How Married Are You?

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we talk about if therapy is actually worth it and if it's a good idea to use it in preparation for marriage. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message t...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we talk about the deep work that Yvette at a retreat and how it changed our marriage, and we dive into how important it is to pursue therapy. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked b...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , we discuss knowing your weight and the weight that your partner carries and understanding what they go through as an individual. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or reco...

We dive into the idea of balance in our busy lives! Is it even possible?  Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY instagram page (also linked below) to let us...

You may have noticed our new logo since we've been back. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , we share about the rebrand we went through while we were away. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an aud...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , we discuss when it is appropriate to give up on your own dreams for the betterment of your marriage! Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our D...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , we discuss what it's like to fall short and fulfill your spouses needs and expectations. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , we discuss what it's like to be in a relationship with a people pleaser. The article referenced: Signs You're a People Pleaser Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , we use cards we were gifted from Kevin ( @KevOnStage ) and Melissa ( @MrsKevOnStage ) Fredericks from their Marriage Be Hard book to answer questions posed for intentional connection. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Sen...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we respond to a DM from someone asking us to help them convince their significant other that marriage is a good idea. Listen in as we discuss who benefits the most from marriage. Make sure you listen to the ENTIRE episode before turning it off. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with...

We FOUND THE LIST!!! Glen has referred to the list he wrote when dating with intention. He dug it out of the archives, and in this episode we share 7 steps to creating your own list. Let us know what you think! Create your own list HERE ! Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it'...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , our conversation surrounds an article (linked below) that seems to have everyone talking. It's basically highlighting the rise of saying, "Men need to address their deficits to meet healthier relationship expectations." Listen in as we chime in on the conversation. Let us know in the comment section what you think!    The Article: https://www.psycho...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we talk loads. Who's carrying more weight? Does it even matter? This was a really great discussion on comparing the weight each partner is carrying in your relationship. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemai...

In this episode, we share how therapy has impacted our marriage and our personal lives. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY instagram page (also linked below)...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we continue to share where we've been, what we've done and some growth notes along the way. We are so excited to be reunited with our wedding party. Welcome black y'all!!! Xo! Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a vo...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share where we've been, what we've done and some growth notes along the way. We are so excited to be reunited with our wedding party. Welcome black y'all!!! Xo! Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on t...

We apologize in advance for the audio. We were not using our usual set up for this episode. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we sit down and reflect on some thangs. Tune in for a special announcement! Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , we discuss consumer versus covenantal relationships. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked b...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss whether or not to celebrate a milestone birthday, snitching on our brothers and whether or not it's a sister's place to address her brother's purity issues. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we...

In today's episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we take to the deck of "The { } And" cards to help drive our conversation. Things that come up are who loves whom the most and hypothetical scenarios of what we'd do if the other cheated. Let's just say this conversation was very revealing. The sermon Yvette references: https://youtu.be/vhJJnsgpCZ8 Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: htt...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we chime in on being in a relationship with an entrepreneur as well as the value of transparency in dating relationships. Listen in and let us know what you think. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we sha...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share why we had to take an unexpected break. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss being in love with work versus finding love, waiting (or not) until after college to get married and processing trauma of childhood. It feels good to be back! Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we basically give you one large "Chocolate Baby Story Time." Enjoy! 😊 Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the an...

In this episode Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY instagram page (als...