How To Be A Submissive Wife

 A Submissive wife should dress like a lady, dress modestly, dress with class.   A woman's real beauty is in her personality, not how much skin she shows.

 As a Submissive wife will encounter contempt for your lifestyle choice, don't take notice of other people's negative views. It is your life, and you will live your life as you wish, you know what is right and what is wrong. You know this is how things are meant to be.

 Sadly society is attacking the authority of the man in the home and family values are suffering because of this.   Your children need a Father who is in charge of the home and its values.  

 A Submissive Wife should not try to have authority over her husband or try to tell him what to do. Her place is to be the submissive partner and follow her Husbands lead.

 When was the last time you went out of your way to do something nice for your Husband? Such as cooking his favourite meal or arrange for him to do something he loves doing but usually doesn't do.

 Once you are married, you must remember always to put your Husband first. Your Husband's wishes & needs now outweigh your families and friends, and they have to accept that he is now your main priority.  Because once you were joined in matrimony, you become one body. 

 A Submissive Wife should remember that women were not created to do the things a man can do but to do the things a man can't do, her role is to compliment him not compete with him. 

 It is essential that you have friends outside of your marriage, but you should always remember your marriage is not a group project. Friends do not need to know the intimate details of your last date night. 

 A Submissive Wife should think carefully before depriving her husband of sexual relief.   If you do you are opening the door of temptation, there is always someone who will want to spoil what you have and will stop at nothing to get what they want.

 When your husband comes home from work give him time to unwind before you dump your day on him. He will want to hear all about your day but not the minute he walks through the door. Save your conversation for the dinner table.

 When a Submissive wife disagrees with one of her husband's decisions, it is ok to let him know she has a different opinion and share her thoughts with him but she must remember that his word after he has listened to her argument is the final word. He is the Head Of The House.

 A Submissive wife should remember to pay attention to her husband's needs.   When you are busy with life, children and work it is easy to bypass his needs as he is an adult and can take care of himself but remember as his wife it is your place to be his helper and completer.

 Don't allow cleaning of your home to get out of hand and become a problem.   The easiest way to tackle cleaning is to have a daily, weekly and monthly schedule. Pin your schedule up and follow it each day, if you are having trouble sticking to the plan ask your husband to hold you accountable. 

 Sex is not just something you do to satisfy your husband's needs.   The purpose of sex is to create connection and oneness with each other, so don't take the attitude of lying back and letting him get it over with, instead grab the opportunity to become one with your husband physically and mentally.

 As a wife and mother, you should remember you only do as your husband says. It is your place to parent your children not give in to them they do as you say and not as they choose. Children have to learn we all have to abide by rules.

 Are you allowing others in your marriage bed? There should just be you and your husband in your bed not you, your husband and the world.   Don't turn on the TV in the bedroom and leave your mobile phone out of the bedroom, focus on your husband and not other people.

  Every marriage has its ups and downs. Your husband is not perfect he is human and he will make mistakes/ When he gets things wrong don’t try to take control instead support your husband and stand by him.

 Once you are married everything changes, you and your husband become one and nothing or no one should be allowed to come between you in deed or thought.   The only man you should have any sexual thoughts about is your husband, do not commit adultery in mind or body. 

 Remember that just because your friend's husbands have different strengths to your husband it does not mean they are better than him.   Different does not mean better. Embrace your husband's strengths and support him is his weaknesses. 

 A Submissive Wife should take great pride in looking after the home. A good idea for you to use is to have a cleaning rota for each day of the week, so you know what job needs completing and when ensuring the home is cleaned from top to bottom each week.

 A Submissive wife should remember that honesty is always the best policy.   Dishonesty will destroy his trust, and without trust, love will be replaced with resentment. 

  If you want a husband that will show you respect, you have to be a woman worthy of his respect. Be humble, be kind, be modest and always be on his side

 A Submissive Wife should remember when her husband says something she does not like that a harsh answer will stir up anger, but a soft, gentle response will discourage his wrath.

When you disagree, don't hold a grudge.  When you hold a grudge and stop speaking to your husband, it tells him that you have no respect for him and his leadership. Holding a grudge will only cause him to pull away and be distant

 As his wife, you should support his hopes and dreams, help him to be the best he can, be by his side during good times and bad times and always offer your support and encouragement.