James Aames

How to Become a non-Christian

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This podcast is a reading of my book ”How to Become a non-Christian,” which you can find on Amazon. It is practical advise for deconstructing Christians that helps them deal with their fears and approach their exodus in a sensible and safe way.

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James Aames

Episodes

Episode 13 - The Final 16 Guidelines 01.06.2025 25:14

Once you've deconverted, there are a few things you should keep in mind.

Episode 12 - Final Preparations 01.06.2025 25:01

We cover the last two fears: Fear #21: You'll Miss the Rapture Fear #22: Ending Your Relationship With Jesus Then we revisit the formula and the final preparations.

Episode 11 - Three More Falsehood Fears 31.05.2025 32:23

Fear #18: The Bible Really IS Magic Fear #19: You Will Go to Hell Fear #20: God Has Chosen You to NOT Believe

Episode 10 - Fears Based on Lies 31.05.2025 40:39

We cover four fears in this episode: Fear #14: You Will Be Punished Fear #15: You Will Live in Despair Fear #16: Being Seen as a Bad Person Fear #17: You Will Become One of Them.

Episode 9 - Three more Fallacious Fears 31.05.2025 37:58

In this episode we cover Fear #11: Having No Mission Assignment Fear #12: Leaving Prayer and Meditation Behind Fear #13: You Are Only Doing this to Pursue Sexual Sin

Episode 8 - How to Retrain Your Brain 30.05.2025 30:50

We finish up our fears that are real by talking about the fear of losing answers to our primal question. Then, before we get into fallacious fears, I go over a process that helps you retrain your brain. Then I dive into fallacious fears by explaining the first one: the fear that you will have to make your own decisions.

Episode 7 - Four More Factual Fears 29.05.2025 33:20

This episode does cover how you can deal with the fear of your friends abandoning you, as well as the fear of financial impact, the fear of how to function in secular society, and the fear of being alone.

Episode 6 - How to Deal with Your Family - Two Paths 29.05.2025 25:59

Your family is one of the biggest roadblocks to becoming a non-Christian. There are two distinct paths to follow in this regard. One path for those of you who are still dependent upon your family, and another if you are not.

Episode 5 - The Stubbornness Factor 28.05.2025 27:26

In this episode we go over the three fears that make us stubborn about leaving the church: 1. You were fooled 2. You wasted all that time, and 3. You fooled OTHER people and wasted THEIR time.

Episode 4 - What are the Real Costs of Christianity? 28.05.2025 37:09

In this episode we look at the two last benefits (A standard for Morality and Eternal Life) and then delve into the Costs. What are the real costs of Christianity? They're even higher than you thought.

Episode 3 - What are the Real Benefits of Christianity? 28.05.2025 35:19

In this episode we reexamine the benefits that we touched on earlier. 1. Fellowship and Community 2. God as your Source of Goodness 3. Having a Mission Assignment 4. Having Something to Do 5. Having a Relationship with God, and 6. Answers to the Primal Questions

Episode 2 - The Origin of the Church and Why it's So Hard to Leave 26.05.2025 34:34

In this Episode we cover section 2 and 3. We learn about how religious ideas emerged from human history, and how they used the process of memetics to become a very effective trap. The we introduce the concept of "The Formula."

Episode 1 - Getting Started 26.05.2025 32:38

In this first episode, we will talk about who you are, why you are a Christian, and where you fit on the spectrum of Christianity.