How To Be A Submissive Wife

 A Submissive Wife should love her husband for who he is and what he has achieved and not who she thinks he could be or achieve if he did things her way.   Love and support him without trying to change or control him. 

 When your husband wants sex, and you are mentally still dealing with the day, and can't be bothered. Remember he is wired differently to you, he will take sexual rejection personally.   You might not feel in the mood at first, but if you allow your mind to unwind and think romantic thoughts your body will soon catch up

 A Submissive Wife should always put her husband's needs and wants before her own, this won't always be easy, and sometimes it will feel unfair. However, this is the life you have chosen, to submit to the man you love, the man whom you have trusted to take care of you. Submit to him with good grace and pray he will be a worthy husband.

 Modern times and financial pressures have meant that the division of labour has altered in many homes with wives having full-time jobs.  What should not alter is the husband's position of authority and spiritual leader in the home.  

 If you are easily distracted from your duties, ask your husband to hold you accountable for your time. Having to account for what you have done each day can be very helpful in keeping you on track if this is still not enough ask your husband to help you further by placing consequences for not completing your chores on time. Do not allow distractions to get the better of you.

 The greatest gift you can give your husband is your time. Because when you give your time you are giving a portion of your life that you will never get back and that is priceless.

 Your decisions will become easier when your desire to please your husband is stronger than your desire to please your friends and family. Once you become one body, your husband SHOULD take priority.

 Is your marriage not what it used to be? Think about this verse "If you are too lazy to plough don't expect a harvest."  If you don't bother to put effort into your marriage how can you expect it to grow, without effort, it will wither and die.

 A Submissive wife should be modest in her dress out of the home. Men are wired differently to women men like to look at women and easily get the wrong signal, don't put your self a situation where your short skirt can be misread as a sign of flirting or seeking male attention.

 Your husband's place is to be the provider don't complain when he has to work late he is doing his best to provide a home for you and his family. Instead, ask him if there is anything you can do at home to make his day more manageable.

 It is a wife's place to be thrifty and frugal with the household budget.   Before you buy ask yourself "Do we need this or do I just want this because my friends have one". Possessions don't buy happiness. 

 A wife should not use aggression as a way of winning an argument. If your husband responds to your attack with silence, you make him look or feel like a weak coward who is not man enough in his home, or if he reacts with anger, you make him look/feel like a bully.   This is no way to treat the man you love.  

  A Wife should rise early in the morning, so she gets a head start on the day this helps other family members make the most of their day as well.  Have breakfast ready, children's clothing laid out, lunches made so that the morning starts smoothly and on time for the whole family.

 As a submissive wife you should be the best wife and mother you can be so your daughters have the perfect role model in their life, and your sons know what to look for in a wife when they are older

  Don't allow life to become boring look for ways to add a little magic surprise to your love life.   Why not turn dinner tonight into a surprise date night, cook him something special, take time to pamper your self and wear something that he will enjoy, let him know that you can't wait for him to unwrap desert. Set the mood the minute he walks through the door.  

 When you argue with your husband, you should be quick to forgive and not let your anger get the better of you. The thing you are arguing about probably won't matter tomorrow. No good will come from being angry and bitter. Instead, learn to communicate better with your husband.

 As his wife, it is only natural you will want to spend lots of time with him at the weekend, but he also needs time to pursue his interests outside of work such as sport, fishing or even video games.  

 When you disagree with your husband, this is not a battle to see who wins or who loses.  It is not an I win he loses, or he wins I lose situation. You either both win or you both lose. Your husband is not your enemy.

 Never forget that the little gestures showing that you love your husband can mean so much to him.   He does appreciate more than just food and sex.  He likes to know he is loved. send him a quick text saying something like "I feel safe when I am in your arms." 

 As his wife, you have to learn to trust his decisions. If you constantly question his choices, he will start to resent you as it is degrading and disrespectful to be asked about your choices all the time. You have to trust that he wants the best for his family.  

 Remember when your husband comes home from a long hard days work, take care of him show him you appreciate his efforts. Have a meal ready for him, greet him with a kiss and hug and not an "Oh your back 

 If you are finding it hard to submit to your husbands will remember to pray for help so that you will be more open to submitting to your husband's will

 A Submissive Wife will honour her marriage and always stay faithful in mind and body to her husband. She will not allow herself to get into situations that would lead to adulterous thoughts or acts

 As his wife, you should remember it is you and him vs the problems of life not you vs him over difficulties. Always work together as a team with your husband in charge

 Don’t be afraid to let your friends and family know that you are proud to submit to your husband's will. Don’t let them tell you-you are weak, feeble and a disgrace to the female gender. Be proud to support traditional gender roles and values