How To Be A Submissive Wife

The early days of marriage is exciting, but life gets in the way after the honeymoon period ends. And while you may have the most beautiful marriage, even the most devoted couple is sure to find the married lifestyle to be at times, well, let’s say, less than exciting.

As A Submissive Wife You should be your  HUSBANDS SAFE PLACE The one person who is always on his side and that he can depend on when times get tough. You should be his comfort, his best friend and his lover.

Remember, men are visual. Always try to look your best for him. A wedding ring on your finger does not mean you don’t have to try anymore to look good. Eat a healthy diet and exercise regularly to help maintain your health and looks.

Take time out of your busy day to connect with your husband while he is at work. Don't phone him with problems or expect lengthy conversations that will stop him working but a quick message to let him know this you are thinking of him and how you can't wait to be in his arms tonight

Tonight try doing something unimaginable!. Switch off your TV, put down your phone and tablet; everything on your social media feed will still be there tomorrow. Disconnect from the outside world entirely and spend the evening connecting with your husband and family.   Play a board game, do a jigsaw, anything that does not involve looking at a screen and talk to each other.   Spend quali...

When was the last time you told your husband that you loved him or how lucky you feel being his wife?  A Submissive Wife should remember to start and end each day by telling her husband how much she loves him and how blessed she feels to be his wife.  Don't take it for granted that he knows how you feel, and it takes less than a minute to tell him you love him and appreciate everything h...

A Submissive Wife is happy to have rules and boundaries in her life. These boundaries make her feel safe and secure, and she can enjoy being a woman safe in the knowledge that her husband will look after her She trusts her husband to cherish her unique gift of submission and not abuse his position as HoH.

Make sure you spend time with your husband. You must do lots of fun things together and not just the tedious daily chores because if you start neglecting to spend fun time with him, and go out with friends, on your own instead of as a couple, he will get used to you not being around and your marriage will suffer. Remember you married him because you wanted to spend the rest of our life together, y...

Choosing to submit to your husband does not mean you are a weak person. By choosing to submit to your husband, you tell him that you are a strong person who will do what it takes to live the life you want. You know that the traditional gender role way of life is the life for you. Your submission means that you trust your husband will always do what is best for you and your family. Your submission...

A Submissive Wife wants him to look forward to coming home after a day at work. She wants it to be welcoming, clean, tidy and peaceful.   When he walks through the door, she knows he wants to walk into a warm, loving atmosphere and not a cold war zone. Keeping the home clean is easier if you have a weekly / daily cleaning schedule and work through this each day.  Breaking the weeks clean...

Once you become parents, you have to remember that you have to find the time to work on your marriage no matter how tired you are.   If you start to neglect your relationship, you begin to lose the connection between you and your husband.   Make sure that you find time each week. to do something together even if it is just cuddling up on the sofa. Take advantage of grandparents offering...

A Submissive Wife knows that marriage is not 50-50. Marriage has to be 100-100 you have to give marriage your all for it to last When you get divorced, you split everything 50-50 Marriage has to be 100-100 you have to give marriage your all for it to last When you get divorced, you split everything 50-50

A Submissive wife knows that if she wants her husband to lead her, she has to get out of his way and let him lead. You have to learn to take a step back and trust your husband's judgement. Today's society tells men repeatedly that they are not leaders they are taught modern women no longer want a man to take charge of the home. Today's modern woman wants to be in charge of her own life; marriage v...

A submissive wife knows that she should learn to control her tongue when annoyed with her husband.   It is easy to get carried away in the heat of the moment when you are angry and find yourself saying cruel and hurtful things and that you don't mean. Instead of getting into a heated argument with your husband, take a step back and wait until you are not angry and calmly discuss your point of...

A Submissive Wife should be proud to dress like a woman.  Take pride in your appearance, dress in the clothing and colours you know your husband likes to see wearing.  You should be dressing for his approval and pleasure, not for the admiration of others. When not with your husband, make sure you dress in a manner that will not attract other men's attention toy don't want them to think t...

As a submissive wife, you should never hide the pride you feel when telling people that he is your husband and that you enjoy taking care of him and your home. Don't feel embarrassed admitting you live a traditional way of life. Let them know how fulfilling your life is raising your children and tending to the home while he is at work. Being a fulltime housewife should not be thought of as demeani...

A Submissive Wife should not forget the importance of sex in her marriage. Don't allow a busy life to stop you from having romantic evenings with your husband. Remember the time and effort you spent get ting ready for a date with him before you were married. Can you remember when you last went to that much effort to look your best for him? A marriage without intimacy will wither and not grow; inti...

If you want your marriage to last, remember this tip. Never make your husband feel alone, especially when you are with him. When you are alone with him, make sure that he is the focus of your attention, your social media feed will still be there tomorrow. It is rude and disrespectful to continue looking at your phone while talking to him, and it will make him feel that you value the content on you...

When you choose to become a Submissive Wife and agree to follow your husbands lead, you are also giving him authority over your body. Sex is a gift for married couples to enjoy; it is not a weapon to use against your husband. If your husband has been unfair or upset, you talk to him discuss the problem. If you use sex as a weapon to get your way, then you risk pushing him away for good. Sex should...

Marriage should last forever; it is not just a chapter in your life; it should be a whole new book. This book should be full of how you and your husband enjoyed the good times and worked through the bad times when you die. Don't start thinking about divorce because you have grown bored with each other and the passion has died, don't look for the excitement outside of the marriage bed, instead work...

Being a Submissive Wife is not about being powerless and doing as your husband wishes because you do not have the strength to stand up for yourself. Submission is making a conscious decision to submit to your husband because you know he loves you, and you trust him to be a man worthy of your gift of submission. He is a man who will always have your best interests at heart and put your needs before...

Remember that going to bed together is one of the crucial parts of the day. Many couples do not go to bed together. Often one will watch TV or catch up on work instead.   You find that if couples don't go to bed together, they tend not to spend lots of time together, then they start losing connection, leading to unhappiness, loneliness and divorce. Make an effort to go to bed together, discus...

Financial pressures of modern life now mean that many wives have to work, which means that many husbands and wives have to share household duties. In some cases, the wife is the primary income earner while the husband stays at home to tend to the house and children. What should not alter is your husband's position of authority and spiritual leader in the home.

A Submissive wife knows that having a bad attitude when trying to get her point of view across during a disagreement will not help and will only make the situation worse. It is better to talk to him calmly, and with respect your husband deserves.

A Submissive Wife knows if she has to sneak about or hide something from her Husband then she has no right to be doing what she is doing. Always be open and truthful to your husband. There is nothing that husband and wife should not be able to tell each other.