal with trust issues? Am I terrible for thinking my partner isn’t hot anymore? How do I tell someone I hooked up with that I just want to be friends?

How to enjoy intimacy again after a miscarriage? How to handle mismatched libidos in long term relationships? And getting turned off by messy sex. 

How can I nurture my bisexuality in a straight passing relationship? How do I reconcile my sexual fantasies with my beliefs? Plus learning new bedroom skills.

How do I navigate casual dating? How do I get over my ex? And is dating possible when I’m asexual?

How to deal with sex and chronic pain? When to bring up a mental health condition in a relationship? And the best and worst parts of dating with a disability. 

Where to watch feminist porn? Do women actually like roleplay? Holly Randall, host of the  Holly Randall Unfiltered  podcast, talks porn literacy and shares her hot takes on porn tropes. 

How to deal with a bad kisser? How soon is too soon to take a relationship exclusive? And how to stay close with long distance friends. KCRW DJ Tyler Boudreaux joins us to dish advice and share her Top 3 love songs.

Sam Sanders, co-host of  Vibe Check , drops in for our final episode of the season! Sam gives advice on disclosing STIs, separating sex from your self-worth, and he chats with Myisha about what he’s tired of hearing on first dates.  We’ll be back in the new year! Be sure to follow the show to be notified when new episodes drop. Got questions about solo sex, finding your sexual self, relationships,...

Damona Hoffman, host of the  Dates & Mates  podcast, drops by to answer your questions alongside Myisha. Should you lie about your age on dating apps? What are the pros and cons of changing your last name when getting remarried as a widow? Plus we dig into Bumble’s list of dating trends to expect in 2024! 

Why isn’t there a Viagra type drug for women? What happens when your porn habits impact your dating life? When it comes to sex the answers aren’t always so simple. 

How do you explore a nature kink? Why does playing hard to get work? How do you talk to your partner about unprotected sex? This week Myisha answers questions speed round style at  On Air Fest !  Read the full transcript here .  Got a question for Myisha? Send an email or voice memo to  sexlife@kcrw.org  with some background info and your question may be answered on the show.

While we’re off this week, you can catch up on past episodes about kink, self-love, and orgasms right here in the podcast feed. And send your sex and dating questions to  sexlife@KCRW.org . 

How do you open up a monogamous relationship? What to do when your spouse comes out of the closet? How do you date in your 40s? Ashley Ray, comedian and host of Earwolf’s  TV, I Say , joins Myisha to talk dating while poly, supporting your partner, and how to not be poly-shady.  

Doubts about your small penis? Exploring a new kink? Love smelling your partner, but they’re not into it? This week we’re kicking shame to the curb and embracing our bodies. 

Our first guest of the season! Queer cartoonist and scholar Justin Hall joins us to talk about how a kink can create or block intimacy in a relationship. Plus we play a game to test what makes something kinky or not kinky. Got a question for Myisha? Send an email or voice memo to  sexlife@kcrw.org  with some background info and your question may be answered on the show.

Frustrated with your low sex drive? Want sex more often than your partner? Trying to keep your long distance relationship spicy? This week Myisha tackles the highs and lows of libido.  Got a question for Myisha? Send an email or voice memo to  sexlife@kcrw.org  and your question may be answered on the show. 

How do you know if you want a casual or committed relationship? What’s a good first vibrator? Can you experience sensuality without a partner? Host Myisha Battle helps you explore what YOU truly want out of sex and dating. 

Sick of dating apps? Avoiding a tough conversation around sex? Hitachi leaving you numb? Sex and dating coach Myisha Battle is here to help.  Read the full transcript  here . 

How do you tell your partner what you really want in bed? Is it okay to think about your ex while climaxing? You guessed it, we’re talking orgasms.