How She Really Does It

Join me this week and find out why it is okay not to be okay right now, and why it doesn't mean you are weak, ill, or doing something wrong. I'm showing you how to meet yourself where you are, acknowledge your own status and take care of yourself, and sharing the importance of giving yourself permission to feel your feelings.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3gQ0v0B

In this episode, I'm showing you how to start looking for other possible endings to the things you want in your life and giving you a new perspective to help you overcome the loss of what didn't happen. Discover some key learnings you can implement to help you overcome when something doesn't happen that you want, and how to start seeing alternative outcomes that you aren't currently thinking about...

In this episode, I'm showing you how to bust the old stories and beliefs you have about yourself and replace them with new ones. Discover what exactly it takes to integrate what you've learned, how to remind yourself over and over about what you're committing to believe about yourself, and how to allow yourself to be in your true beliefs so you can create the results you want.   Get full show note...

In this episode, I'm sharing what meaningful work really looks like and the importance of letting go of the magical endings and happily-ever-afters. I'm giving you some examples of magical thinking, the problem with stealth expectations, and where you can really find purpose and meaning in your life.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3EUZyhK

In this episode, I'm sharing more about a recent experience where I had some anxiety that caught me by surprise. Discover 3 key learnings from my recent solo trip to Italy, some effective tools to help you the next time you experience resistance or anxiety, and how to focus on the next step you can take in a situation where you feel anxious.   Get full show notes and more information here: https:/...

How She Really Does It is celebrating its 16 th birthday, and to celebrate, I am joined this week by the woman behind the podcast: Trudi Roth.   Trudi is a writer, community leader, and meditation teacher. She is an incredible woman and long-time friend of mine, so join us this week to hear more about her and her amazing work, the story of where How She Really Does It began, and the impact we have...

In this episode, I'm sharing what can happen when we finally have the space to rest and how to deal with your brain telling you all the things you should or shouldn't be doing or that you are wasting time. Discover the importance of tranquility and how to get comfortable with it, and the importance of having space to relish in the feeling of doing nothing.   Get full show notes and more informatio...

How often do you stop yourself from doing something because you think other people aren't allowing you to do it? Where in your life do you not give yourself your own permission? This week, I'm encouraging you to own your voice and put forward what you need, regardless of what other people think.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3QWBzkF

Listen in this week as I share the concept of the highlight reel and show you where it might show up in your life. I'm showing you why we need to stop judging ourselves and comparing our lives to what we see in other people's highlight reels, and why what you see in the highlight reels is always only part of the story.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3S4FVXE

In this episode, I'm sharing the metaphor of a suitcase and how this can help you understand how to manage boundaries. Discover how to get comfortable with the uncomfortable, accept that there is always going to be tension when it comes to managing boundaries, and how to take the appropriate lessons from every situation.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3evJ5Fy

In this episode, I'm sharing a metaphor from the pool to help you with flowing with life vs. struggling to survive in your own life. I'm showing you how to give yourself the space to breathe and the importance of doing so, and how to develop the skill sets necessary to get into the flow of your life.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3bSMMUZ

Join me this week as I'm sharing some ways you can develop trust and create a better relationship with yourself. Hear why learning to be reliable for ourselves is not something most of us have been taught to do, and how to learn to cultivate more trust with yourself and always have your own back.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3CbdanA

In this episode, I'm helping you get perspective on what you're really desiring and longing for in your life and showing you how to take agency over your life. Discover some ways of incorporating those carefree elements into your daily structure to give you the freedom and relief you crave from the summer of 11, and the benefits of doing so.   Get full show notes and more information here: https:/...

Join me this week as I share some tips and guidance to help you if you feel like it's your job to rescue everyone and solve everyone else's problems. Learn how to stop indulging in other people's responsibilities and focus only on your own, and some great quality questions to ask yourself to help with this work.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3QhlpST

In this episode, I'm helping you create an awareness of what you need right now, so you can develop the capacity to deal with any situation. We're unpacking another way to approach the question 'What's wrong with me?' and showing you how to give yourself what you need right now to fill yourself up.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3d5FjlF

In this episode, I'm sharing what it might look like to make things harder than they need to be and showing you why just because you  can  do hard things, doesn't mean you have to. Hear the reasons we might make things harder for ourselves and why there are so many problems with doing so.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3cQKdTu

This week, I'm encouraging you to let go of the story that there are people who are successful and people who are not, and start seeing why everybody has things that they are going through. I'm showing you how to realize that we are all living paradoxes, and helping you shine a light on things you may not see in others.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3ySfzAd

This week I'm sharing a useful tool to help you manage your finances and have the money set aside to buy things that light you up. I'm showing you how to get into the practice of putting money aside for the things you want, and why it can be truly fun to spend the money you have set aside for yourself.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3yFhTdV

In this episode, I'm sharing an example of what is possible when we have the mental, emotional, and physical space to try something that may be outside of what we practice. Discover the the importance of committing to the best-case scenario, how to unpack the obstacles you see, and why we should always give ourselves space to achieve.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly...

Listen in this week as I encourage you to consider what you can make easy so you have the energy, resilience, and wherewithal to get through the hard. Hear why just because you can do hard things doesn't mean you have to, and the importance of knowing when to work on the things you need to overcome and when you can allow things to be easy.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://b...

How do you want to live your life? What do you want life to look like? In this episode, I'm sharing the power of windows of possibility and how opening up to them can create a huge change in your life. I'm sharing some experiences of this in my own life and encouraging you to open up to windows of possibility in yours.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3Acjo5R

What are you waiting for? So often, we know what we want, but we tell ourselves, "Someday, but not right now." On today's show, I'm sharing how to see the specific areas you're holding back in your life, what you want to take action on, and why simply making decisions about what's important to you is the most amazing catalyst for taking extraordinary care of yourself.   Get full show notes and mor...

We don't ask for what we want because we think it's not important. We think we're not important, and we are so afraid of vulnerability that we don't allow ourselves to have space for joy. So in this episode, I'm sharing why you are innately worthy exactly as you are. I'm showing you how to stop playing small, start taking up space in your own life, and start asking for what you want.   Get full sh...

I'm sharing what it looks like to be a taker of our bodies, and some examples of how to be a giver instead. I'm sharing some ways you can give to your bodies and take exquisite care of yourself, and how to ignore the cultural programming and prioritize what feels good for you.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3lZzGql

In this episode, I'm sharing what I've learned over recent years and some of the changes I'm making in my life as I turn 50. Hear how I have started to become the woman who is taking extraordinary care of herself, how I stopped buying into societal expectations, and why you should stop waiting to be found and start owning what you want in your life.   Get full show notes and more information here:...