How To Be A Submissive Wife

If you want a good sex life, you will have to work at it. Don't believe what the media says about when you fall in love and are attracted to your husband. Good sex will come naturally; it won't. The novelty will wear off, and you will have to prioritise your sex life and work at keeping it exciting. Learn what your husband likes and let him know what you want, don't be afraid to talk to him about...

Your husband needs to know that you respect him both privately and publicly. There is nothing wrong with letting him and others know that you trust, admire and believe in him.

A submissive wife should not start telling him about her worries and problems the moment he walks through the door.

You can not avoid these people and their cruel comments, but you can learn to deal with them and not let them affect you. Try reminding them that women have fought for years, so you have the right to choose how to live your life and that you have chosen to live your life as a submissive and submit to your husband. 

A Submissive Wife should avoid spending time alone with members of the opposite sex. It does not mean you can not have male friends but see them when your Husband is around or with their partner. It is not a good idea to put yourself in the path of temptation.  The most innocent of friendships can get wires crossed

A Submissive Wife should make intimacy a priority in her marriage. Without regular intimacy, your relationship will not grow. Make sure you never stop flirting with your Husband Your Husband needs to know you desire him.

A marriage with traditional gender roles is based on traditional values that are sadly getting lost in these modern times. Don't allow peer pressure to stop you from living a traditional lifestyle. There is nothing wrong with good old fashioned values

A Submissive Wife should remember to drink in moderation while attending parties and social events, so she keeps complete control of her mouth and fidelity.   After a few drinks, it is easy to let go of your inhibitions and end up doing something you will regret the next day.  

A submissive should feel free to give her opinion and know that it is a valued opinion, but she should trust him enough to accept his decision

Being a submissive wife means that you are his lover, supporter, selfless helper, and best friend. It does not mean that you are his slave or a doormat.

When people criticise you for being a submissive wife, remind them that women have fought for women to have the right to have the freedom of choice, and you are exercising your right to chose, and you have chosen to be a submissive wife

A Submissive wife should expect her husband to be her lover, her provider and her protector in return for her love and submission. Husband and wife have different roles in the marriage The two roles are different but complement each other ideally to make one union.

A submissive wife should remember happy couples keep people out of their business. Other peoples opinions of your relationship don’t matter. All that matters is what you and your husband think.

Sex should be a pleasurable experience for both of you. Don't be afraid to tell your husband what you like or don't like in the bedroom and ask him what he wants and does not like. Your husband is not a mind reader, and he won't be offended when you tell him. He wants to please you. Please don't be embarrassed to discuss what you would like him to do to you in the bedroom, and don't be afraid to e...

Wives Should Remember The Importance of Self-Care Self-care is not selfish; Taking timeout for self-care is essential; it helps you stay healthy mentally and physically, enabling you to

Always be mindful that there is a time and a place for checking your social media feeds. You do not have to be checking them constantly. Your friends do not have a better life than you. It just looks that way. Remember, the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence till you get there. Your life will be better if you focus on what's important and not what's on your social media feeds.

Don’t use sex as a tool to get what you want. Don’t deny your husband sex in the hope he will change his mind if he has said we can not afford to buy you that new pair of shoes this month. Accept his word with good grace

Only have eyes for your husband. Don’t compare your husband with other men. Your husband is unique, he will not be perfect but neither are you and he is the one who you chose to marry. Comparing him is disrespectful and will breed discontent and unhappiness in your marriage.

Don’t wait until the end of the day when you are tired to share an intimate moment; sex will be much more rewarding when you are both full of energy. When was the last time you had morning sex after breakfast in the kitchen?

A wife who guards her tongue Keeps her soul from trouble There is a good reason we are given two ears, two eyes and only one mouth. Listen and observe before making any hasty comments. Once words have been spoken you can not take them back, what has been said has been said.

A successful marriage is based on these principles Man loves, protects and cherishes his wife Woman submits to a worthy husband

A man cannot make a woman submit to him. Submission can only be given, no one can take it. It is a precious gift that shouldn't be abused

A Submissive wife should remember that her husband cannot be the leader until she steps back and stops trying to make the decisions

When you are talking to your husband, put your phone down. When you keep your phone in your hand, you are talking to your husband he will subconsciously feel that he is not the most important person in your life right now. He will feel you are talking to him till someone more important calls or texts; then you will give them your attention and not your husband.

A Submissive wife should remember just because you are married does not mean you should stop flirting with your husband.